Does one have to go through pain in order to grow?

Hello, about your question, I don't think necessarily, pain can indeed make people better adapt to society, accelerate the growth of people, but we still have a way to grow without pain, that is, books, books will take us into the ocean of knowledge, to give us energy, let us grow, books are the ladder of human progress, I have always deeply remembered. Hope mine is useful to you and have a great life and goodbye!

Yes, one has to go through pain in order to grow. This pain can be big and small, light and severe, but all growth is necessarily not easy and happy.

There is a saying that "if you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you", let's think about it, why is there such an adage? The reason is that most young people don't listen to the admonitions of the elderly. Many people look back on their own upbringing, and they may find personal experiences that are relevant to them.

When we are young, we are full of confidence in ourselves, and we feel that the old ways of the old people are useless, and the future belongs to our time. But it wasn't until I grew up and really shouldered the burden of life that I found that many of the things the old man said were both correct and practical. How did we find out?

It was discovered by hitting a wall in society and being hit on the head and bleeding.

There is also a saying that "the body is the capital of the revolution". Why is such a natural fact constantly and repeatedly emphasized? That's because people often don't pay attention to their bodies when they are healthy, drinking, smoking, staying up late and clubbing, young people always feel that they can be presumptuous and healthy, that's the old people's business.

Until one day I got sick and was hospitalized, or when I suddenly found that my immunity was getting worse and worse, or why did I grow gray hair at a young age? Or find that the body is not as good as day by day, and can no longer get up. It is only at this time that I will realize that health is such an important thing.

We always don't suffer and we don't get lessons. Some people themselves did not suffer themselves, but the lessons of those around them made him understand certain truths, and in the same way, the lessons of the past also endured pain.

Regarding growth, we have to study hard, we have to work hard, we have to actively improve our skills, we have to find a way to adapt to the rules and realities of this society, none of which is easy and happy, and it all comes with a certain amount of pain. I can only say, I wish you pain and happiness.

As for suffering, enduring suffering, it cannot be equated with suffering. The second generation of rich people and the second generation of officials, they may not have experienced any hardships, but they can also succeed. The hardships they endure are not the same as those of ordinary people.

However, if they have never felt pain and have no sense of boundaries, even if they are very skillful, they will end up suffering the consequences.

Suffering is not necessary for growth, it is not worth pursuing, and we don't need to be thankful for suffering.

If you have grown through suffering, thank yourself.

If he can get rid of it quickly and completely, then he will be able to take a big step forward. In short, pain is something that everyone will have to a greater or lesser extent, it is not like suffering, not everyone has ever had it, but once you have endured hardship, it will definitely make you tenacious and tenacious and grow up faster; It's not like suffering, and it won't be experienced by many people, but once you do, it will definitely make you grow up overnight.

Pain is not an absolute prerequisite for a person's growth or not, but the development and improvement of self-awareness is the key. Of course, to a certain extent, pain can help aspirants hone their willpower, develop self-awareness, and promote personal growth, but it does not mean that they must experience pain in order to grow. Some people experience pain and can grow, while others will slump and "grow negatively" as a result.

That's not the case, going through hardship doesn't necessarily lead to growth. When we have goals, ideals, and can maintain a strong heart in the face of setbacks, pain will become a grind, not an obstacle, otherwise, most people will only choose to retreat, which is the most basic and "most reasonable" choice we can take in the face of danger and power since childhood. How else could the world be so chaotic, and where almost everyone has experienced all kinds of suffering, and so few people who have truly grown and succeeded?

If you are not liked by everyone, it will bring a certain amount of pain, and these pains will promote people to grow. If everything is done very smoothly and there are no challenges, then the meaning of this person's life is very weak, and it is impossible for this person to reflect and grow. The process of growing up is the process of exploring a boundary value, if a person is so smart that he knows all the things in the world without a teacher, do you think this person still needs to grow?

Could such a person exist? When people realize that they are not omnipotent, that their status is not supreme.

No, growth has nothing to do with whether or not you experience suffering, and simple pain not only cannot grow, but is easy to regress, such as the otaku phenomenon, such as the Stockholm effect, such as learned helplessness ......We can find reasons for growth, but we can't use a reason as a necessary way to grow. Pain is necessary, but pain does not necessarily allow us to gain positive energy and grow better. Anyone who thinks that you have to go through pain to grow, either it's too boring, or you haven't really experienced any pain, so even if you go through pain, it's hard to get anything out.

I want to ask, what is pain, only after experiencing despair, unable to eat, unable to sleep, feeling aggrieved, under pressure, and still indomitable can it be called pain, such as a slump, self-abandonment, self-depravity can not hold up the pain, called suicidal death, scrapped, life at the age of 50 is not too late, and there is a 75-year-old start! Therefore, in life, only after experiencing ninety-nine eighty-one difficulties can we obtain the true scriptures! To yourself to be indomitable!

Whether or not suffering can make people grow is a matter of opinion, and some people can indeed grow, so it cannot be generalized, and it is possible to grow without going through pain. Although some people have experienced pain, they have not grown in the end, but there are many people who have collapsed.