How to surpass yourself and break through yourself

You don't like to talk much, but if you're happy, that's your personality!! But apparently you feel that you don't like to talk and you are very distressed now, so you have to find a way to change!!

I think you have to build self-confidence first, and I infer that you're a person who doesn't have faith in anything, right? If so, start here, first discover your strengths, that is, what is stronger than others, so that others admire you, so that others are willing to take the initiative to communicate with you, so that you can say okay?

Second, when others are communicating, can you find a way to get involved? If others snub you, you yourself will never snub yourself, and you must find a way to participate in other people's discussions.

Not liking to talk is definitely not a matter of eloquence, it is a matter of psychology, do you agree??

I believe that one day when you discover that you have a lot of strengths, you will definitely want to talk to others, because this is the common denominator of our people! You tell me!!

Be sure to have confidence in yourself, that's the premise!

Secondly, no matter what you do now, you have to take it seriously, if you don't like to talk, it doesn't mean anything, don't think that everyone ignores you, don't close yourself off, this is the mentality you need, maybe everyone will like you very much, a smile is very important to you, and don't always think that you will be indifferent, people are the same, no one will take the initiative to greet you first, so you have to take the initiative! After a long time, you will naturally get better. Remember that smiling will be the first thing you say to someone else!!

I'm sure you'll do it!

Kindness.. Everyone who should say it has already said, look at your own concept of life a little more openly.

Practice is the main thing, but I still build a landlord to learn more books about marketing and interpersonal relationships before practice, I believe it will be helpful to you in practice.

First of all, don't say tomorrow to yourself. If it is said, it should also be said. Tomorrow will be better.

Tomorrow's sun will be redder. The first thing to do to surpass yourself is to keep learning. Only learning.

In order to have transcendence. Perseverance is also required. Confidence.

That's the only way. The future you are not a dream.

That's your character, why do you force it to change it?...Find something that works for you. The one that suits you is the best. ~

It's painful to do something against your will!

Do sales work or run business outside! Very.

Able to work on eloquence, manners, and more!

I agree with the idea upstairs that it is indeed good habits that can improve one's eloquence and mannerisms.

Learn more! Recharge yourself every day!

You can try to do business first.

And the best thing to do: public commitment!

Then you can conquer yourself very quickly.

In recent days, Gu Ai has bullied the screen.

Olympic champions, Stanford scholars, celebrities, etc., a girl who has almost all the advantages in one, has become the envy of the whole Internet for a while, especially girls. However, her background, family background, growth environment, and her own efforts are not something that ordinary girls can achieve.

It was said on the Internet that after Gu Ailing finished the second jump, her mother hit ** and told her that it would be enough to have a 1440, and it would be good enough to keep the silver medal. But Gu Ailing did not listen to her mother's words, but chose to break through herself and surpass herself, and finally won the gold medal with 1620.

As Gu Ailing said, "I'm not here to beat others, the last jump is to break through my own boundaries." "This spirit of continuous pursuit of self-transcendence is not only the sportsmanship of athletes, but also the same for people from all walks of life, no matter what we do, in order not to compare others, but to break through ourselves and surpass ourselves, to compare ourselves with our previous selves.

I was deeply moved by this spirit, and this spirit should also be what I want to pursue. In your own work, you must not be a monk for a day, let alone complain, but pursue progress and growth every day, constantly set phased goals for yourself, and go to you to achieve them. When participating in every activity or organizing every activity, don't care about other people's opinions, but ask yourself to improve compared to the last time, train yourself, temper yourself, and improve yourself!

When we have a brand new idea, in order to realize, we must meet three conditions, the first condition is that the idea must be able to be implemented, if the idea does not have any feasibility, it cannot be implemented by us.

The second condition is to have a group of people who are as capable as you.

The third point is to have a belief and a goal.

If we want to realize our value, we need to have a clear goal, and we need to have a clear goal to find a way to achieve it.

If you want to be what kind of person you want to become, you must have three conditions: the first is that you must have three conditions if you want to do something in your heart: the first is that you must do it; The second is the ability you use to do it; The third is that you are able to achieve a level of such ability.

If we know what we want to do before we can act, then we need to have a firm and persistent heart first. If we don't have this kind of belief in our hearts, we can't have a firm and persistent heart. Therefore, we will not be able to have a firm and persistent heart, and we will not be able to really take action.

Only when you establish such a belief in your heart can you achieve self-breakthrough, if you do not know how to act and have been immersed in waiting, it is naturally impossible to achieve a breakthrough, to achieve self-breakthrough.

When I first started learning to write, I always had the feeling that what I wrote was definitely useless, but as I slowly accumulated experience and knowledge, I realized that writing articles was not so difficult. Later, I found out that there was a solution to this problem, and that was that I started to practice every day and once a week.

The methods are as follows: 1. You need to correctly understand which game you are in and look at yourself;

2. It is necessary to develop good behavior habits, set goals for yourself, do things in a down-to-earth manner, and put an end to lofty ambitions;

3. Maintain self-confidence and do not blindly follow the herd. Do not necessarily follow things, and may not accept what you hear;

4. Establish a self-improvement character and shape the principles and standards for dealing with people;

5. Establish the quality of self-reliance, be good at summarizing and reflecting on yourself, and adjust your own state.

Don't put yourself in the way. When doing something, you need to anticipate the risks you will take in the future, but you should not be afraid, dare not face it, and dare not move forward. When faced with difficulties, it is easy to drain your energy by setting too many obstacles for yourself.

If we magnify the difficulties and make the ego small, it will be difficult to do one thing well.

You don't have to think too much, if you want to fight for a world, you have to go through a process of trial and error. Only when you go to the sea can you know how high the sky is and how deep the water is. With rational cognition, we can get closer to success.

In addition, there are many things that cannot be changed. Everyone stumbles along the way, and they don't always have to dwell on a failure and refuse to come out of that emotion.

Notes:

If you want to break through yourself, you don't need to think about it or ask others, and the most effective way is to prove your ability and value with actions.

It's actually very simple to see if a person is worthy: if someone needs you, you are valuable, and if you can do things, you are valuable. How much you can accomplish, how valuable you are.

Therefore, you can choose something that you are more sure of and meaningful to do, and then find a goal after you have done it.