What are the contradictions between psychological needs and real life?

The contradiction between imbalance and inadequate development is due to the financial problems of real life and the spiritual problems of spiritual life.

Psychological needs are just an idea, called the concept can also be called ideals, hoping to achieve or do something and achieve their own expectations, but real life is full of a lot of uncertainties, the unrealistic idea of the eye is high and low does not work in reality, there are a lot of helplessness and sadness with their own growth, psychological needs and real life are not contradictory, but accompany each other, because the reality needs the support of psychological needs, if people do not have ideals and what to struggle. The two must go hand in hand to be life.

On the basis of attaching importance to people's material needs, we should also pay attention to people's spiritual needs. People's spiritual needs are higher-level needs that are based on material needs and are higher than material needs. On the one hand, we must abandon the practice of obliterating people's legitimate material interests and blindly using spiritual encouragement in an attempt to arouse their enthusiasm. On the other hand, it is also necessary to oppose the erroneous tendency of stressing only economic reality and not political ideals, stressing only material interests and not political demands, and stressing only "money" and not "reason."

The development of the market economy should not be at the expense of spiritual civilization; The improvement of people's material living standards should not lead to spiritual poverty. The ancients despised those who were "unkind to those who are rich," and today ridicule those who are "so poor that they only have money left," while useful aphorisms such as "people are not short of ambitions" and "those who are poor will think of change" are recognized by the vast majority of people, reflecting from one side that our national spirit and social atmosphere are healthy and uplifting.

How do you think that many people in today's society have the problem of dissatisfaction and imbalance?

First, how did the original design goal take 40 years to achieve? It is the root cause of people's dissatisfaction and imbalance in balance!

Second, once people's desires are violent, material wealth cannot fill people's desires, which is the second reason why people's hearts are not satisfied and balanced!

Third, the original spiritual food has been discarded, and there is no more suitable spiritual food, the way of Confucius and Mencius in feudal society is regarded as a divine soup, and Western theories are regarded as a miracle medicine, and the contemporary people are educated, and people's minds have quickly become extreme egoists, and the people who have become rich first are not satisfied, and the people who have not become rich are even more uncomfortable, which is the third reason!

The fourth reason? Is it the reason why people don't see dissatisfaction, imbalance? Or do you not acknowledge the fact that there is dissatisfaction and imbalance?

What you think in your heart is not what everyone thinks can be realized in real life, sometimes it's cruel, what you want to get, sometimes you can't get it.

Psychological needs are largely unmet or unrealistic in real life.

The reality is so cruel, and in order to survive in this cruel society, you must constantly strengthen your ability to survive.

In fact, there are many ways to relax, as long as you can relax yourself properly! Don't stress and inhibit yourself too much!

That way you won't get tired! And as long as you treat everything with a normal heart, there is nothing that you can't get over!

Believe that you are the best!

But the most important thing is to realize the value of personal survival, to prove that your existence has brought something useful to the world in which you live. Life is like a dream but not a dream, although sometimes people can't figure it out, but we still have to face our own every day seriously.

Man lives for the unknown; For love, for oneself, for one's family, for society, for one's country, people live to seek unknown answers and create unknown answers. When your actions are praised in small ways, you will understand the purpose of life; When your actions make a brilliant page for the unknown, you will find the meaning of life; When your actions achieve others and yourself, you will realize the value of life!

Maybe you have frustration; Maybe in the face of setbacks, you want to choose to fall; Maybe the long-term struggle for the unknown without reward has made you lose the fun, confidence and courage Maybe you should think like this: Only today's present is the most real and truly belongs to us, so cherish the bits and pieces of the present.

You can't control others, but you can control yourself;

You can't control the weather, but you can change the mood;

You can't choose the look, but you can choose the heart!

There is no depth of the blue sky, you can choose the elegance of white clouds;

Without the vastness of the sea, you can choose the elegance of the stream;

Without the vigor of an eagle, you can choose the carefree of a bird;

There is no fragrance of the wilderness, you can choose the emerald green of the grass!

Everyone is a perfect apple before birth, and God can't help but take a bite of each apple, so people have shortcomings, and more importantly, God gives people the motivation to fight for the unknown glory in life. As long as you have a sound body, you have the possibility of creating success; Just stand up bravely on your flaws and fight bravely.

Contradictions are everywhere, and inner contradictions make them more cautious; The contradiction between strangers and strangers can be regulated.

Fan human behavior; The contradiction between husband and wife is the lubricant of life: the contradiction between human beings and the environment is the ...... caused by poor research

It is the so-called: how to see the rainbow without wind and rain, is the so-called: the real reason why the world is colorful!

Contradiction is the driving force of social development, and it should also be the driving force of human development, which is an inevitable phenomenon of social existence. Don't worry, don't panic, face it well, solve it well, and have an infinitely better future!

1. The more prominent contradictions in the economic aspect include:

the contradiction between market regulation and macroeconomic regulation;

the contradiction between distributive equity and economic efficiency;

the contradiction between economic development and improvement of people's livelihood; Wait a minute.

2. Other prominent contradictions include:

the contradiction between social stability and deepening reform;

the contradiction between the requirements of integrity and corrupt practices;

the contradiction between the emancipation of the mind and the unity of the will; Wait a minute.

Give someone someone a dry heat pipe spoof of identity, if he is Russian.

Practical life is full of contradictions, and the so-called contradictions are a kind of dialectical opposition and unity. For example, the relationship between the Internet and learning is both opposite and unified. If you are too addicted to the Internet, you will definitely not study very well; But if you just "believe in the book" and bury your head in hard reading, then you will definitely miss the rich knowledge on the Internet; Therefore, grasping and resolving the contradiction lies in your subjective initiative, that is, a problem of "degree", which is the key to solving the problem.

In addition, the relationship between ideal and reality is also a contradictory one. Ideals must be combined with their own conditions, otherwise they can only be utopian.

A young man said to the great inventor Thomas Edison: "I have a great ideal, and that is that I want to invent a universal solution that can dissolve everything." Edison asked in amazement

What the! So what utensils do you want to use to place this universal solution? Doesn't it dissolve everything? ”

Dissatisfied with the status quo, one strives for change, and the other only seeks comfort! Either both change, or they go their separate ways.

Mother-in-law relationship car model and so on.

In fact, ideals are a driving force that guides you to be positive, and everyone knows the difference and distance between reality and dreams.

You try to adjust your mindset and adjust your dreams.

There are a lot of Western restaurants in Shanghai, and they are all quite quiet.

Relax and adjust!

Suggestions: Hello, generally speaking, this is a psychological problem, and the cause may be related to the environment in daily life and one's own personality and behavioral factors. It is necessary to pay attention to maintaining a good attitude and self-regulation and inhibition.

If the symptoms are severe and cannot be relieved by self-regulation, it is recommended that you consult a psychologist in person.

The ideal is the ideal, the reality is the reality, the ideal can become the reality, but the reality is not the ideal, so we must struggle.

Contradictions are universal. In our real life, there is no contradiction in what exists. But contradiction has two characteristics, universality and particularity, which manifest itself in our daily life as commonality and individuality.

There is no contradiction in our daily study and life, the particularity and universality. There are similarities and differences between students, and we need to find the commonalities in the personality and grasp the individuality in the commonality. In learning the universality of contradictions and the particularity of contradictions, it is a relationship of dialectical unity, not to classify things in scope, but to clarify the relationship between the common and individual, the general and the individual.

We know that everything has the characteristics and differences of the same kind of things and the characteristics of the same kind of things, which is simply expressed by the formula: the characteristics of things = the characteristics of the same kind of things + the characteristics of the difference and the same kind of things. And things are contradictory things, then this formula is:

Contradictory things and the characteristics of each side = the characteristics of similar contradictory things + the characteristics of differences and similar things. In this way, according to the meaning of contradictory universality and particularity, the final formula is: contradictory particularity = contradictory universality + difference and characteristics of similar things.

The universality of contradictions and the particularity of contradictions are interrelated and inseparable. On the one hand, universality resides in particularity, that is, particularity contains universality, universality is expressed through particularity, and there is no universality without particularity. On the other hand, particularity is also inseparable from universality.

Because no matter how special things in the world are, they always have something in common with other things of the same kind, and they must always obey the general laws of such things, and there is no particularity that does not contain universality.

There is always a contradiction between reality and thought. Because only when the human mind transcends reality, will humanity continue to progress.

Ideals originate from reality and are higher than reality. Whether it is contradictory or not, the benevolent will see the benevolent, and the wise will see the wise.

Reality is the necessary stage of the ideal, and the ideal can be said to be the ultimate goal of reality.

Arduous struggle is a necessary condition for turning ideals into reality.

But only if the ideal is realistic.

The second floor is so well said!Like one.

The problem you are talking about is not really your problem alone, but a problem that everyone is facing. As for how to interact with people, I don't care whether you have studied psychology or not [in fact, you may not be able to understand everything about people after studying psychology], the key is your view of people, and your view of people depends on your accumulation of various knowledge and your understanding of things. Your world view determines your outlook on life, and your outlook on life determines your attitude towards life ,..

In this way, it seems that studying philosophy solves the problem, but philosophy happens to be based on knowledge from various other disciplines, so it is more important than anything else to enrich oneself and is also a source of happiness.

It is impossible for people to live in isolation, and to live is to associate with people. All human beings have a common nature, that is, to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, which is originally an instinct [the same is true for animals], so as long as we grasp one principle: be honest and be kind to others.

It is enough to make others realize that it is a pleasure to associate with you, and not to be difficult with people everywhere. This is also a good relationship - and it is a really good foundation, and you will live with peace of mind. What's the point of using scheming to make friends with others, not only is it tiring for you, but others are not stupid and will respond to you with scheming?

Like you said, it will be boring and boring, and the quality of life will definitely not be high. Be kind to others, and be kind to others. Hopefully we can all take care of these issues.

It seems that you have a misunderstanding of psychology.

If you study psychology, you can't see through others at a glance!The purpose of psychology is to better understand the behavior of others and explain the behavior of others, not **, the so-called ** is just a matter of probability, that is, the law that only applies to a large number of individuals (groups), for a single person, a simple thing can not be **. You can check out Tom Cruise's "Minority Report."

Studying psychology can help you get along with people better, avoid unnecessary misunderstandings, and also get to know yourself better, how well do you know yourself??? If you can't understand yourself, how can anyone else do??? How can you say that you see through others?

Psychology is also not a rigorous science, it is called almost science, that is, it is not strictly a science, but closer to art.

"Study psychology, a lot of things.

There is a big misunderstanding in your understanding of psychology, and the friend above also said it.

Let's put it this way, personality can only be understood by people if it is manifested through explicit behavior. For example, if you go to the counseling clinic and you don't say a word, you don't react at all, then the counselor can at most deduce that you have something you want to consult or be quiet, and that's it, he can't see anything else. Otherwise, those counselors, if they can see everything, do they still use it to talk to you for so long and ask you so many questions?

In addition, I feel that psychology, especially at the undergraduate level, focuses more on the explanation of psychological phenomena. In other words, you have this psychological phenomenon, and what kind of theory can be used to explain it? Although psychology takes ** as the goal, it is impossible to be accurate due to the imperfection of its own theories.

In addition, I disagree with the statement of the first floor, although the research methods of psychology need to be perfected in many aspects, it is still a rigorous science. In terms of experimental methods, he already has a very mature theory.

Because of this theory on the first floor, I think that the "scientificity" of psychology has not really been established in the minds of the public, which has led to misunderstanding among the public like LZ. We hope that psychology can finally achieve the best behavior, and according to personal opinions, it is still necessary to strengthen its scientific nature.

Therefore, in a word, the problem that LZ wants to solve should be the problem of the art of interpersonal communication. This kind of problem is indeed related to psychology, but it is not the real goal of psychology as a discipline. The purpose of psychology is not to see through who and whom, but to study the science of human psychological phenomena.

And the insight that LZ said may be cultivated through daily practice, but it is not as divine as you say. If he is a pure student of psychology and has not cultivated his social communication skills, then his insight may not be as good as that of ordinary people.