Do men care about their girlfriends past?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Some people will care, but I'm not calling, in fact, it's nothing, as long as I didn't do it too much before, it's like being an escort, who didn't make a mistake or two when I was young, mainly after watching, I saw that there was a fart before ah, if you were calling, I don't think there are many people who can find a wife in this society.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    How much, if he is suspicious, he will think a lot, just like me, hey... It's good to care, if you don't care, no matter what you do in the future, it may be a play, personal opinion.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's a little bit, but some people don't care too much, as long as it's not too much.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Some people care.

    But what he wants to do more is to be able to change you, whether it's good or bad, and once he knows your past, he'll make a decision in the boy's mind.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Care, maybe he doesn't say. But I care.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Everyone has a past and a present. Men and women are equal. It mainly depends on a person's present.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If he really loves you, he will cherish the present moment that loves you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If he really loves you, I don't think he cares, it's not up to me to decide what I know.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't tell him, even if you know, don't admit it, it's a very boring question, everyone has their own shortcomings, but still have to find their own happiness.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A guy actually cares about his girlfriend's past, but if he really loves his girlfriend, it doesn't matter what his girlfriend's past tense looks like. The other party cares, probably because they want to participate in the other party's past, and they regret why they didn't meet their girlfriend earlier. I don't think any boy will care about his girlfriend's past at all, and if anything, he can only say that he doesn't like his girlfriend.

    If you love someone, you will accept all of him, I feel that this sentence is not so correct, loving someone is going to accept all of him, but our hearts will be uncomfortable, and some things are really unacceptable. Everyone's requirements and bottom line are different, so you can't generalize. But a boy who loves girls, he cares more about the other party's past.

    Caring about a person's past does not mean that they will dislike the other person, but because they feel that why they did not show up in the first place, why did they give others the opportunity to hurt their girlfriend? This kind of boy is actually a boy who can be relied on, and a boy who dislikes his girlfriend is a scumbag. <>

    It's normal to think that you care, and if you really don't care, then it can only say that he doesn't like the two of you together. Before we fall in love, we must make it clear to each other all our circumstances, whether the other party can accept it is the other party's business, but whether we say it or not, don't always deceive the other party. As long as it is a deception, it will be discovered by others one day, and the damage may be greater at that time, so it is better to tell the other party all the truth of the matter at the beginning and let the other party make their own decisions.

    I hope that all girls can protect themselves when they are in love, if this person loves you very much, he can accept your past, the two of us can give it a try, but if this person can't accept our past, don't think about changing each other, otherwise you will only become more and more humble.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think if he really loves you, he won't care about your past, after all, no matter what happened in the past, it was all in the past, cherishing the present is a better choice, blindly looking at the past, will only make your feelings more and more conflicted.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Most boys don't care about their girlfriend's past, because they value the future more and the girl's character and character. I think this kind of thing needs to be different from person to person, and it needs to be discovered in the process of getting along with each other.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    doesn't care about his girlfriend's past, he only cares about the relationship between the two people in the present.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Answer, from the description analysis, most of the boys are shouting that they will care, but there is no way to do it, because Zheng Hanshu didn't know her at that time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't really mind if I just listen to him, after all, the other party will care about my feelings. But if you really see it, you care. So a lot of things need to be resolved by yourself.

    It depends on what that period of the past means to you, and what this person means to you, if you feel that the past is greater than the person himself, break up, this is a sign of insecurity, often communicate with the other party the true thoughts in your heart, and take the initiative to eliminate the unstable factors in the hearts of two people.

    If he tells you in the slightest, it proves that he likes you very much, is unwilling to deceive you, and wants to be with you forever!Since you mind, don't be together, otherwise there will always be a pimple in your heart, and there will be a rift between the two, since you can't trust each other, let each other be free.

    In fact, everyone has a past, no matter what happened before, Na Zai Xi can't change it, and now he doesn't mind his past, or because his performance doesn't make you completely reassured, but it also shows that there is his weight in your heart, but as for the status quo that you can't accept, you have to think about it yourself, what kind of other party you want more.

    Since you have decided to be with him, you have to accept his past, the past things that none of us can change, only the future and tomorrow can be changed. As long as he treats you well now, you can start over with a single branch, and at the beginning of people, the sex is not good. You treat each other with sincerity and believe that he is the same.

    If you care about each other's past very much, you shouldn't walk together, living together is also very painful, you have to treat it with a good attitude, everyone will have a past, that is, you can't think about it, if you can't let go, I think you will have a very hard time in the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This must vary from person to person! Some people may not care, but I think most men will care more or less about it! The reasons can be analyzed from the following aspects.

    1. Want to know each other's past so that you can understand each other.

    This point is generally asked out of curiosity, and it is also through another way to understand each other, for example, if you have not been in love, it means that the girl has a simpler personality, introverted, or a stricter family education; If you have been in several relationships, it means that the girl may not take the relationship very seriously, of course, the specific situation is divided into different sections. In the end, the original intention is good, but if the girl is more mindful of mentioning the previous emotional experience, then I will not force the girl to say it, after all, the past can only represent the past, and the two people together mainly depend on the present and the future.

    2. There is a habit of cleanliness and does not like girls with rich emotional histories.

    I believe that many boys will have this. Who doesn't want their girlfriend to be their first love, they are each other's only, past, present, and future, a serious limb posture is a cleanliness fetish, although modern society is very open to emotional issues, there are not too many ancient traditional ideas, but more or less there will still be some boys who have some kind of complex, I can't wait to hope that all the first times of their girlfriends are their own, this idea itself is not wrong, as long as boys can be strict with themselves, Then there is nothing wrong with asking your partner to do the same.

    Taking a step back, some people just don't like girls with rich emotional histories, preferably not once, such girls are more simple, so that boys have a desire to protect, so this kind of boy will care more about his girlfriend's past, and can't wait to know all the experiences of the other party, of course, the most important thing is to look at each other's feelings, if you really like each other, then many things that you don't want to accept can also be accepted, after all, loving a person can be changed for each other.

    Finally, I would like to give you a piece of advice: since you have chosen to be together, you must look forward to everything, no matter how her past has changed, only the future belongs to you, I wish everyone happiness.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Won't care about TA's past. If you mind, you can't love him wholeheartedly. Mind refers to taking things that make people unhappy to heart.

    When you mind a person's past, state that person's past is something that makes you unhappy. Whether these things are his fault or not, they will leave a gap in your heart, even a shadow.

    If you care a lot about the people or things he has met in the past, your heart will not be able to love him 100% anymore. In the future, when you face him, you will be very entangled and painful, and while you enjoy his kindness to you, you will also think from time to time, did he also treat others so well before? Did he treat me like the one he used to be?

    In the matter of love, I am most afraid of suspicion and crankiness.

    And there is a characteristic of human psychology, there are some things, when you don't care about it, it slowly disappears; But if there is one thing that has left a deep mark on your heart, the more you let yourself not care, the clearer it will be in your memory. So in response to this question, from the point of view of love, it is like this: if you love him, then you certainly don't mind his past; If you mind his past, you won't be able to love him anymore.

    If you mind his past, it will make him very painful to mind this, not only will it cause you a certain amount of pain, but it will also make him very painful. You don't mind his past, there will be some manifestations to a greater or lesser extent, sometimes it is an attitude of wanting to be detached, sometimes it will be asked often, and he will be sensitive to the fact that you are very concerned about those things.

    His original intention of teasing the silver stool to tell you about the past is to let you see the real him, and he is not willing to hide anything from his loved ones, and he hopes that after hearing about these mountain travel things, you can rationally consider whether you accept his past. If you don't accept it, then don't get along anymore, the deeper and longer you love, the more painful it will be when you leave; If you can accept it, then he hopes that the past will not affect your future happiness.

Related questions
34 answers2024-05-28

She's so honest in exchange for so much of your concern

There will be no happiness for those who hold on to the past >>>More

31 answers2024-05-28

In fact, everyone loves face very much, I believe that the landlord is the same, if you give you material satisfaction, you want to marry the most ugly person in the world, I think you still don't want to, pay attention to appearance is the same, if you don't dress up every day, you will not be able to stand it. >>>More

5 answers2024-05-28

I'm a woman, but assuming I'm a man, I might mind my girlfriend's past, but that won't be the point, the point is that she's with me now. >>>More

37 answers2024-05-28

If you don't care, it means that she and Ben don't love you >>>More

8 answers2024-05-28

That I'm a woman.,It should be okay.,I think it.,You shouldn't break up with C.,Your girlfriend cares about your past and she cares about you.,You can persuade her.,Tell her that you only love her.,Let it pass in the past.,Maybe you can coax her or something.,If the two really don't get along.,It's just....Take your time anyway...Can't be in a hurry....