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It's terrible to have no opinions!
1.The first is to waste time, and to spend time on thinking is always hesitant, which not only makes you physically and mentally exhausted, but also affects your mood and even your health.
2.Unassertive people can also influence the people around you, and you may repeatedly ask your friends for their opinions and consider their opinions repeatedly, which not only troubles your friends, but also makes it more difficult for you to make a choice due to the influence of your friends.
3.People who don't have an opinion are inefficient in doing things, whether they are studying or working.
4.The most important point is that people who are not assertive are self-conscious.
Weak, easy to follow the masses and influenced by the people around you, it's like survival is not life.
And I myself admit that I am a person who has no opinions. But I am willing to change, read more books and understand more information to analyze things more comprehensively, have my own opinions, and follow my own ideas, I slowly dare to try and make mistakes, dare to take responsibility, and make myself more independent and confident little by little.
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One. He often complains, most notably because of his cowardice, incompetence and negative attitude. Such people are often most afraid of encountering tricky and difficult things, and as long as they encounter such things, they will either kick them to others like a ball, or ask for help.
If others are not willing to help him. He will be very helpless and often complain about the negative energy in his body. Talking about how I got this kind of thing and what I should do, and then I started looking for someone to pour bitter water.
Second, relying too much on others. A person who is not assertive will be too dependent on others, tell others about his needs, and let others advise him, this person can be his brother, or his colleagues, or his parents.
Three, there will be no choice. Always ask for help when encountering things, have no opinions, and don't know how to make trade-offs. The most obvious is to deal with emotional problems, always ask for other people's opinions when he encounters a choice, he doesn't know how to make a choice based on his own experience, he doesn't understand.
Choose which one gives up the one. This indecisive attitude will make him lose his favorite.
Fourth, there is always prevarication when encountering things, there is a saying that you should not do to others what you do not want to be done to yourself. When encountering some difficult things, they are pushed to others. Naturally, his relationships, his connections in the company will be affected.
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How terrible it is for a person to not have an opinion.
If a person is not assertive, then believe in oneself as well.
Not having an opinion is necessarily a bad thing. That shows that this person knows how to listen to other people's opinions, will not be stubborn, and will consult others when encountering things. At this time, what you need to do is to think a little more, think about whether other people's opinions are what you want, and then.
Not having an opinion is a kind of character, and no character is necessarily bad, what you need is to face up to the advantages and disadvantages of this character, and then develop the strengths and avoid the weaknesses.
Personally, I don't like people who don't have opinions, especially guys. Obeying other people's arrangements in everything is sometimes a very painful thing. Of course, if it's just a big man, on the contrary, it will be even more unbearable.
Assertively, it is not right to deal with things. Hehe, understand it slowly.
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People who have no opinions, can't make up their minds, don't know how to deal with problems, can't see the advantages of others, only see the shortcomings of others, this kind of person is too terrible.
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People who don't have an assertive opinion are those who do what others say, whether it's right or wrong, don't have the habit of using their own brains, and like to rely on others for a long time.
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Well, over-reliance will only make you more confused. Like a toddler, you can't always be supported! If you don't.
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People who are not assertive cannot see the good points of others with their eyes, and their mouths cannot express their own thoughts.
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The methods given by others are recognized by themselves, the opinions given by others are accepted by themselves, the understanding expressed by others is acquiesced by themselves, and it seems that they have no opinions.
When you don't have your own opinions, you can't listen to your own judgment.
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Because I don't have a clear goal, I am not firm in my own goal, and when others say this and that, I change my mind.
This is a manifestation of his lack of assertiveness, and it is also because he does not have unwavering confidence in what he does, so he will go with the flow.
When you have unwavering faith, you won't be without opinions.
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The reason for not having an opinion is that he can't make up his mind when he encounters something, and the reason is that there are always people around him who are making decisions for him, and he doesn't have to use his brain to think about making choices. If you want to change, start with small things, participate in everything, make your own decisions, and slowly you will work out.
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Sometimes the main key is exercised, so you must do it yourself when you encounter things, don't worry, don't panic, think about it yourself and be steady, so that you will have your own opinions in the future.
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Because there is no accurate judgment on the development of things. Or can't judge their own interests in **? If you know what you want, you will be assertive.
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The reason why I don't have an opinion may be because I listened to my parents for everything when I was a child, and then when I grew up. If you can't make up your mind, why should you listen to others?
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Not having an opinion is because you are not confident in your ability to do things, and you don't believe in yourself, which will cause you to have no opinion in your heart and make up your mind.
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Because parents handle everything no matter what, they develop the habit of relying on others, and sometimes they don't see things when they encounter them.
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I think the reason why people sometimes have no opinions, that is, they are uncertain about their actions or words, that is, they are not confident enough.
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Assertive, describing one's own definite opinion or opinion about things. Have the ability to think independently. In the Guizhou dialect, there is a meaning of not doing one's duty and deliberately stirring up trouble. The antonym of assertiveness is blind obedience.
Being assertive is actually a manifestation of the ability to think independently, which refers to those who can complete independent thinking and form an opinion that guides action, maybe his decision is not necessarily right, but he can firmly believe in the results of his analysis, and can express it with reason, this is a kind of assertiveness. Its main characteristics are independence and self-confidence, without the support of independence and self-confidence, the so-called assertiveness is also untenable, a person with an assertive opinion, must be a confident and independent person.
Do you have such a feeling, some people seem to have that kind of leadership quality, because he can always put forward his own unique views and unique perspectives, sometimes you feel that he has a kind of contagion, this kind of contagion is the right judgment of things, and the spirit of being able to unswervingly realize his own judgment, such a person is assertive.
When you don't know how to serve, when you don't know how to act, an assertive person appears, he will lead you forward and tell you what you should do, in other words, an assertive person knows what to do when and when, and doing the right thing at the right time can get good results, which is what an assertive person should be.
When you are hesitating between spinach and rape when you are shopping for groceries in the supermarket, you can judge that you may be an unassertive person, and those who have an opinion will not have too much hesitation when choosing what they want, and what is there to hesitate about when choosing a dish that they like the most? In fact, there are many things in front of you, all you have to do is a calm analysis, and after analyzing the pros and cons of the two, you can compare them together, and hire them on the basis of merit.
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