Your sincerity is exchanged for betrayal, how will you fight back?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-27
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    If my sincerity is exchanged for betrayal, I will first make up my mind to leave such a person, and if it hurts me very badly, I will make a noise for a while, at least to discredit the other person.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If I am sincere to him, but he betrays me, I will choose to divorce him, and the child will be mine, and let him fend for himself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In exchange for betrayal, of course, I chose to divorce! It's a pity that some marriages are not easy to divorce! I sigh that a man with three can be a man if he can be good and scattered! The dog-stuff that doesn't leave the dead skin must love himself!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Don't trust him anymore, seize the time to find a way back for yourself, and prepare for the worst.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Then don't want this relationship, after all, sincerity still has to be left to those who know how to cherish it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Everyone's personality is different, some people will choose the most extreme way, some people will only cry silently, and I personally belong to the latter.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    More than four months have passed, and I still have no reason to think of the person who pushed me into the abyss, and I really don't know how long it will take to heal this wound.

    Hate doesn't matter anymore, I just want to live my life well, dig out him and everything related to him in my heart, completely, without leaving a trace of it. But the city was too small to hide from his name, news, or even figure.

    Even when I hear a word with the same sound as his name, I feel sick for a while, not to mention the thought of his wistful face, there are really people in this world who can make you sick for years, and eating flies is not so influential.

    I don't understand why people who have known each other for more than six years, who trust people very much, rely on this trust to eat the grass on the edge of the nest. I don't understand why people who obviously want to prostitute for nothing have to stage affectionate dramas. I don't understand why the person who splits the leg of the Yuzao can still deny it with eloquence and beat a rake.

    Finally, the moment when I couldn't hide his fierce face, I saw it completely clearly, this is his true face.

    It is said that "there is reincarnation in the way of heaven", but why does he live well without any guilt, why is it that they hurt me but I am powerless to fight back, why can he continue to roll green tea with a righteous look. If there is cause and effect, I would like to see it.

    I trusted him and treated him sincerely, but in exchange for deception and betrayal.

    The pain of being deceived is far greater than the fact of being cheated, and I am afraid to ask myself why countless times in the night when no one is around. I just want a real answer, a face-to-face breakup, a sincere apology.

    It's not terrible to break up, but it's terrible to see when you break up, witnessing the most filthy and hideous side of a person, and what's even more sad is that this unbearable person feels that he has no fault, and he still has to show off his might in front of you, with a look of "what can you do to me".

    In this world, can people still trust, can they still treat each other sincerely, and can they still have expectations for love?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You have to know how to communicate your expectations to the other party, and only by letting him know that you want him to concentrate on returning to the family and then be faithful to your marriage, can he really understand your needs and understand whether some of his personal actions make you feel inappropriate and unsafe. In addition, the interaction between you expressing your real experiences and perceptions as his, will also ease your inner state of mind and help everyone more likely to agree.

    All in all, if you have an idea, you need to communicate, and if you have an experience, you need to express it, and you need to act more to your expectations, so that you can realize that everyone is associated with changes under your behavior, and you can't passively accept that you have been waiting to send a signal of change. Behavior will also give you a sense of control, and a sense of control will also give you the power to help reduce negative understanding.

    After the tolerant rebellion, two people have a lot of common responsibilities due to marriage and family, and there must be interaction, communication, and discussion in the process. And your relationship is actually inseparable from these interactions, and I will work hard to achieve what should be done to repair the relationship in this exchange.

    For example, if you have any problems getting along with each other in the past, you are too strong, or you are too independent, after you are together again, you have to change the status quo in these aspects; Balance the shortcomings between two people as much as possible, and will not repeat the previous difficult ways. Learn to let go of expectations and join in the process of tinkering, so that you can analyze your relationship more concretely along with emotional trends. In the same way, your actions will give you a sense of control, helping you to slowly stay sober and see the problems you face in real needs, rather than defining the state of your marriage with unrealistic expectations as you did at the beginning.

    After doing the first few steps, you have to understand that many things cannot be carried out exactly according to your intentions, your partner may not know how to reconcile, and your partner may not understand that you will be reconciled in the form you expect, and the next thing you have to do is to accept. You have done everything you can, you have replaced your expectations with deeds and done diligence, the next thing you have to do is to accept, if he knows how to reconcile as before, you will be happy; If he doesn't know how to reconcile, you don't have to be cold, you have already done what you should do, and you have no regrets.

    Treat your partner kindly, treat yourself with kindness, and by taking action and effort in the three-step process here, you are the one who changes the most. You will have a more active sense of managing your life, you will know how to be more diligent for the life you want to live, you will know how to treat conclusions with a good attitude, you will learn to let go of expectations of your partner, and you will have a deeper understanding of your life direction and quality of life.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Read more books. Exercise more. Work hard to earn money. Enrich your inner world. Don't be discouraged, be confident. More contact with excellent members of the opposite sex.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In the face of betrayal, don't be nostalgic, there are only two best choices: 1: If you are still in love, then find a way to make the other half turn back; 2: If you don't love it, stop it in time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You must first see how much property the other party has, and you also need to ask your children who they want to follow, and you need to ask for the money that your husband gave to her lover.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Do you feel like she still has feelings for you? If not, I think it's better to let it go, it will hurt a lot at first, and after the pain, you will think back to your obsession with her, and you will laugh inadvertently, you know how to do it, very sarcastic.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Give it up, it's not worth it, the essence is clear, it's being used anyway, she doesn't love you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You'd better give her a chance to explain!! She won't let you go because she still has you in her heart!! So you two calm down and have a good talk!!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What are you calming down, sweeping the floor out.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In this case, of course, it would be a breakup.

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