What should a person who can t hold and put down do?

Maybe your ex-boyfriend brought you a lot of memories You just haven't met someone who can compare to him You calm yourself down and ask yourself Is I happy now Do you like the current What were you in before and can't let go Because of the memories Is it because you are a lover or what? If you are with your ex now Will you be happy Is your current boyfriend good to you Is it worth giving up the current one for him? If the answer is yes, then muster the courage to pursue him, after all, in this world, missing is a lifetime, if the answer is not so certain, I think it is better to put him in the mind, be with the present, or find your true destiny as soon as possible.

Oh! Your question is similar to mine! I'm just like you, but not as long as you! Have time to chat.

It's too vague. Like the people around me.

Loving someone doesn't have to be together. Just treat the relationship between you and him as a good memory. The soul of the person who has loved missed it. As long as you have it.

Forget. If you can't get it, don't add to your troubles.

Little girl. Someone who can tolerate you is rare in a lifetime, don't wait until you lose it and regret it.

I haven't forgotten you for 5 years, you're amazing.

I forgot about my first love for more than a year

If you are sure that you are still in love with your former boyfriend, take the initiative to find him, there is no one right or wrong in love, don't be afraid of losing face, after all, it is not easy to meet a person you like in the world, if you don't show your determination, it will not only be you who will be hurt.

Killed the ex.

Then all worries disappear immediately.

The world is beautiful because it is reflected in too many regrets in the human world.

Being angry is like drinking poison yourself and expecting others to suffer. Stool Bu Zheng.

Because there is nothing. That's the reason to keep fighting.

You shouldn't be dissatisfied with others all the time, you should always review yourself. If you are dissatisfied with others, you are suffering yourself.

Behind the cowardice is the strength of forbearance.

Feelings are like a game, and sometimes you have to hang up.

Is there such a person who is hidden in the deepest part of your heart, so deep that you even forget yourself?

If one day I become no one in my eyes, please remember that no one has taken me to heart.

Be the protagonist of your own life, not a spectator in someone else's life.

It is because you are not good that I want to stay by your side and give you happiness.

Don't complain when you encounter difficulties, since you can't change the past, then try to change the future.

The feeling of being an intimate person, suddenly strange, and completely disappointed hope is like drinking cold water and actually getting burned.

The power of love is so great that it can make people forget everything, but it is so small that it cannot contain even a grain of jealous sand.

No matter what you become, I love you the same.

Time is still the same, I can't miss it, I will only miss it more.

My requirements for love are very simple, find someone I love and love me, hold hands, and go from day to night, from black hair to white hair.

Except for the people I love, there is no one who can hold back all my emotions.

The person who once poured cold water on me, it doesn't matter. I'll give it back to you when I'm boiled.

A lot of people are watching my jokes, so I can't lose.

The most heart-pounding romance is that you want to rip off my clothes, and it just so happens that I want to rip off your pants too.

Above men, treat people as human beings; Under men, consider yourselves as human beings.

There is a reward for paying, such as double the extravagance for twice the disappointment.

The pain you are looking for, why do you have to shout that it hurts, if you want to blame Zao Song, you will blame yourself, you have the ability to like others, and you don't have the ability to make people like you.

Because a person may not have an opinion, he can be used everywhere. After really fully understanding it, you must think twice before you encounter something, and you can't be someone else's gunman in vain.

You should learn not to care too much about what others say, and if you understand other people's language, you will not repeat the mistakes of the past and be used by others. A person really can't rely on being controlled by others, and he should make up his own mind and don't believe people's words. I can't do anything that is unethical anymore, and I have more good expectations, which is enough to change people's views.

It is also necessary to adjust one's correct mentality, only in this way can you muster up the courage to get along with people, and of course you can integrate into group activities.

Because life is made up of a free choice. Every choice is related to the direction of life, if you can make every choice of life, in the face of every time you pick up and put down, you can do not regret, then a person's life will add a lot of joy and happiness, and the most difficult thing to do in life is undoubtedly to let go of yesterday's story, but also because most of their favorite can't let go, they don't like it either, that is called persistence, so the idea of love and hate often occupies everyone's wonderful moments, so that you can have a happy opinion!

The greatest choice in life is to be able to take it and put it down. Only in this way will you live an easy and happy life, and your heart will be stress-free.

In a person's life, it is a kind of courage to be able to take it, and it is a kind of stomach to be able to let go. For the flowers and applause on the road of life, most people with experience in life can ignore it, and people who have experienced many ups and downs are more self-aware. But for the bumpy and muddy, it is not easy to look at it with a normal heart.

Big setbacks and big disasters can be unmoved and can be calmly endured, this is a kind of mind and belly.

It's important to be emotionally able to take it and put it down. has gotten rid of the sweet kind of feelings, once you fall in love or be loved, the sky will fall apart, the sea will rot, and you will never love enough to live and die with the sky. Whether you can put it away freely, I really hope to love you more and I will love your life more, and I should know how to leave silently if I want to keep a distance.

In fact, the cultivation of life has to be able to see through and think openly, and to be able to afford to let go of life, that is, not only to live well in your own world, but also to live well in other people's world, because this is your freedom, and many things will always be understood after experiencing it. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. In fact, life does not need such meaningless attachments, and nothing really cannot be parted.

Learn to give up, and life will be easier.

You love him so much, but he doesn't know how to cherish it, this phenomenon you said is actually something I've heard many girls say. Some are more stubborn than you, and your boyfriend even scolded her and shot her hard, but that girl just can't let go, or she likes him as always, is it really that men are not bad and women don't love? Friend, in fact, you just have to calm down and think about it, in fact, you like him just that he used to be good to you before, this kind of good makes you can't forget him, and you may be difficult to give up the feeling of being with him before.

Love is like this, when the other person loves you, they really love you. He will show himself perfectly, at this time he is also very patient with you, tolerant of you, when he does not love you, he may be bored with you, do not remember the feeling of being with you before, and just want to find new ones to satisfy his desires (the desire here contains a lot of A person who is so undecided Such a hesitant man has a time when you suffer.

In fact, don't forget what you once had, cherish what you can't get, don't give up what belongs to you, keep what you have lost as a memory, life is like a one-way ticket with no return, every one is a live broadcast, grasp every performance, is the best cherish, the past of life, reminiscent, tears when sad, drunk when happy, will be valuable because of the pursuit, sunset is not the past of the years, the wind is not the fault of the woods, as long as you have loved and waited, the laughter in heaven is not a legend, No matter how beautiful the day is, if no one cares, it is also a pity.

In the long years, we are all passers-by in a hurry, all the memories of the past may be a little melancholy, maybe some pain and sadness, whether the dream of life is a dream come true, or a yellow beam, we have to face, to stay unintentional.

Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, a hurried life, lingering years, ebb and flow、、、 will always miss a lot of people and things, and will always leave a lot of reluctant memories in the bottom of my heart. There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect.

There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave. There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back.

Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden.

In fact, I thought I could forget, but the tears I shed did not deceive myself, there is a feeling that I can only store with my heart, and some people and things can never be forgotten.

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

If you understand the truth that people live for themselves, you won't be able to let go of anyone. Life is too short and fast, this person is actually just a passerby in your life, just like any stranger you pass by on the street. In fact, reading some Buddhist books is still beneficial for people who have too many entanglements in their hearts, and too many people who suffer because of entanglements.

Although I am atheist.

This is a question that has been asked by many people, and the solution is probably only to you who know best what you should do. The difference in people's thinking and personality determines the difference of people, and the personality of people. What works for me may not be for you.

But the most important thing for us is that I really want to maintain the relationship, and I mean it.

A truly good friend and a good lover is one who remembers each other no matter how long they don't touch!! I am sincere and sincere, and I hope to get your affirmation.

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