Do you really understand that love is not simple?

Love? Can you tell me that you really understand love? Don't you understand that love is a kind of simplicity?

You're wrong. People in love can be simple or complex. Maybe your love can't withstand any torture, maybe letting go, is the best choice, don't let go, go on like this, ...

It's only going to be harder,....If you feel that this love is really worth keeping and cherishing, ...Then grasp it well, solve the problem appropriately, and don't be too impulsive

Love that can be defeated by reality is often mixed with too many impurities. I remember some time ago, a reader friend asked me: Is it that the current love can't withstand reality, and it can't stand the test of reality?

obviously loves someone very much, but the other party will leave him because of material conditions; Obviously, he can give everything, but he is not qualified to say "can you not go". There are countless loves that think it is true love, but they lose to reality, and it seems that love can't survive reality has become a norm. However, the reason why there is love in the relationship that can't withstand reality is only because some people who love love are not so "pure", so they will pay special attention to reality.

Not so "pure", proving that the person wants too much. Before falling in love, I wanted true love; After falling in love, I want a stable life; Life is stable, and I want a higher level of life; I have all of them, and I want a more perfect true love. When everyone wants to protect themselves, they naturally can't protect love, and in the end, it's just that someone doesn't love so much.

In the relationship, the more "pure" the love, the less likely it is to be defeated by reality, and the specific reason is very simple. "Pure" love, regardless of reality, naturally will not lose to reality, Yuan Haowen wrote in "Touching the Fish: Yanqiu Ci": "Ask what the world is like, and tell the people of life and death."

In the past, love was often to choose one person, live a lifetime, fall in love with someone, no matter what the relationship was afterward, two people would not be easily separated. There are even some couples, in order to be with each other, they can go private with each other regardless of their family's opposition, and they can put down everything to be with each other regardless of the consequences. It is also because of this that there is a poignant love between Zhu Yingtai and Liang Shanbo, and a touching story between Romeo and Juliet.

What is the reason for the formation of similar stories? In fact, it is because two people don't care about reality and love very "pure" that the love between two people has not been lost to reality. If Zhu Yingtai, like other girls, pays attention to the right person and strictly follows the habit of matching her parents, then even if she loves Liang Shanbo again, the two of them will not have anything to do with each other.

When a person cares about something, he will pay too much attention to what he cares about, and the aspect that he cares about will become a shackle in his life. Zhu Yingtai and Liang Shanbo care about the love between the two, which makes them willing to give everything for love. Nowadays, with the gradual increase in the pace of life and the gradual increase in the pressure of life, everyone's focus has slowly shifted from emotion to life, and they always feel that their life is everything.

is also because of the disadvantages, when falling in love with someone, many people are thinking about whether their lives can be maintained, and even more, the person who can be with them must bring better living conditions to themselves. When love can't be difficult to be "pure", the more you worry, the farther the distance between two people, and when you stand the test of reality, there will naturally be more people who can't survive reality. Those loves that are defeated by reality are not so much that reality defeats love, no.

Simple love, in fact, is very rare in today's society!What is pure love? In fact, I think it's that two people are very happy together, and I feel that there are only two of you in the world!

When you're not together, you miss each other a lot, and you dream of each other when you dream!But there are no distractions between each other at all, just feel that each other is very happy together, very happy!That's pure love!

Now this kind of love is rare really.

It's two people happily together.