Why is it so hard? Help me figure it out, right?

Then talk to your parents about love, which is very special, and since we've been in love for 12 years, we have to continue to love.

Your question is not something that can be explained and helped by one or two sentences.

It requires careful planning and execution.

If you're interested, add me along.

Now it's rotten. You just have to sell the copyright, I'm sorry what you said doesn't count. People are just using your ** fame. I watched it for less than ten minutes, I'm sorry I can't stand it, but it's still interesting to watch.

Preserve the evidence, prosecute! No problem,

I can help you, you keep a penguin.

Such a man is not responsible, huh? Separate from him for a while, he loves you, and he'll change.

Do you know why he was like that? Didn't you ask about the situation? Wouldn't it have been before?

You can ask him out for a walk.

First of all, under the contact test, if you are still in that case, you can discuss it directly with your family. See what to do.

If the personality is not compatible, it is better not to get married, at least you must choose carefully, if you are not married, you will not be able to go to the house if you are married.

In the future, it can only be like this, this kind of person is like this.

Playing cards is far more important than anything else, you have to be mentally prepared.

You are still young, you have a chance, don't give up the whole forest for the sake of a tree!!

Let's break up! If he still loves you, he will change for you, and if he doesn't love you, there is nothing you can do about it

I think marriage is a process of understanding and adapting If you can't understand and can't adapt, then it's not marriage The best one for yourself is the best The twisted melon is not sweet Maybe you have more concerns But life is not only one side Life is rich It is complex Love and happiness are simple How to turn life into happiness How to give up How to get How to make it worthwhile I don't want to break up in principle But if it's not suitable to be together, then quickly abolish Age is capital.

Hello, it may be more serious after marriage, life is like this, please look at it rationally!

You should have your own circle of life and don't rely on him completely, you can also let him experience your feelings.

You can change the bedroom! Nowadays, many university dormitories are divided into levels, and the expensive environment is good! Besides, new students can also come out to live in the school! And coming out is mainly to save money than in school.

I have no choice but to take care of myself and help myself Believe it, everything will be fine Give her encouragement and spiritual comfort is the best.

In addition, remind you that she is very helpless during this period of time, and if a male classmate can take good care of her, the relationship between the two of you will be in danger

I can understand the look of your parents I'm afraid that my daughter will suffer a loss I want to dispel your parents' doubts It's mainly on your boyfriend Your boyfriend's conditions are good Soar Raise your wife well, I think even if you and your boyfriend go to Afghanistan and Iraq, your parents don't mind, right? Of course, in this situation, you can't become fat in one breath, then you have to behave well in front of your parents, let them feel that you are doing well, give them the old people's mind, they still don't worry about you, as for where? I think **great potential**.

A competent wife can not only relieve her husband's boredom physically, but more importantly, mentally.

Don't be stupid, love is a wonderful thing, and no one can understand it.

First of all, you have to think about it from a positive point of view: You and your boyfriend are very much in love, and neither of you can live without each other.

But your parents' are also for our good, so we can't help but listen.

So, when you're in a good mood, sit down with your parents and have a good talk, and tell your parents what you're thinking.

What you think about love is different from what they think.

I think the best way is to communicate with your parents, and my parents also feel that they should find the right person, what age is this, they are all about free love, and sometimes I don't understand my parents, but in the end, they are still parents.

When you communicate with your parents, you have to talk a little bit more about your boyfriend's personal strengths, you can tell your parents that he is very capable of raising me, and he is good to me, and I think my own happiness should also have my own ruler.

In the future, whether I am happy or sinful, I will not forgive you.

Because it's my destiny, I want my parents to give me the right to make my own decisions.

If it fails, then wait for your parents to talk about it when they are in a good mood, because your love is fought for by yourself, and you must have a belief in your heart, that is"I've got to win"Don't lose on your own! Give yourself one more chance and give yourself a little more confidence.

This is the most important thing.

Don't say anything to your boyfriend just yet, he may leave you because of your family's opinion Because he loves you So don't put too much pressure on him Don't tell him) Be as happy and happy with your boyfriend as before When things are settled, talk to him He cherishes you more because you really love him.

So much psychological struggle for him!!

Believe you are the best!

Laugh a little.

Life is what it is, and some things can't be so perfect. As long as you know what you should do, even if you find a good condition. There are still very good divorces or other things happening, no one can say, do the things in front of you, but to talk about the method, of course the reason to leave is a method, not to leave think that the above is very right.

You are a person who lives for yourself, you must understand this, it is not for us to live, in the practical point of view, it is whether you are happy or not, it doesn't matter what my fart is, but people are not happy from the beginning. Hard work is the most important thing, you can buy lottery tickets for 5 million to solve your problems. Is it possible?

Therefore, we are not born rich to do limited things in the current conditions, but we can strive to become rich.

Hello: Although we don't know each other, I know that this problem is difficult for you to solve, because one is your parents and the other is the person you love, but don't be afraid, I will teach you a few ways.

1. You go to talk to your parents about doing ideological work and try to know what they don't agree with""Real reason""??It's easy to solve.

2. If you say that your family is rich and your lover is not very rich, you should let your lover do a career so that your parents will have nothing to say when they see it, do you know?

3. You just let your grandparents help you, or other family members. Only if you can convince your parents.

4. Do you have any brothers and sisters if I ask a question that shouldn't be asked? If not, it's easy to do, can you learn little swallows?

5. If your parents still don't agree, you have only one way, and your lover is about to have a child, you don't say what, if you have a child with your lover, your parents know, as long as you don't agree to take the child away, your parents will agree.

I wish you and your lover eternal friendship and success.

Coincidentally, when I listened to Shang Fei's story from "Voice of China" not long ago, I happened to have such a choice, and the audience sent a lot of text messages. Specific recommendations:

First of all, look at your boyfriend's attitude and see what he thinks, after all, love is a matter of two people, if he chooses to break up, then don't force it. If he's going to be with you, that's the real choice. Half of the audience thought that it was better to divide it, and modern life was invisibly observant of the right door.

Of course, half of them think that they should not be divided, the reason is that love is rare. You can see how to do it. But remember not to regret your choice.

You can go and rub the specific plot of the story, maybe it will be useful to you.

In fact, every parent loves their children the most, and what they are most reluctant to do is for their children to suffer. So all they need is for you to live happily ever after, so that they can have a happy old age.

Don't give up your love, don't give up on your parents, use your sincerity to impress your parents, and your parents will definitely be moved in the end. Hope you can be happy!

I think what you are sad about now is that it is difficult to choose in the face of family affection and love, if I were you, I would help this person get rich first, even if he is not rich, he must have a career, so as to give his father and mother a kind of teachable and promising look, family and love are difficult to choose, in fact, when encountering this kind of thing, everyone is not so easy to choose, and the final choice is still yourself, you can pass your own level, and everything is easy to say.

This kind of problem can't be rushed, as long as your parents and your boyfriend have a good job, and it is very, very good for you, so it's okay, as long as you stick to the time, it will help you.

I'm in a similar situation as yours, it's hard to choose, but I still give you a word of advice, there are some opportunities, once you miss it, you will never recover. Fate is like a long manuscript, in a certain chapter or section, someone may be important and irreplaceable to you, but when this chapter is finally turned, you will say goodbye to this person, and sometimes you can only helplessly miss it. Because there is a force in the dark that has already decided that he is not the hero who can accompany you through the whole story.

You can remember one chapter, but in the next chapter, you have to go quietly. Do you understand??? If you read this sentence, you will know what to do!!

Hey, parents are like this now! This is not a TV series, if your parents really think of your boyfriend like this now, I think it will be really difficult for you to be with him anymore, this is real life after all!

In fact, every choice is a gamble with fate, it depends on your luck.

Hopefully, your boyfriend is someone you can trust for life.

In fact, the family is still good for you, but the key is still in you, poverty is not terrible, what is terrible is whether this person is motivated!

It's really not easy to find a guy who loves him.

Let's try to talk to the parents.

Men are like this, the better a woman treats him, the colder he is, you don't care too much about how he treats you, you must be good to yourself, you can pretend to be close to him in front of the child, what should you do when the child is not in front of you, don't be too hot to him, such a man is cheap, he thinks you can't do without him, the eclipse so that you don't need to be good to him, although it is under the same roof, but people's patience is limited, what should be endured should be endured and what should not be endured, this is not life, be yourself, Be kind to yourself, beauty shopping, dancing, and when you are unhappy, take your children out to play, you take your children to everything! ~

Divorce is not encouraged at every turn, but if you are sad, you should consider living in a different way, and living in a noisy environment for a long time has an impact on women's physiology and psychology.

When smart parents encounter a quarrel between their son and daughter-in-law, they first treat it calmly with an objective attitude, and then talk to the two alone, the truth should be distinguished, and the truth of objective forbearance should be instilled, and finally criticize their children's mistakes as a way to appease each other's emotions.

If his family never understands this truth, then there is no way to calm things down.

What to do? It is difficult for a Qing official to cut off family affairs, so I think --- better separate for a while first--- and both parties calm down. --The first love will be better than you.

This kind of love of yours is called feeling, life is to feel like this, go ahead, I support you.

Go! If you succeed, you can pick up a wife, and if you fail, you will accumulate experience in case you fail in the future!

Note: Be polite, drink less, and be sure to know who is the head of their family at the first time (whether it is the mother-in-law or the father-in-law).

If you are a mother-in-law, drink less, don't smoke, show that you are very self-motivated, don't pop your mouth when eating, it's best to get something or gifts when you go, and if the main family is a father-in-law, talk more about business, such as work. Dress appropriately, not too formally, but be clean and plain.

Socks must be clean, and if you take off your shoes, you must not have smelly feet.

Principle: clean but not fancy, motivated and considerate! Be polite!

Before you find out who she is, I strongly disagree with you going to her house on a blind date. It is recommended that you be more wary of girls, and don't think that all women in the world are angels. How much do you know about that woman?

Is her personality good or bad? What is her attitude towards marriage? What was her previous love life like?

Is she suitable for your appetite*** If you don't care about anything, and go to her house on a blind date on a spur of the moment. If you get married and find that the two have incompatible personalities and temperaments, and there is a big difference in outlook on life and values, you will be very miserable when you get married in two days and a big quarrel in three days. I suggest that you first have a natural contact with her for a while, and don't lock the relationship into love from the beginning, otherwise you will never be able to make a rational judgment.