Is it that you will never get true love?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-14
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You need a mature man to plan your life now, because what you are facing now is not love, but to learn how to live with two people, the world of two people is not so easy, a mature man has to be responsible for you, even if you have no career, you must have a sense of responsibility, you must know that you love your own woman, love your own woman, you have to make it clear to her, you have to accept the reality, face the reality, if you can change it, with the person you love, that is really happy, if you can't change it, You have to be very tired of living with him, see if you are willing to give an unrequited love for love, learn to cherish, and learn to give up at the same time. May you choose with your heart.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First look at whether you are very sure to be with him in your heart, even if it is very difficult (two places, parents are opposed, etc.), and then see if he is very sure to be with you, even if it is very difficult (two places, parents are against it, etc.), if so, you should talk about how to arrange your future, and then implement it step by step, if you are shaken and not sure, then you should decide earlier, don't delay yourself, and save time for each other.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    sure It's not easy to have a relationship, maybe you should sit down and talk about it. You can't have it both ways, and everyone knows that.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After 4 years, you can't be together or is there another reason? If you can't be together all the time, don't insist anymore... If you can be together for a year and a half, don't give up.

    Time can make you understand what he is doing in a different place... Think about the good and the bad for yourself...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This kind of love is not at all Netizens can do such things as sending emails every day And when a person leaves, you don't know if he has changed at all, so give up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Alas, too. The woman gave the best years to him who was lonely and far away.

    So now it's time for a showdown with him.

    Because you can't wait any more empty.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Tell him that you want to marry him, and if he doesn't agree, don't look back, leave!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because we don't get it, we think it's better, but in fact, after being satisfied, we may find that it's not so good, because human beings are essentially unsatisfied creatures. So, when we know that we can't be with each other, imagination can always make us think that he is the best fit for us, and if it is realized, it will be very happy, in fact, this is all false emotion. Because there is no quarrel because they are not together, so that they do not spoil the impression and lead to him being a very good person in your heart.

    Therefore, the more you yearn for it, the more you want it.

    Generally, when we like people, we will take the initiative to forget those shortcomings, and when we can't be satisfied, this kind of perfection will cover our impression of him even more. As a result, we will become more obsessed and want to be with him at all costs. Because I can't get it, I think so much in my head.

    But if you go according to normal, if you are lucky enough to be married, this feeling may really wear away over time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    God is fair to everyone, love in a narrow sense refers to the love between lovers, in a broad sense also includes love between friends and love between relatives, so it can be seen that people will not be lonely for a lifetime.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    How so? Believe that love is around the corner, and it will come to you inadvertently! Although the current society is becoming more and more realistic, and people are becoming more and more realistic, it is still necessary to believe in love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The girl is soft-hearted, if she really doesn't feel that she won't agree really if she agrees to that.

    If she doesn't love you, she won't be happy.

    Fu, you won't be happy when you go back to that answer, the man who has a sincere heart for the girl is the most impressive, if you meet the person who sees your sincerity, then you will be very happy, love will come naturally, maybe you inadvertently make the girl fall in love, don't have no hope for love, love is waiting for you, maybe the girl is also waiting for your discovery, you can definitely find the person you love and the person who loves you at the same time, I believe that your sincerity can impress the girl who is waiting for cheers,

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    No, it won't! Anyone has the experience of love, whether they are married or not! I wish you to find a wonderful love!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's unpredictable, and some of the people I know have got married because of age and other problems! But you are not happy after marriage, so you find your love as soon as possible! Because 84 years is not small, it is difficult to say about this thing, and it has been half a year to talk about one.

    How much time can you have! It's hard to find at the age of thirty, and most of you have had a boyfriend or divorced when you find it! You don't believe in the saying that fate has not arrived or that fate has not arrived, and it is good to find it in the end.

    What if you can't find the right one? Do you still believe this statement? So it's time to look for it seriously!

    Purely personal opinion, do not expect to score. I just hope it helps!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I often ask myself if I won't be able to get my own son for the rest of my life.

    Bai's love sometimes has a chance du

    On my own side, I will ask myself, is this love, is it really him, but the answer is no, a person has been with himself for a long time, even if there is no love, there will be a feeling of inseparability, it feels easy to see others fall in love, today I broke up, tomorrow I can find a new one, and then every day I start to struggle Sometimes it feels very boring, it's a waste of time, but they often say that I am practicing, so that I can know what I really want, but I can't always take the first step I think this thing should still be worth the wait, at least I'll wait until I'm 30 years old, and if it hasn't appeared, then there's no way, just find someone to marry me and then fall in love, hehe.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Feelings are looking for bai

    The appetizer, the opponent, the difference in personality, the difference in the pursuit of people, etc., are all unreliable! Xiquanhuan is a faint love, at the beginning, you can be an ordinary friend to slowly communicate, and in the process to feel whether each other is suitable for each other! Slowly care, love, I believe that each other can feel, if each other feels suitable, unconsciously enter the stage of love, it is as complicated as you said!

    People will be disgusted if you chase girls for a long time, believe in yourself, your other half will appear soon!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Anyone who has really been in love knows that love will turn into family affection. Just find something about the same, you'll have feelings, you're a perfectionist.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Be confident in yourself. If you really love her, then don't give up. Keep at it.

    Back if that woman really doesn't feel good about you.,Then don't force it.。。 Maybe she's not your fate. Relax, you will meet your only one.

    Of course, the premise is that you also really give.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    As long as you love with your heart, love will come, and it is not love that supports you through life, but love and affection.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Maybe fate hasn't arrived, don't look forward to love too much, maybe one day love will come to you quietly, don't worry too much.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Everyone has their own love

    Love, now there is nothing but that.

    Zhi fate has not arrived.

    DAO, the time has not yet come.

    To meet the right person at the right time, fate can not be stopped, of course, a person to get love, first of all, to give love, you have to open your heart, if you meet the person you love to confess, meet the person who loves you, if you can still cherish, give him "her" opportunity, so I think you will definitely get your own love, I wish you happiness!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Persistence is victory! If you really love her, then you are pursuing her for half a year.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    First of all, love is the most real, you give everything you don't necessarily have in return, and you shouldn't be disappointed, because you also want to answer the true love. It's never a matter of height, I have friends who are a few centimeters taller than their boyfriends, but it doesn't affect them at all. You will take the time to care about others to pursue what you want, and there is nothing wrong with that, and you are expected to keep doing it, but in the right direction.

    Because the baby is misplaced and other waste. 84 years for men, really young, cherish the life of being single now, because there is not much time for a single life in a person's life, of course the wife has to find someone who really loves each other... Because your next life is for love, if you live only to make do.

    It's so embarrassing.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Everyone has their own belonging, but fate has not yet arrived.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Believe in yourself, everyone has everyone's love. I wish you happiness.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Actually, you don't have to worry so much about it! I used to be the same as you, the girl I pursued didn't like me, and told me that you are a good-looking man, and I am willing to do anything for you except love! But my feelings for you are not love.

    Later, I also liked it, but I didn't dare to confess it because of the shadow in my heart. So I've always thought I'm a tragic figure, I'm about the same size as you, and the only thing that has some advantage over you is my appearance! I'm 86 years old.

    Later, I graduated and worked, and my family urged me to get married, so I asked someone to go on a blind date, just when I looked down on everything and looked for a suitable marriage, I unexpectedly met my wife (a white-collar worker in the company after I changed jobs)! It's not just to tell you about my love journey, I just want to tell you that sometimes the more you care about love, the farther away from you, but when you look down and let go of the burden, love will stand quietly behind you, and you can embrace it as soon as you turn around!

    Let go of your mental baggage! Brothers!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There are three main reasons why we always think that the love that we can't get is the most beautiful, first of all, what we can't get will always keep a distance and maintain a sense of mystery. Second, people tend to overestimate the value of things that they can't get. In addition, many people actually like the imaginary other person.

    We always say that what you can't get is the best, what you can't get is always in turmoil, and what you are favored has nothing to fear. In love, the same is true, the reason why everyone always feels that the love that can't be obtained is the best, the most memorable and unforgettable, is just the psychological effect, mainly I have the following reasons.

    First of all, what you can't get will always keep your distance and remain mysterious. We always say that distance produces beauty, if you can't get something, then you will always keep this distance, without further development, you will always be like a veil between you, there will be a sense of mystery, this mystery is actually like the kind of speculation about each other in the ambiguous period, which will make us full of expectations.

    Second, people tend to overestimate the value of things that they can't get. In life, when something is very scarce, people will feel that it is more valuable and will want to have it more, which is the principle of scarcity. The same is true in love, if you don't get this person, you will feel that he is worth a lot, because people will overestimate the value of things that cannot be obtained, and if you get it, it will be devalued.

    In addition, many people actually like the imaginary other person. In fact, after many people get something, their liking for them often decreases, because after we find out the truth, we feel that the other person is not what we imagined. That's because what we like is often the imaginary other party, not the real other party, and the love that we can't get will always make you imagine this love and always make you feel very beautiful.

    These are some of my observations.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Some people always say that the love that can't be obtained is the most beautiful thing, because in their opinion, what they can't get always has a place in their hearts, and because they haven't gotten it, they will only have beautiful imagination. When a person has only the good side in your heart, it will naturally seem incomparably precious. When you get it, two people will expose all kinds of shortcomings and deficiencies in the process of getting along, and then the once beautiful woman will be a mess, and even say if.

    If a person can't accept the shortcomings of the other person, no matter how good he once thought it was, he won't be able to go on. Therefore, it makes sense that there is no most precious thing that cannot be obtained, and love has always been like this.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Because this kind of love exists in memories or fantasies, it is the most beautiful after beautification.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Because everyone thinks that what you can't get is the best, because you can't get it and feel very unwilling, there is a saying that is very good, and what you can't get is always in turmoil.

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