When you are pregnant out of wedlock and your boyfriend tells you that he doesn t love you and asks

Updated on society 2024-07-24
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    <>I think since the two of you have nothing to do with each other, there is no need to keep this child, although he is a life, but it is not to the point where you have to keep it, if you keep it will bring a lot of pain to your future life, it will involve all aspects of problems, and many things will be entangled, not only you and your ex-boyfriend's problems, but also with the current There are many problems, for the future life I strongly recommend that you do not leave yourself unnecessary trouble, which is also a good way for you to cut off the root cause.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Very simple! Since your boyfriend says he doesn't love you anymore, it means that your relationship is over! So, don't leave anything to chance, or try to make it back.

    Tell him directly: ".Whether you have children or not, whether you beat children or not, what does it have to do with you! You're just an outsider, and you're not qualified to ask me what to do!

    Then, walk away.

    A man who ends a relationship with a woman after she becomes pregnant cannot order her to do anything, for whatever reason. Besides, knocking out the child isHurt body, sad heartmay be a scourge for a lifetime.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    For such a scumbag, leave decisively.

    Girls must protect themselves well in the process of falling in love, even if the love is strong, the two have a skin-to-skin relationship, they must also take protective measures to protect themselves, so as not to cause physical and mental harm.

    My evaluation of your boyfriend is very negative, so I told you bluntly to leave him quickly, this kind of irresponsible man who only cares about his own momentary pleasure is useless.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The answer may be cruel to you, but the truth, for your own good, and for the good of your unborn child, it is recommended to endure the pain and cut your love!

    An illegitimate child, for an unborn child, is destined to be sad for the rest of his life, knowing this, and still willing to give birth, then this is also cruel and selfish!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you have better economic conditions, achieved financial freedom, and raising children in the future will not reduce your quality of life, you can give birth to your own children; If he is not financially good and his boyfriend is determined not to want you and the child, then the child can not do it, and ask him to compensate you by the way; If he is willing to marry you, the child should be kept.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Then let him pay the ** money, nutrition expenses, lost work expenses, youth injury expenses, and kick this scumbag again. Fortunately, this incident made it clear to you who he was? Instead of stepping into the walls of marriage, it will be too late to know.

    Through this, girls must love themselves and do not easily cohabit with others.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello, if I talk to him again, if he still has such an attitude, break up directly, never contact again....

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If your boyfriend tells you that he doesn't love you and asks you to get rid of the baby when you are pregnant out of wedlock, it is best to get rid of the baby because the other party doesn't love you at all and won't be responsible for you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When you have children before marriage, but your boyfriend tells you that he doesn't love you and asks you to kill the child, what should you do at this time? I feel that I should leave him decisively, if I have the conditions, I will give birth to the child, if I have no conditions, I will beat the child, and find a man who loves you in the future.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since your boyfriend said so, then even if you give birth to a child, he won't care, oh yo, the only thing to do is to let him be responsible for the cost of killing the child and the cost of hurting you, and stay away from the scumbag. Remember to love yourself in the days to come.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When you are pregnant out of wedlock and your boyfriend tells you that he doesn't love you and asks you to kill the baby, what should you do? I think if it were me, I would definitely beat it off, because he doesn't love you, and if you give birth to his child, you won't have a father, so for the sake of the child, you can't have it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When you conceive a child before you get married, but your boyfriend tells you that he doesn't love you and asks you to kill the child, what should you do? If it were me, I should have kept this kid. Because the child is innocent.

    It's a pity that I love me very much. Boyfriend, I must raise this by myself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Although the child is innocent, your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore, of course, you have to beat Della, otherwise it will affect your happy life in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    As a man, isn't it time to hold a wedding in a hurry? At this age, you still have to beat it, do you have a sense of responsibility? Isn't it your own crystallization, a life?

    The woman still insists on her own ideas and keeps the child, if the man insists on beating it out, then it is recommended that you beat it down, or find a responsible man to marry and have children.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Everyone's thoughts are different, and if it were me, I wouldn't want to. It's not worth having a baby for a man who doesn't love you. And even if he is married, he may not be tied to him with a child, and it will be a disaster for the child.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When you are unmarried and pregnant, but your boyfriend tells you that he doesn't love you anymore and asks you to kill the child, I think normally you can only beat it, otherwise it will be difficult for you to get married again in the future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This situation is really difficult to solve, so the better way should be to hit the child, but hitting the child is very harmful to the body, and you also have to recognize that the boy, he has a problem with his moral character, don't associate with him in the future.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When you are unmarried and pregnant, you take it, you tell you that he doesn't love you, let you fight, you still use, what should you do. I think this is indeed a difficult question to choose, because the child is a life after all, which shows that this man is really not very responsible. Therefore, girls should protect themselves at all times.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In this case, since your boyfriend tells you that he doesn't love you and asks you to kill the child, then you have to kill the child, otherwise your boyfriend will not marry you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Let your boyfriend take the money to go for the surgery and break up after the surgery.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I can only knock it out, and it's not good for anyone to be born

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This is that your vision of people needs to be strengthened, so you must pay attention to the fact that your boyfriend is a scumbag.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This is the problem of cheating traffic, and the answer is obvious.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Unmarried pregnancy and a man who doesn't love him don't want to marry a child, this man is not worth it. The man knows that he doesn't want to be responsible for having a child, so he doesn't want to get married right away but doesn't want this child, leave this man quickly, and don't have a child with him for the rest of his life. It's also unfair to children.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Now that this is the case, the more important it is for you to keep your mind clear, and don't mess up yourself. First of all, you have to ask yourself whether your love has an important place in the mind of your romantic partner (or fiancé), or is he just playing on the scene? 2. Whether your love relationship is approved by both parents, although marriage is free and autonomous, but without the blessing of your parents, it will bring a lot of inconvenience and unhappiness to your future life.

    3, the man's family knows that you are pregnant now, but they are so indifferent to you and ignore you. What is their mentality, do they not approve of your "union", or do they hold on to the raw rice that is now cooked and cooked, and want to use it as a threat, so that they can marry you with a more "ideal" bride price? 4, their family still regards you as an outsider, what do you love, what do you love.

    All in all, I don't think this family is really good. You are a person in the bureau, you have to think carefully, as the saying goes, marriage emphasizes more on the right person, with the progress of people's concepts, modern people pay more attention to the right person in terms of thought and spiritual feelings. If it is not in tune, it should be broken, and you must not drag the mud and water, otherwise it will be you who suffer.

    If I have a daughter, I must give her three words of advice about premarital sex when she is in love

    1. Don't have sex with your boyfriend before marriage or don't have sex too early.

    Second, if you have sex, you must use contraception, so that you can avoid unmarried pregnancy, and you must take care of your body.

    Third, if you get pregnant, you must minimize the risk, that is, the sooner you terminate the pregnancy, the better.

    Let's talk about the subject's troubles, he is already unmarried and pregnant, and the man's family ignores it, in the face of such an embarrassment, I think it can be dealt with like this:

    First, since the man ignores it, it means that the man does not approve, since he does not approve, if he is pregnant, he is forced to marry, even if he is married, he will not be happy, it is better to go to the hospital as soon as possible to terminate the pregnancy and start life again.

    Second, getting pregnant unmarried is not a person's responsibility, and the man must be required to bear certain responsibilities, such as the cost of going to the hospital, nutrition expenses, lost work expenses, etc. If the man is not a strange family, the man will not refuse such a request. If it's a strange family, you can admit bad luck.

    Third, if the child must be born, and the man still doesn't care, then appeal, and pass the law to ask the man to bear the corresponding responsibilities and obligations. But it's easy to have a baby, but it's hard to raise a good child, so if you want to make such a choice, you must think twice.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Knock the child out and break up. Because this man is not responsible, he is not enough to be a husband.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    One thing is for sure: he doesn't love you enough, otherwise no one would want to do the crystallization of himself and his beloved.

    If you want to break up with him, this kid really can't want it. Now he has this attitude towards the child, and when they are separated in the future, he will not treat the child even more.

    In light of this, why should you leave yourself with such a big burden?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Rational analysis that this child should be killed, because it is really hard to raise a child alone, and this man really has no sense of responsibility.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If it doesn't think about you in the current situation, it's not love. You don't love yourself either, you know you can't do it, and you can only bear the consequences. The difficulties of a single mother are unimaginable, and it is not good for the growth of children, so talk calmly with your boyfriend and plan for the future.

    Everything will be fine.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    What you need to do now is to go to the hospital as soon as possible to find out what your physical condition is, and see what the doctor says. Regarding your boyfriend, if he is still unwilling to get married in this situation, is he a scumbag 100%, as a man should be responsible or responsible, it is recommended that you leave him. If the doctor advises you not to beat the child after the examination, then you have to think carefully about whether you can raise the child, and the road ahead for a single mother will be very difficult.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    After all, it is a life, so persuade him that it is best to stay with this child and do more psychological counseling.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There are too many miscarriages, and it has become a habitual miscarriage, and a man has not even given up his own children What kind of responsibility to talk about career is just an excuse Since you don't want children, why don't you take safety measures Now that you are pregnant with a child, you say that it is for the sake of your career. If you want to be a single mother, you have to be prepared to endure hardships.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Look at your boyfriend's opinion, if he doesn't want it, it's better not to be this kind of irresponsible man, as for the child is still lost, you think about it, it's definitely not easy for you to take care of a child alone, the environment in which the child was born is not good, a single-parent family, and the father is so mixed. First, ask for his opinion first, it is easy to talk if you are born, and if you are not born, you will be diverted, this is the best plan.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You have to think clearly, what it means to be a woman who can't have children, once you fight for him, if he abandons you, it will be difficult for you to find someone who loves you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Like you said, if your physical fitness does not allow, you still have to be good! If there is no impact, you can do without! But I don't want why not use contraception...

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Thanksgiving is wholeheartedly accepting the present situation and seeing it as God's best will for us. When we praise Him sincerely, things change, and His power clearly comes into our situation. Sooner or later, we will find that we and our circumstances will change, and this change will allow us to experience the true joy of God's presence in what was once seen as a hardship.

    2Cor. 1:11 And ye help us with prayer, that many may give thanks for us, for the favor we have received for many.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think your boyfriend is so irresponsible, and the miscarriage hurts the body.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Then you should persuade him, tell him what you think, or if you can't convince him, you go to his parents, explain your situation to his parents, and I believe that as long as he truly loves you, you should agree.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The boy is very selfish, completely ignores your body, and continues to ask him what to do, telling him that he doesn't want to beat this child, and see what he can do.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Legal analysis: Because the man and the woman have not received a marriage certificate, there is no marriage relationship between the man and the woman in law, but an ordinary love and cohabitation relationship, which means that there is no divorce between the man and the woman. The man and the woman can now separate directly if they want to separate, and they can marry whoever they want, and the law will not determine that the man and woman have delayed their marriage just because the man and woman have held a banquet in their hometown.

    If it is not possible to negotiate a settlement of the child and property issues, a lawsuit can be filed in court over this part.

    Legal basis: Article 1071 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Children born out of wedlock enjoy the same rights as legitimate children, and no organization or individual may harm or discriminate against them. The biological father or mother who does not directly raise a child born out of wedlock shall bear the maintenance of the minor child or the adult child who is unable to live independently.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    First of all, I am able to understand your current predicament and inner pain. However, please know that you are not wrong and there is no need to blame yourself. You should first face your emotional and mental problems, and then find a way to face life and the future.

    First of all, I recommend that you seek professional psychological help in order to cope with this dilemma and psychological problems. You can find a counselor or doctor to help you cope with your emotional and mental problems.

    Second, you need to think hard about your life and future. You need to make a clear plan that includes professional development, financial independence, and self-growth. You can consider further education to improve your professional skills and enhance your financial ability so that you can take on more responsibilities and obligations.

    Finally, you need to recognize your own worth and abilities and learn to take responsibility for yourself. Don't put all the blame on yourself, and don't let others define your worth and life. You should learn to love yourself, be firm in your beliefs and goals, and fight for your future.

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