Break up before marriage, who is wrong, break up before marriage, who is to blame?

What a widow's year, feudal superstition! It is recommended that you reunite and enter the marriage hall, and you don't have to care too much about what relatives and friends say ......Marriage is a matter for the two of you, and it is none of their business that their happiness cannot be affected because of this. Breaking up now is just a gamble ......If you really love each other, I'm sure you'll still be together.

I wish you all happiness.

Actually, it's not a big problem, your boyfriend is more wary. To put it bluntly, I am afraid of pain.

It's not entirely a matter of money, after all, my wife's family is not my own. What he was afraid of was getting hurt.

Look at how many movies show the groom running away before getting married and the bride committing suicide.

I guess that's what he's afraid of.

It's ridiculous, a man is afraid of getting a certificate because he is afraid that you will share his property in the future divorce.

Divide it, such a man is not worth marrying!

Isn't it good to see clearly?

I turned my face with you for money, and I didn't even want my favorite wife... So what else is there to say!

It's better than getting a license and getting a divorce!

That's a good thing!!

There is no one right or wrong!

Fate is so tormenting!

He lacks basic legal knowledge!

You're too easy to get angry!

Do you love him? If you love him, that's the stupid question! Think more about him yourself! Maybe ask him to take so much money out! Hard!

Impulsiveness is the devil!! It must be the insurance of the certificate, and the relationship between the husband and wife is protected by the law, and if the certificate is not obtained, even if the ceremony is held, it is only a cohabitation relationship at best. But then again, don't want such a budget-conscious man, what husband and wife need is trust, and they start to make small calculations before they get married, so it's good to divide it!!

Don't let such people trust you very much.

Divide it, divide it, no one is right or wrong in love, only suitable and unsuitable.

When the two sides discussed the bride price, they did not communicate in line with the search for a solution, but stood on their own positions, trying to persuade each other and let the other party satisfy themselves, which led to their failure to see the original intention of the two families clearly, and regarded the objective difficulties as deliberate embarrassment of the other party, which also led to a crisis of trust between the two.

The establishment of a family is the formation of a community of interests between two people, and you and I have become "we".

However, at the stage of talking about the bride price, the two people represent the interests of the two families, and "we" are split into "your family" and "my family", and at this time, there is a conflict of interests.

If two people can see each other's feelings and mediate from them, instead of asking each other from their own perspective, it is easy to reach an agreement, but often many people will care about their own interests, the man will emphasize his self-esteem, and he does not want his parents to be affected, and the woman will emphasize that his parents care about him, and feel that his parents are afraid of being bullied, so he will want the attention of the man's family.

If two people are caught up in their own feelings and ignore each other's feelings, it will lead to problems in each other's feelings.

Things can get complicated when two families are mixed into two people's feelings. Each party will consider their own children from the perspective of their own children and emphasize the interests of their own children.

But in doing so, the emotions and attitudes of your parents will become the key elements, and the focus of both of you will shift to the emotions and attitudes of your parents, caught in the middle, and you don't know how to deal with them.

In fact, the essence of breaking up before marriage is not caused by external pressure, but the immaturity of the relationship between two people, which makes the conflict expand again and again, and the relationship is affected, so they will break up.

Both parties are willing to accept the truth of each other's scum and believe that two people will be happier and more fun together than one; are willing to give up everything for each other, and will only be loyal to one person from now on; are willing to break through the obstacles in front of them in order to become each other's family members and use each other as the fulcrum for the rest of their lives. Then, there is nothing that can stop you from going to the palace of marriage.

1. You must be able to accept the shortcomings of the other party. When is it good to get married? In the process of falling in love, many people only see each other's advantages, or just think that the other party can correct them later even if they have shortcomings, so they are in a hurry to get married.

If you have such thoughts, then you will definitely regret it after you get married, because marriage can wirelessly magnify each other's shortcomings. If you can't accept each other's shortcomings, then there will definitely be countless conflicts after marriage.

2. Whether both parties have psychological endurance. There is a big difference between getting married and being in love. After getting married, the trivial things of life will follow, at this time, the pressure of your life will suddenly increase, and if you don't have a good psychological capacity, you may be immersed in depression for a long time.

Also, can you work together in the face of difficulties? If you encounter difficulties during your relationship and do not resolve them, then in the future marriage, the difficulties will only go the other way.

3. Whether the goal of pretending to be a life is customized. The goal of life can be said to be a very important thing in a person's life, especially after two people get married. If you can't set a right goal in life, then your life will be very confused.

This confusion does not do any good to create a family. If you want two people to live well together, you must have your own goals to strive for, or have a simple plan for your life.

4. Whether you can be honest. Being honest in marriage is a very important thing. If two people are not honest and hide each other, it will only increase the contradiction between the two people, so that the two people no longer trust each other, and the most important thing in marriage is trust, so the two must pay attention to whether they can be honest with each other before marriage.

That shows that the two people have a lot of conflicts and problems, so they will break up before they get married.

The girl is handsome, hungry, smooth, beautiful and pure, self-esteem and self-conscious limbs, and I don't want to continue with you, buddy.

It may be that there is some sudden contradiction, or the contradiction that has accumulated in ordinary times has exploded at this time. It's also a good thing, it's better than after marriage.

There must be something wrong with that.