I ve been married to my husband for 1 year, and I ve been quarreling lately, and I ll pack up and le

I think the first thing that happens when there is a problem between two people is to review their own rights and wrongs, and then blame each other. I don't know if you've ever heard that gentleness is a woman's nirvana**. I think this sentence is very correct, but I don't think it's really okay for you to pack up and go back to your parents' house as soon as you quarrel, and my current girlfriend is the same, she will leave as soon as she quarrels.

I don't think you can face the problem, first of all, you have to face what you run, first calm yourself, and then analyze the problem rationally, and then solve the problem. Of course, he also has a lot of problems, such as buying a car if he doesn't pay off his debts, in fact, you should control his economy and then see how he goes out to play.

Handmade, hope.

The problem is not that you care too much about him.

It's that you haven't learned to be independent.

You can find a job yourself.

Ask your parents or in-laws to help take your baby during the day.

Girls who are not financially independent will never have a say in the family.

Your husband himself is not very competitive, and he doesn't know how to coax a girl, and he hasn't accommodated you, but maybe he owes your family money, and he doesn't feel very comfortable, communicate with him well, and see if he can live in addition to your child, I feel like he doesn't even ask, should I remind him that this is also his flesh and blood, I wish you happiness.

I feel that you have hurt a man's self-esteem, and men also need respect! It doesn't matter if she's on you or not! To be tolerant of others is to be tolerant of oneself.

Summary. It depends on the level of violence he has, and if he beats and scolds the child every day, it is not right.

My husband and I have been arguing since we realized that marriage is a quarrel, and once we quarreled and beat me, and then I betrayed him, and I fell in love with someone else, and I was reluctant to have two.

Hello, glad your question, for this kind of thing, it's a real relationship problem between the two of you. If the relationship foundation is good, it doesn't matter if you always quarrel, but if you betray him, it's your fault. This situation should correct your mistakes.

Hello. Over the years of marriage, nothing but quarrels are fights.

So why can two people still come together?

For the sake of the child, he is very strong, everything is up to him, when he knew that I betrayed him, I chose to divorce, he disagreed, saying that he forgave me, and then he often quarreled about this matter and often mentioned it.

You can't blame your husband for that either, because you are also responsible.

Because before, when he quarreled, he would beat me, insult me, and scold me.

There is a reason for that, and it can't be done for no reason.

And what about his violence against children? What's it?

It depends on the level of violence he has, and if he beats and scolds the child every day, it is not right.

Here are some suggestions that may help:

1.Understand each other's differences first: understand each other's different cultural backgrounds, family backgrounds, hobbies, personalities, communication styles, etc., and build mutual understanding and trust based on this, which will help build better family relationships.

2.Establish communication channels: Establish a positive communication channel to express each other's concerns, needs, and feelings openly and honestly, so as to build better trust and communication.

3.Respect each other: Respect each other's different perspectives and concepts, do not force each other to accept their own views, but build mutual trust and respect based on respect and understanding.

4.Ask for help: If you feel like you've done your best and you're still unable to solve the problem, you can try seeking help from Family Relationship Counseling or Family** and having a professional help you with it.

Here are some possible real-world cases:

1.Suppose you and your husband have big differences in family background, cultural background, interests and hobbies, etc., you can try to understand each other's differences, try to understand each other's culture, understand each other's interests and hobbies, etc., and build mutual understanding and trust based on this.

2.If you and your husband have a big quarrel in your family, you can try to build a positive communication channel where you can be honest and honest about each other's concerns, needs, and feelings to build better trust and communication.

3.Suppose you and your husband have a big trust problem in your family, you can try to respect each other's different views and perceptions, don't force each other to accept your own opinions, but build trust and respect for each other based on respect and understanding.

4.Assuming that you and your husband already have serious family relationship problems, you can try to seek family relationship counseling or family** help, and let a professional help you solve the problem and build a better family relationship.

You quarrel with your father, he is very difficult to persuade, who can you help?

He is a picky eater, whatever he wants, whether he likes to eat or not, and if he doesn't like to eat, he will burn it himself.

What you yourself said is a trivial matter, and it is not a matter of principle, don't divorce easily. Learn more about how to get along with husband and wife:

The secret to a successful marriage: Respect each other's differences. Be considerate, understanding, and tolerant of each other.

Men and women are from different planets, men are rational and women are emotional. It is ridiculous to wish that two people have the same thoughts, the same opinions, and the same desires, and this kind of thing is impossible and unpopular. To adapt, not to transform your spouse.

Many romantic dreams were shattered! More than 50 are unhappy in marriage. One of the reasons is:

Useless, yet heartbreaking criticism. To maintain a happy family life, remember: don't criticize.

Communication between couples is important! Find a communication style that works for both of you; Communicate openly and straightforwardly; Remember, if emotions arise, stop and avoid harm. The most important thing to get along with your spouse, children, friends or colleagues is to learn to listen, which requires a lot of maturity.

Listening means patience, openness, and sincerity in wanting to understand the other person, which are mature personalities. On the other hand, it is much easier to talk to oneself and disrespect others.

I've been with my husband for 6 years. There have been a lot of quarrels in the past 6 years, and to be honest, I also pulled my husband out of the infinite brotherhood.

Indeed, the husband around him needs his wife's urging instead of talking. My approach is to coax him appropriately. For example, cooking and doing housework, it is the two of us who have time to do it, and he takes the initiative to do it.

It's very sweet to say, husband, you are so good, if others are definitely not willing to do it, you are the best man in the world.

Of course, when he endlessly shirks his work, he yells appropriately, "You are a man, your future is to support a family, although I have the ability to work, but after all, I am a woman, and there must be times when I can't do it." Do you think about it, what will happen to this family? No matter how strong a woman is, there are times when she is weak, I understand that you also have times when you are depressed, why don't you want to feel about your family's feelings.

Everyone needs your support. "The goal is to make him understand that I need his care, that I want to take care of him, and that I have moments when I don't have the strength.

Of course, he has to do some housework by himself, let him do it once, let him know how hard it is, to lead him slowly, just want to pull the handbrake on the high slope of the car, want it to lower the attitude, to your flat ground There is only one way, the handbrake is loosened, unconsciously, he gradually understands what you are doing every day, all your pay.

You can let him help do something small first, and praise and scold him appropriately. Women are like this, to have a happy home, first bring up a big child, and have a small child. Life is the mist of rusty steel, a little rust stain is not easy to see, and the appearance of the steel itself has changed over time.

The last point is to advise you, a person from the time you first come into contact with it, may be a character; Some people will always retain their own character, while others will gradually change their life with the environment. Don't rush. Appropriate, regular communication will give you better progress.

Different regions have different cultures and habits, and people have different perceptions and thoughts at different ages, and have different reactions and behaviors in different environments. Why do people fall in love? It is to get acquainted, understand and tolerate each other in the process of getting along, and see if we can come together.

Regardless of whether it was right at the beginning and whether it can continue in the future, since you have chosen to be together and have children, since your parents have opposed you or chose to be together, then you should believe that you once loved each other very much. Now why can't we communicate and understand each other well? If there are any opinions and ideas between husband and wife, or even dissatisfaction, they should communicate in time, and hiding them will only deepen the distance between each other more and more.

When a man leaves his hometown and comes to your home, he is in a psychological weakness, at this time you should care more about him and understand him with your family, so that he can feel the warmth of his family, instead of watching him coldly and picking on his thorns.

You may not have had a good understanding and communication between the two places before marriage, so it is not surprising that you have found some problems now. The key is to understand and communicate, rather than blindly finding fault and saying frustrating things. No one is perfect, and we can't help each other with love, understand each other and tolerate each other, so can we go on?

If you don't know and change your current attitude, I believe that even if he does a hundred times better than now, you will still not be satisfied and willing.

I am from the Northeast, and my daughter-in-law is Handan, and we have never quarreled together.

You're complaining about each other. I'm a man, and I think it's men's fault that men are blamed by women. In your heart, you may blame him for his incompetence and inability to make money.

In his heart, he may complain that he married him too early, and he regrets getting married even more now, he will think that after getting married and having children, he can't do what he wants to do, and he can't do what he wants to fight, and he can't get up impulsively, because of you and his children. If this continues, the more you blame him, the more annoying he becomes, because he doesn't know what to do. Maybe he will succeed if he gets divorced, and he will work harder after being hit, and he will always be like this if he doesn't get divorced.

Freeze frame.

You see that your husband is full of shortcomings, do you want to think about what kind of person you are in his eyes? Find a time to write down the weaknesses and strengths of both of you, and then improve together.

Your husband needs to be improved in terms of life, but husband and wife live together, quarrels are inevitable, only by explaining more to both parties, can they coexist peacefully, personal opinions.

I think it's better to spread out the problem and talk about it! Like him, what's the use of consuming light, consuming it will make it a habit!

It's always good to quarrel, and I think couples who don't quarrel are more dangerous than you.

Hehe, my marriage and I seem to quarrel and fight every day, but fortunately, I don't have children.

You're going to just get by, for the sake of the children, anyway, make yourself happy, don't get used to it, can't look at it, look away, life is like this.

Either leave or restrain him, if you endure it, of course you can live it, but you can only get a sigh in your old age. In this life.

Before getting married, give everyone a reminder not to look at people. Look at the character, and the family, it's not suitable to be called an early fan, and if you get married, you will regret it later. Values, personalities, and views are different, and you'll know how to be unsuitable in the future. ~

Grow your own fruit and eat it yourself.

How to eat, think about it.

Family trivialities, negligible, different origins, different educations, habits and natural problems.

The key to separation and harmony --- lies in the relationship between the two.

You don't take good care of your husband's face, so he can't get off the stage in front of your family, so he is a little resistant to you in his heart, and the more you want him to do something, the less he will do it. Good men are coaxed, and if you always put on the posture of an educator, it will only get worse and worse. Give him more face in front of your family and outsiders, lift him up more, don't always stare at what he can't do, guide him more with praise, don't complain or dictate to him, be gentle.

What you said are some trivial things, many couples will experience, I can't see any big problems worth divorcing, the main problem lies in your own mentality, you are too demanding of him, and too anxious, do not know the way and way, will make his heart away from you more and more.

In fact, men also want people to coax, if you still want to be together, just coax him, maybe this is just your run-in period, and it will get better slowly.

If you don't even feel the need to save this relationship, it's not good to be reluctant, and it's better to cut through the mess quickly, and whoever leaves can live. Give him, and give yourself a new beginning.

At this time, in fact, you are right no matter how you choose, as long as you are strong and serious.

First of all, it's safe to say that you're a very capable woman and a very good observer! It's also more empathetic! Compared to you, your husband is too inferior!

This is mainly related to the environment in which he grew up, his educational background, and the environment in which you will be when you start a family. To put it more clearly, it is: you are doing too well to stimulate his subjective initiative.

The solution is: you talk to him calmly (and pleasantly), communicate your thoughts with him, and hope that he can be more considerate of you and your children, and do what a man should do. If you have children, don't forget:

Express your love for each other! In addition, if possible, three people live alone. Create opportunities for him to take responsibility, create more suffering, don't do everything you do, let him enjoy, judge, how stupid are you!!