How do I make my boyfriend what he wants him to be?

Typical gnawing old people, rich for no more than three generations, don't you think he is the third generation of their family's wealth. Your boyfriend was definitely doted on when he was a child, and everything at home was arranged by his parents. When will the parents be gone, (hypothetically) on whom?

If you ask him what he thinks of him, he will be distracted, and he will show that he has no ambitions and only wants to be comfortable now. This person is not yet mature, and his age and body and mind have not developed synchronously, and he still thinks about what he would do when he went to college. I guess he used to look for a job, quit for various reasons, and was at home.

The house was bought with the family's money, and he wanted to take the family property in the future and live a life of relying on the mountains and eating the mountains. It must be caused by his frustration and dare not face it since he was a child. There are always parents who come out, and it eventually becomes a kind of thinking inertia.

If you want to say that this man is unreliable, if he is not reliable, will you love him, will you leave him? Now everyone says he's unreliable, but the fact that you're still with him means you want him to be converted. After all, you have feelings that are difficult to let go, and it is not something that can be divided all at once, and memories, good memories are difficult to erase.

If you want to cheer him up, you have to make him understand that when you get married in the future, he is the pillar of the family, and he not only needs to earn money to support the family, but also to take responsibility and educate the next generation. Say all these things to him, and if he acts like a man, he will stand up and contradict you. I have to promise you.

What are the signs of a mature man? What I found from my life, the first thing is to have a plan, to consider a lot, especially the negative factors, the second, not to promise easily, the promised things must be done, if you can't do it, don't promise, the seemingly simple one many people can't do, why, because there is a sense of accomplishment in Kuahaikou, enjoy the excuse to shirk. If he still has the fighting spirit, he has to promise you like a man, and he can't change his current self within a specified period of time, then you are thinking about leaving this child who has not grown up.

In short, observe for a while, and let him promise to take his mobile phone to record his promises, and when the time comes, whether he can do it or not, he will listen to it. If you didn't do it, you walked with confidence, and it made him regret not cherishing you. In the last sentence, a partner is not a piece of clothing, and it is not as simple as a "change" word.

It's like Huang Xiaohu's song: It's not that simple......

27 is still idle, how can you trust it for life, one word "change".

There's no need to change for anyone Honey If you change, it's not really you Believe in yourself There are such men who can't be relied on While you are still young If there is no goal in a person's life, then this person has no direction in his life He is now 27 It's too late to work hard He has missed the best time in his life Of course, if you want to fight with him He wants to struggle.

It's true to choose by yourself, you think about it yourself, whether you suffer with him or find someone better than him, others can't help you.

Children who don't grow up are worth your reliance?You have to think about yourself, such a person is not worth your life. It's hard to change someone, but if he really loves you, he will be willing to work hard for you.

If you love him very much and can't do without him, give him reminders, encouragement and subtle education from all aspects.

In marriage, it is best not to change each other, try to adapt to each otherWhen everyone feels comfortable, the marriage can continue. If one party insists on making the other party change, and the other party feels uncomfortable with such a school-only way of getting along, it will be difficult to go on.

There is no one in this world who will meet all your requirements, you always point out that there is such and such a place where you are not used to the other party, of course, the other party also has some places that are not used to you, if you don't touch the bottom line, don't try to change the other party. Don't say it's a partner, even your own children, you will feel that there are many things that you can't tolerate, and the children are still taught by yourself, right, they don't necessarily listen to you. Not to mention a spouse?

You grew up in different environments, and there must be many different ways of life, and only by accommodating and tolerating each other can you go on calmly.