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1.Don't quarrel with your husband, respect your husband. I really don't know how to do it, so I treat my husband as my leader. How to get along with the leader, how to get along with the husband. (If you decide, don't change, it's difficult for a changeable woman to gain the trust of a man).
2.It is forbidden to ask questions when the couple is talking, and it is better to ask only once (think clearly about what you are asking). People don't like to be questioned, one is very brain-consuming, energy-consuming, and annoying, and the other is like being interrogated.
The most annoying thing is the sentence "I ask what's wrong, I can't ask." In the relationship between husband and wife, it is really "not okay to ask".
3.Develop your hobbies. Wives should not do housework all day long (don't say, I don't do housework, who will do it), but develop their hobbies, learn more, and enrich themselves. You can talk to your husband about what you have gained through hobbies and learning.
If you can do it, it's basically relaxed. To completely solve the problem of the relationship between husband and wife, find a marriage counselor, emotional coach, training, and learn how couples develop love and build a family.
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Communication, both parties say what they really think, regardless of the outcome, and respect each other's choices.
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Hello, do you have any questions, can you tell me more specifically, can I help you?
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Someone below said that it's okay, I used to have similar friends like this, my choice depends on myself, after all, how to say, to say something selfish, he is not my father and my mother, I have no obligation to support him, don't misunderstand, help me can help you, but it has always been me to help and can't help him, if he holds a grudge, I think it's better to break off friendship, friends are supposed to help each other, when you encounter trouble, you need to understand each other, understand each other, you are considerate of him, And he really doesn't understand him, then he can't talk about the word friend, let alone any relationship, and the most important thing is that he doesn't even trust each other, not to mention, his one-sided words may be very powerful, but, if you judge, his approach is similar to looking for you if there is something, and if you don't see anyone if you have anything, you can only say that he is using you, to be honest, in this society, many people make the help between friends necessary, so, you ask in turn, you treat him like this, what will he do?
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Do you think you should make this kind of friend? You didn't say what happened to your friends? After you tell your friend what kind of situation you can know, you can only know if you can have a relationship with him, or if you can continue to date, you can't make friends.
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You've already given someone else a predestined pattern.
The more you plead in this situation, the more others will look down on you. You can't live without them, but you can still live well without them.
You both have problems in this regard, as a friend, you don't say good things for them, but you still say bad things about them behind your back? It's that you don't talk about morality first, that's one of them. Also, don't you look at the object when you speak?
Some words are not suitable for everyone, and if you don't even have this sense of prevention, you can only be unlucky, which is the second thing.
And your friend A is too stingy, being friends with such a person is suitable for a while and not for a lifetime, can you be sure that you will not offend her after being a friend? In addition, her methods are too much, and she is vindictive, so she has to be careful when being friends with her.
In fact, there are many solutions, let me give you a few examples, you can choose according to your own situation.
Let time dilute everything.
Don't beg them anymore, ignore any attacks and snubs on them, but you can't cultivate this kind of city at your age.
The most effective way is to find someone who is more capable than them to be friends, such as a top student or a more influential person, and you must first have the skills to socialize. Everyone has a cheap mentality, and when they see that you are much better than them, the psychology of bullying the good and fearing the evil will come out, and it is possible to slowly reconcile with you.
Don't use all of the above small means, I don't recommend going to extremes, don't be friends with some gangsters to improve yourself, the gains outweigh the losses.
If you're satisfied, remember to adopt.
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Hello, I'm a boy, I know that boys have a strong desire when they see girls, maybe it's his impulse to kiss you, especially when the two of you are alone at night, this impulse is irresistible.
Also, you are very beautiful, especially at night, and he thinks you are too charming, so he can't control the strong desire in his heart.
In addition, it is normal for your boyfriend to kiss you, don't take this as a very serious problem, and after kissing, he will be closer to you and better for you, after all, he has not done something out of the ordinary to you. Forgive him, just face it calmly.
Finally, maybe he's going to make sexual demands on you. Be careful, this is the girl's last line of defense! Don't fall for boys!
This is the biggest mistake made by many men, once he succeeds, maybe he will like the new and hate the old, which not only hurts yourself, but also hurts other men! If he asks questions, or forcibly asks for sex, he must decisively refuse! Remember!
Small request: I'm still a newbie, can I give a little bounty points!
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You said she was with another girl, did you mean Lala? If that's the case, I think it's understandable, imagine that the man wants his woman to get very close to other men, and Lala is the same.
It may be that the woman is more mindful that you are too close to your friend, so your friend is in a dilemma when the woman is there. I think she still cares about you as a friend, otherwise she wouldn't have to be embarrassed to choose her lover directly.
When many people choose, they choose to hurt their friends and fulfill others. Because we know that friends won't mind, and we know that friends will be considerate; And other people may not be considerate of us, which is also the other way of understanding that friends are betrayed.
Of course, if they weren't Lala, then the friend would be broken.
If a confidant dies, six years of affection, if you can keep it, keep it. Your problem is not with you, but with the woman. Talk to your friend, and you also talk to the woman, telling her that you and your friend only have friendship and no other ambiguity.
Let's talk to that woman more, go out with more than 3 people, don't always be alone with 2 people, just establish a good relationship with that woman. You guard your friendship, and she defends her love.
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Everything is a trifle, everything will pass.
Is your high school the same? Well.. I think you're worried about your friend so much because you care about him, so why don't you ask him directly. >>>More
You are so realistic, and you already have your answer in your heart, you don't need us to say it, I know my answer will not be the best, but I want to explain, since you have your ideas and your decision, don't come here to ask, we said let you continue to do you, not to mention that we are not you, love or not is not a question you consider at all, you just hope that we say let go, so that you will leave the peace of mind, you are looking for spiritual sustenance for yourself, maybe it is not right, if I say it wrong, you will be when I haven't said it.
Everyone has their own space, you should give your boyfriend space, you go to his text messages, it's really self-inflicted. Don't worry too much about it. After all, he's your boyfriend now.
How long a person's life is, no one can know what will happen in the future, in this case, what is the meaning of all promises? Therefore, let's not pay too much attention to the alliance, and don't care too much about the eternity, as long as we can have or are having it! Grasping and cherishing the present is the most important thing!
Don't tell, at least you're still friends. They're private, and you have a chance to see them. Otherwise, I wouldn't even have friends.