The character of a boy who has been dependent on his grandparents since he was a child?

This kind of boy has a strong ability to stand on his own, and his appearance gives people a very independent feeling, and he can do it very well no matter how big or small, but his heart is lacking in love, and he should like to deal with people who are older than him. If you want to keep such a boy, you just need to give more attention.

The character of the boy who depends on Xiaoyu's grandparents is probably very obedient, and he is a very well-behaved boy! It should be very sensible.

Introverted. Children's childhood is very important, without the love of parents, because they grew up with their grandparents, without parental care, such boys are very introverted, they lack a sense of security and love, easy to suffer from gains and losses, but independent to be strong, expressive but a little inferior, feel different from the children around them.

Children's education is the parents, parents are absent, the most influential is the old people around them, the child's character also depends to a large extent on the elderly, the old man has a positive outlook, cheerful personality, good nature, the child follows such grandparents Shouxiang, the character will not be bad, the most wide fight may be more introverted, because a sound family and a single-parent family, there is still a certain difference, the nature is not bad, if the grandparents are not in a good mood, often say bad things about the child's parents in front of the child, The child's psychology is also affected by the negative coincidental conversation, and it may be more irritable, extreme, full of hatred in the heart, and he is unhappy since he was a child, so he destroys the child....

Although the boy was brought up by his grandparents, he will still be strong in terms of personality. Because they have some small problems brought by them, even if they have their own parents and some children will also have such problems, so I wonder who has nothing to do with it, how much fact-finding have you done before you dare to label this group here? Or is it all a negative image?

Those who say lawlessness, poor self-control, rebellion and selfishness, love fathers and mothers, what proof do you have to prove that these children are like this? And what evidence is there that these traits are caused by "being brought up by grandparents"?

Can you speak responsibly? Is it really okay to be disrespectful to others like that?

I have friends who grew up with my grandparents, as well as friends from single-parent families. It's true that they have some shortcomings of one kind or another, but I don't see any commonality or particularity in these shortcomings – I don't think they are because of their family environment.

I will also see these shortcomings in children from ordinary families.

These shortcomings are not the characteristics of children in these families, nor are they the only ones who have them.

Anyone who can't come up with evidence to support it and pretend to be clever BB and make arbitrary conclusions to smear this group is defined by me as having a defective brain and having an incorrect outlook. Above.

Commercial**Please contact the author for authorization, non-commercial**Please indicate the source. Personally, I think that a hundred people have a hundred personalities, can not say that the child's personality has changed, can only say that the grandparents brought up children have the following commonalities, in this grandparents are not derogatory, in real life there are many grandparents brought up by children who have successfully succeeded, in this grandparents with only refers to the parenting style, and, the shortcomings can not be concentrated on a baby, please do not sit down. 1.

Strong sense of dependence, with a tendency to gnaw on the old. Generally, the older generation takes care of the younger generation, and if they can not let the child do it, they will not let the child do it, and they will use their mouths and brains, so a child who has been arranged since childhood, his exploration and curiosity will be slowly worn out, of course, the same doting parents can also bring out such a child. 2.

The slow speed of knowledge update, for a simple example, children to 5-6 years old, basically every day will ask 100,000 why, as parents, do not know how to turn books, will check the Internet, grandparents will be a lot weaker with the help of tools, and the energy is much more limited. 3.Curiosity slowly lost, imagine if I am an old man, even if I am a full-time old man with a baby, my energy and physical strength are far inferior to young people, which means that parents can take the baby to see the sea in the distance, grandparents can only take the baby to see the community swimming pool, see more swimming pools, may not have the opportunity to broaden their horizons when they grow up, then they will think that there is only a swimming pool in the world.

This is an analogy, which means that grandparents are usually limited by physical fitness and physical strength, and there are not many that can be used on the baby. 4.It is more difficult to develop good habits.

Education is a long-term impact, equivalent to long-distance running, and the core is the formation of living habits, of course, I have also seen the good baby brought by grandparents, and I know what to do regularly every day. But most of them are indeed because the elderly do not have enough energy, or have no intention of cultivating, and there are some bad habits in life, which will inevitably affect the doll when they grow up.