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Many people feel that a marriage without a wedding is sad and will definitely regret it after marriage. Because a wedding is used to celebrate the beginning of a marriage, it is only once in a lifetime, and if you don't have a wedding, it will be looked down upon by relatives and friends. Or maybe they regret it when they think about it later, so they feel that they should have a wedding.
There are some wonderful things to be missed at the wedding, and the wedding is a manual for you to enter the other person's family in the future. The wedding proves to the guests that a lover can be married. Weddings are sometimes fake, it's dreamy and unrealistic, but it's because reality is sometimes too skinny that we have to find a place to feel romantic.
Some people are reluctant to have a wedding because they are too stressful and make themselves extremely sensitive, but I would say how big can it be? Can it be bigger than your marriage? If you don't even have the courage and perseverance to hold a wedding, how dare you enter marriage.
Weddings are a fair and honest show of affection, and for me, the most important thing in a relationship is not to be blessed by others, but to be seen by others. If you don't have a wedding, you will definitely regret it in this life.
At that time, I didn't have a wedding, no diamond ring, no house and no car to marry my husband, although he always said that it would be better for me because of guilt, but I always felt that something was missing. More than ten years have passed, and every time I meet someone else for a wedding, I will look at it obsessively, and I have an urge to cry, which is an irreparable regret.
I don't think a blessed marriage will be happy. A marriage without recognition and respect is no warmth at all. The ceremony is a manifestation of the other party's attitude, a recognition of us, a kind of respect and heart. Regardless of the outcome, the process must be taken seriously.
Is it okay to get married without a wedding?
You can not do it, and then choose to travel to get married, and then you can do it again after the trip. My suggestion is for people who are not very financially well-off, and those who don't want to worry about it, go directly to their honeymoon after getting the license, so that everyone can relax and don't have to be busy preparing for the wedding.
A wedding is an appreciation for two people walking together for themselves. If a woman only values the grandeur of the wedding, it is because of money, not because of love. If you want to cope with your family, you can go through the motions and invite your closest relatives.
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If you feel that there is a problem in your marriage before you get married, you don't want to have a wedding, you don't want to get married. It's better not to wait as soon as possible, and get divorced after getting married.
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Reality can't go on, what should I do? Don't have a wedding? If there is a certain problem in the relationship, you must find a way to redeem it, and if it really doesn't work, don't have a wedding.
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I really can't go on, I think there should be, otherwise the marriage wall, I feel that I can't do it anymore and I will definitely not have a good one in the future.
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Then you mean that you are not married yet, right, since you really can't go on, then there is definitely no need for this wedding to go on.
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If that's the case, I think you two should talk calmly and see if you can go on, and if you can't, you should separate.
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I think if you really can't go on, you shouldn't have a wedding, because after all, you can't go on, and if you do a wedding, it will also hurt the other party's heart.
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