Is yourself in the eyes of others like a mirror?

There is a difference between the image of others looking at you and the image in the mirror, and the self in the eyes of others must be more real than the self in the mirror. The mirrors that everyone uses are flat mirrors. Planar mirror imaging involves the light of an object shining onto a mirror and then reflecting the image.

The self in the mirror is the opposite of the self in reality. Wave your right hand in front of the mirror, and the self in the mirror is holding up your left hand. If your bangs are parted to the right, the bangs in the mirror are on the left.

The self you see in the mirror

What you see in the mirror is your own image, and what you see in the eyes of others is your own self in real life, with the evaluation of others. The mirror is an object, without thoughts, without feelings, but only a reflection of one's appearance, an outward manifestation. You can constantly change your image by dressing up.

In the eyes of others, oneself is a comprehensive evaluation of the outside and the inside, not just the external image of a person. When looking at a person with tinted glasses, the person's appearance is ugly, no matter how beautiful they are.

Looking in the mirror is not the same as what others see about yourself.

Very few people have absolutely symmetrical left and right limbs, including the face.

Therefore, what you see in the eyes of others is the real you, and what you see in the mirror is the upside-down "mirror image" of your own left and right questions.

Psychologically, we sometimes focus on a certain aspect of ourselves, which weakens some characteristics, so many times you are the real you in the eyes of others.

The self in the mirror is the opposite of the self in reality. Wave your right hand in front of the mirror, and the self in the mirror is holding up your left hand. If your bangs are parted to the right, the bangs in the mirror are on the left.

Under the effect of light and silver plating, the mirror has the effect of thinning and whitening, so the self in the mirror is better looking than it actually is. Everyone has a bit of a narcissistic tendency, and in order to gain a better sense of self-identity, we will involuntarily choose and freeze the angles and expressions that look better when we look in the mirror, and keep them in our memories as an impression of ourselves.

Therefore, when people see certain real but ugly angles in the photo, they will feel unfamiliar and difficult to accept. Some psychological studies even claim that the real length is about 30 compared to how ugly I feel.

However, there are also some people who have low self-esteem about their appearance, especially rejecting some parts of themselves, so once they look in the mirror or look at **, they will focus their attention on these parts, and the more they look at it, the more they dislike it.

Effects

**effect", it is a psychological phenomenon that refers to the fact that we prefer things that we are familiar with, and as long as they appear often, we can increase our liking.

In daily life, everyone must look in the mirror less, and the more they look in the mirror, the more they feel that they look good, which belongs to the "** effect". If you shoot yourself in the mirror and yourself in reality, and let your friends choose which one looks better, your friends will definitely not hesitate to choose the ** in reality.

Because for the people around you, the most common person they are is yourself in reality. In reality, you are a kind of "** effect" for your friends, and they will think that you are better looking in reality than you in the mirror.

It's different, the mirror image is the left and right interchangeable self, so as long as you are not a person who looks completely symmetrical, the appearance in the mirror and in the eyes of others is definitely different.

The frequency of looking at yourself in the mirror is probably higher than the frequency of others looking at you (couples are not easy to say, so there will be lovers in the eyes of Xi Shi), due to the ** effect, your evaluation of your appearance in the mirror is higher than your evaluation of your appearance in the eyes of others.

One more thing to add. When we judge whether a person is good-looking or not, the brain tends to think that a symmetrical face is more beautiful.

The light of the sun or lamp hits the person's body and is reflected on the mirror surface (note: this is diffuse reflection, not specular reflection, and does not belong to plane mirror imaging). The plane mirror in turn reflects the light into the human eye, so we see ourselves as a virtual image in the plane mirror.

This is the reflection of light from a flat mirror).

Looking in the mirror is such a principle. It can be said that as long as a flat mirror is used, it must be a reflection. The image in a plane mirror is formed by the intersection of the extension lines of the reflected rays of light, so the image in a plane mirror is a virtual image.

The virtual image is equal to the size of the object and the distance is equal. The image is equal in size to the object. So the image and the object are symmetrical to the mirror.