Pregnant out of wedlock and having a baby? If you are pregnant before marriage, should you give birt

Life is your own, and you need to encounter the contradictions that these problems bring, whether you can solve them, whether you have the money to solve them, whether you either bear the suffering or don't do it.

When you meet such a man, you can only say that you looked away at the beginning, and now the only thing you can do is to call your mother-in-law, let your mother-in-law take care of the children, and you go out to work to earn money, otherwise who will you ask for your own expenses and children's expenses?

Having children before marriage is a serious mistake you are making. Now your boyfriend is doing this to you again, and you didn't see your boyfriend's character clearly in advance. So if such a result occurs, you should bear it yourself.

HSBC is pregnant first, and if you have a child, it depends on your conditions. If the conditions allow, give birth to the child, and never miscarry. This is very harmful to the woman's body. It is said that children are the crystallization of love. It should be born to be a testimony of your love.

Alas, Gu Liang, how did you get to this point. Unmarried pregnancies have children, to be honest, I can only say that there is, but it is hard to find, and it will be much more difficult than not having children. I hope you won't be so reckless in the future.

If it is the case of having children before marriage, then it depends on whether you want to have this child or not, and if you want it, you can keep it. I'm in a hurry to get married.

If you are pregnant before marriage, it is better to get rid of it if it does not affect your body. If the two have the right conditions for marriage, they can also get married. It's good for your children and good for you.

Family disputes can be coordinated by two people, and I don't think it's a big problem for some financial reasons.

I think that if you have a child, if you can, get married and have children. Don't do it**. It hurts the body. This is also the crystallization of love, and it is also a testimony of love.

100 million married and had children. You're going to have a hard time. Before you get married, you have children first. It's not good for you.

If you get pregnant before marriage and have a child, it may have some impact on your life. You should get married as soon as possible.

You just went to work after confinement, did your body suffer, what should the child do?

Are you not old, if you are older, you will be more stable and will treat the problem calmly, you already have children or get the certificate as soon as possible. That's how you can protect yourself.

Although I have never thought about this issue, as a woman, if my fiancé dies suddenly after I am pregnant, then in this case, I will still choose to keep Huaihu and his child.

First of all, a direct reason for the destruction of the chain is that there is a deep relationship between the two of us, in the case of such an unfortunate situation, I will still maintain a deep love for my fiancé, it can be said that this child is not only the continuation of his life, but also the crystallization of the love between the two of us, out of my longing for him, I will choose to keep this child, even if I will suffer a lot of difficulties and setbacks in the process of raising and educating this child alone, I will still make such a decision.

On the other hand, the sudden death of my fiancé brought me a lot of pain, which is difficult for others to understand, and leaving his child and accompanying the child's growth process can free me from this pain as much as possible, and can allow me to spend more energy on the child, and will not let me be too sad for his departure, and the birth of this child will also bring me new hope, and I can experience an indescribable joy and happiness in the process of the child's growth. Even if my parents and other family members around me did not approve of my approach, I would not be influenced by them and still chose to keep this child, if I chose to give up this child, it would leave me with a sense of guilt and regret for the rest of my life.

In fact, there are many cases of unmarried pregnancy, many times because two people do not know contraception and get pregnant, and there are many cases where you do contraception but still win the lottery, and there are not a few chances of this kind of pregnancy.

There are also many examples of unmarried pregnancies, from the glamorous Ming Bo Xiaoxing to the ordinary people around us, in fact, there are such situations. If we think about it carefully, in fact, it is inevitable that such things will happen around everyone.

It's not terrible to get pregnant before marriage, it's terrible that you are pregnant for him, but he doesn't want to be responsible and evade responsibility. Although it is the responsibility of two people to have a child, in this kind of matter, women will be hurt more. Not only in reputation, but also in the body.

Fangfang and her husband met by chance in the store, just like they met in an idol drama. Fangfang was an optical store clerk, and at that time she had just experienced a failed relationship, and her mood was very irritable every day.

But that man is very considerate of her, he will bring her food and milk tea every day, and will pick her up and commute to work when he is free. When she is sick, she will be taken to the hospital in time and reminded her to take medicine on time.

Later, they naturally got together, and their lives were very sweet and sweet. The only fly in the ointment is that the man's parents are dead, he is also physically disabled, and there are only two sisters and him in the family, but the two sisters are like no brother Yingao, and they never care about him.

In fact, Fangfang knew these at the beginning, and she also hesitated, she knew that finding a man whose parents were dead and who was alone and had no savings would not have a good life, but she was moved by everything he did for her.

So she thought that as long as the two of them could work hard together, they would definitely be able to live well. Fangfang's parents knew about this, and they strongly asked Fangfang to break up with the man, because they felt that the life of a child without a father and mother was hard, and even if they could endure hardship, it would not be so easy to succeed.

For yourself, for the sake of that child, you can't give birth, you will have a child when you get married, what do others think of you, if the child is born.

How can a person raise it? When he grows older, how do you explain it to him? The tragedy of unmarried pregnancy is reflected through the lack of money, immaturity, irresponsibility, and lack of communication skills with Canhu's family.

The misfortune caused by these problems is inevitable, and the baby born out of wedlock and pregnancy is only a victim of misfortune.

If you have a child out of wedlock, you won't talk about it if it's not good for yourself, and the damage caused to your child is great. In particular, the psychological shadow caused to the child is difficult to heal, will have an impact on his life, I think everyone hopes that their children can grow up in a healthy and harmonious family environment, if you are pregnant before marriage, and want to have children, just hurry up and get married! That's a real, warm home!

So when considering whether or not to keep this child, please don't believe too much about the opinions of the so-called people who have crossed the river, analyze the strengths and weaknesses of your own situation, and think about the greatest sacrifice you can make in the worst-case scenario, and then make a decision that is responsible for each life.

In addition, whether a fetus is a living being, or when it can be counted as a human being with human rights and the right to life, is a hugely controversial issue in ethics and medicine, as well as in other fields, and I also wrote about this issue when I was in college. So please don't jump to conclusions about the fetus being just a fertilized egg, a meaningless cell.

Many women have children for many years after **, and this matter is still a nightmare in their long night, please be cautious when facing life. In addition, I sincerely persuade every girl to take responsibility for her own life, because it is your life, and you are the only one who has the right to decide her own body and future. You are not an appendage to anyone, don't be kidnapped by anyone to make decisions that you regret.

Although it is very cruel, but I will not give birth to this child, Bi Rui Weilu is born a child who is not blessed, how do you take care of him, you can't grasp your future life, how to grasp the child's life.

If I had become pregnant out of wedlock, I would not have given birth to this child because I was not sure if this person would marry me, and I would not want to live alone with a child.

No, if you give birth, your in-laws will look down on you, and you will let yourself marry into your in-laws' family without any bride price.

Children are the hope of a family, the continuation of life for parents, and the most beautiful testimony of love.

Getting married and having children is something that most people have to go through, whether it is for a mother or a family, the appearance of a small life will make people feel happy.

The times are advancing, thinking is also changing, and now many young people are living together in love, so there are many unmarried pregnancies.

For some people, getting pregnant out of wedlock may not be a problem, but it's not the majority. In life, I believe that many people have heard, seen, and even experienced unmarried pregnancies.

Some people will say that this is for love, some people say that it is fate, but I believe that some people can't accept it, so what happened to those unmarried and pregnant girls?

Many examples in life tell me that they end up tasting the bitterness of life.

Not long ago, I heard a friend talk about her sister, who worked in a bubble tea shop after graduating from high school, and it was at that time that she met her current boyfriend.

At that time, I was young and my income was unstable, so I didn't think about getting married. Later, they had a little savings, and my friend's sister wanted to get married, but her boyfriend never mentioned the word marriage.

Just a year ago, my boyfriend proposed to move in with my sister so that I could save rent and be together every day, and my sister agreed.

That is, five months ago, my sister was pregnant, and she should have prepared for marriage according to normal thinking, or if she met a scumbag, she would have to kill the child, but her boyfriend was neutral and couldn't beat the child and didn't say marriage.

The reason for him to do this is very simple, because his sister's family asked for a bride price of 100,000 yuan, and he felt that it was too much, so he dragged on like this.

To put it mildly, my sister can't beat the child when she is a month old, and even if she kills the child, it is not good to find her in-law's family again, so she can only marry him like this, and in the end, her sister's family will always regress in the bride price.

You think that getting pregnant out of wedlock is love, but what if it is your one-sided love? Then the child in your belly is not the crystallization of love, but a threatened bargaining chip.

In the end, you chose to regress for the sake of your children and yourself, but don't you think such a pillow person is too terrible? Will you be happy for the rest of your life for decades?

Some people may say that there are friends around you who are unmarried and pregnant and still live happily, and her in-laws are also good to her, but have you ever thought that in most cases, in fact, this is a small probability event, don't use the rest of your life to bet on an unknown outcome.

Because it's really scary for a woman to marry the wrong person.

The normal order of marriage is to get married first and have children, disrupting this order, it may also change the direction of your life, so don't be willful, the most important thing is that a person who really loves you will definitely give you a name first, have a family first, and then have a child belonging to two people.