Give me a few precautions and essentials for chatting with people

That's realized by one's own practice, and if you just talk about it, why bother about it.

In fact, one can summarize all your questions: "Respect for others is respect for yourself".

Try to discover the interests and hobbies of the person you are chatting with This is the key to opening the topic It would be better if you could find out in advance You can prepare earlier If you can't know in advance You have to try your best to discover your common hobbies Ambitions are okay Don't just talk to yourself Ask the person you are talking more about your opinion Remember not to look around when talking If you don't look into the eyes of the other person remember to be humorous Jokes made by people you don't know well should be moderate Don't be nervous.

It's important to learn to listen to others.

I hope you can comprehend these, a certain benefit--- first of all, you must be good at listening to others, this is very important, when communicating with others, listen carefully and carefully to others, you will be able to accurately understand and comprehend the ideas that others want to express, as well as the purpose of speaking, so that you can accurately express your own thoughts, express your own views, be able to communicate and communicate with others well, and achieve twice the result with half the effort; Secondly, we must learn to empathize, do everything to empathy, when encountering things, you might as well stand in the other party's perspective to think about the problem, starting from the other party, think about how the other party will think if we do this, and the consequences caused by this; The greatest danger of giving advice to people carefully is to give advice when others are not asking for it, and some people will refuse to take it, no matter how good the advice is, or how noble your original intentions are, if you insist on doing so, the relationship between you and them will be affected; If you say too much, you will lose, especially in a crowded situation, talk as little as possible, avoid inappropriate factors caused by inaccurate language expression, observe more, think more, and speak less; When encountering things, don't rush to express your opinions, develop the habit of thinking more, and think more about things; Be good at learning from the mistakes made by others. It is better to be drunk with all the people than to wake up for me!

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I think that the first thing to do is to be sincere, if you don't even have sincerity, you won't be able to do anything for a long time.

People with too sweet mouths, don't get too close to him!