The fire in her mother s house is burning, what does the girl give?

What should I buy when I go back to my parents' house?

Send alcohol and cigarettes. Although the other party's parents may not smoke or drink, you also have to express it, because the rules in some places are like this, you can't think that they don't smoke or drink and don't buy it, then you are committing a big taboo and will be regarded as very impolite by the other party's parents. Note:

No matter whether there is anyone in the other party's house who smokes or drinks, you have to light a cigarette with them and toast at the dinner table, which is common sense and rules, don't ignore it.

Festive gifts. If the meeting coincides with a holiday, you have to bring holiday gifts courtesy, such as: Mid-Autumn Festival moon cakes, Dragon Boat Festival rice dumplings, etc.

Home-prepared souvenirs.

The other party's parents know that it is a specialty prepared by your parents, which means that the woman of your team is very respectful, very sincere and attaches great importance to this meeting, and the first impression of your family can make the other party's parents feel good, after all, they feel that your family is very concerned about this matter, so they will also be very attentive to their daughter in the future.

Fruit milk. If the other party is a rural family, of course, it is more appropriate to send this, because rural families don't care much about etiquette and feel that these can be done; If it is an urban family, then this kind of thing sent through the alleys, the other party may think that you or your family is too casual, and will be dissatisfied.

Health. If the other parent has a calcium deficiency, poor absorption or other physical problems, they can send some health products. Note: It depends on the local customs to send this thing, after all, some people in some places think that it is unlucky to send things like medicine (health products).

Wellness equipment. Middle-aged and elderly people are prone to lumbar spondylosis, frozen shoulder, etc., and can consider sending health care equipment; AM equipment is also a more heart-warming gift, presumably the woman's parents will be able to feel your heart.

The mother's house is burning, the girl had better give money, and give money so that the mother's family can buy what they lack, which is the best gift to give.

My mother's house is on fire, so let's go back and see what we need. Buy it in a hurry. For example, bedding, grain, oil, and so on.

Good afternoon, friend, mother's house, don't be on fire, be a girl, you can send anything? Pick those most practical things, you can send them to your mother's house, you can also live in your mother's house, they don't believe it, I hope you can help your mother's family, this time is the most in need of your help, do your best!

The girl can't get the money to burn paper for her mother's family, but her brother can do it for her.

It shouldn't be good, if you don't go to the house, others and you can't go to the grave together, so it's not good. Because the grave cannot be repeated, if you go up first, others will not be able to go up, and then people will complain about you, aren't you creating contradictions?

Therefore, you must go to the house first, follow the family, and go to the grave to burn paper together.

It is normal to burn five periods directly to the cemetery.

Yes, there's nothing bad about it!

Things are secondary, care and care are primary.

Baby accessories or clothes, and gift money.

Sending relatives is a wedding custom. When the daughter gets married, the mother's family invites two men to escort the daughter to the in-law's house, commonly known as sending relatives. It is usually the uncle, uncle or cousin of the married person.

After the person who sends his relatives to the man, he must wait for the man to send someone to pick him up before entering the house, and the two people generally sit at two tables during the meal, and the man sends someone to accompany the banquet. The send-off generally drinks less, eats less, and tells the married daughter to leave after eating. After sending off the relatives, the man's guests continued the wedding banquet.

The elder who sends off the relatives is an important role, and he represents the authority and decency of the bride's family. The woman is particular about who to choose to send her relatives, and under normal circumstances, the woman's direct uncle is responsible. I really don't have a direct uncle, so I look for the closest and closest elder.

But not everyone can send relatives, this person must be dignified, generous, have an authoritative position, and be able to stand up to the shelf. However, if the woman does have a close uncle, no matter how vulgar the person's appearance and obscene behavior is, she must also come forward to send her relatives at this time, otherwise she will be laughed at and will not be able to raise her head for the rest of her life. And this kind of person has to go through short-term training to teach him all kinds of rules until he is familiar with it.

On the day of the appearance, it can hold up to the table. When sending relatives, you must bring the meat from the mother. Usually the day before the wedding, the man gives the woman a bag of noodles and a piece of pork with seven ribs, wraps the meat in red paper, and takes two bottles of red wine and a piece of celery.

The face is called leaving the mother's face, and the meat is called leaving the mother's meat, indicating that the bride is leaving her mother and setting up another door. When sending off, the woman has to cut the meat open and bring back the pork with three ribs to the man. In the meantime, find an empty bottle with mung beans and a green onion side by side.

Bringing back the meat of the mother, it means that although the daughter is married, half of it is still in her mother's house and cannot be separated, and the name is "ribs are not separated". Mung beans can give birth to bean sprouts, which means to tell my in-laws that my daughter can give birth, and the name is "after taking root". The send-off should walk behind the bridal sedan chair and dress generously and decently.

Now that the society has progressed, those who marry relatives generally have to prepare a few cars for the relatives who send them. When they arrived near the groom's house, the send-off stopped, because the send-off had to wait for the man to send someone to pick him up. Such a noble person naturally can't go to the man's house by himself.

And the man usually waited nearby early, and as soon as the send-off arrived, someone sounded firecrackers to tell the man's family that the send-off had arrived. However, the man did not take the family to his own home, but a neighborhood not far from the man's home. Because after the bride gets off the sedan chair or gets off the car, the man's juniors and sisters want to laugh, and the relatives don't want to watch people laugh at the bride.

In addition, the person who greets the relatives should stand on the left side of the gate and stretch out their hands to make a gesture of inviting them in. If there is someone on the right side of the door at this time, the person who sends off the relatives will never enter, because it is called "black dog drilling crotch". The send-off was welcomed to the front of the square table and sat down, and the accompanying guests would keep scattering cigarettes and saying some beautiful words, for fear that any inappropriate sentence would muddy up the happy event.

Of course, this escort is also exquisite, they are all the leaders of the man's family, they are outstandingly dressed and can speak. This also represents the dignity of the man's family.

Hello 1, this is called fire and prosperity.

2. It is also a saying of good luck.

Heze family. When the girl goes back to her parents' house, she still needs someone to deliver something.

When will the red paper sent to her mother's family be burned? I really don't know, we don't have this custom.

I think the customs of each place are different, so it needs to be based on the customs of your place, if there is no explicit rule, you can burn it whenever you want, after all, this is your family's own business.

I don't know much about the red paper that I gave to others, but I also want to send red paper, isn't the Venerable Master all yellow paper?

Don't believe this, it's all superstition, but it's usually a return to the door.

The main thing is to look at the local customs and habits, if you don't pay attention to these, you can learn more about the preferences of the other party, and try to do what you like. Genus.

1. Tea, the elderly generally prefer to drink tea.

2.Send a pot or two of green plants, which can not only decorate your home, but also purify the indoor air, killing two birds with one stone. However, the specific choice of gift color, variety, and style depends on your own vision.

The new home is generally moved in 3 to 4 months after decoration, and there are often a lot of harmful gases left, at this time, it is appropriate to send some green plants and flowers that absorb formaldehyde, fresh air and have a good meaning.

3.Send calligraphy and painting, it is best to have a little taste and decoration.

4.If you like to play chess, it's also a good idea to get a game of chess.

There is no need to be unconventional, we will take what others give. Let's look at the local customs, fish, apples, canned food, small appliances, ornaments and so on.

In this case, you can send some items used in the home according to the situation, you can also send a big red envelope, you can send 520,666,888,999, these are very auspicious, these red envelopes are reported, and then you go to your daughter's new home, to the new house to congratulate, the daughter and the in-laws are very happy, happy, and you can also give some of your own gifts, you can do it yourself, You can also send a big fish, and a carp to represent the meaning of living a prosperous and happier life.