How do I tactfully know if my boyfriend s parents have ever thought of giving me New Year s money?

This must be done in a tactful way, not directly, but to make them understand, and to give them enough face.

You can do this.

Ask your boyfriend to do a favor and put on a play. First, the man's parents have to be present, and then you and your boyfriend chat in front of them, let your boyfriend ask, and you answer.

Scene: A good friend of yours (female, and your boyfriend knows) has just started talking about friends.

Question: I heard that xx is playing with friends?

A: Well, she went to the man's house yesterday.

Q: Did the man's parents say no?

Answer: What does it mean (pause).

Question: It's not the woman who goes to the man, but the man's parents want to give the New Year's money? (pause for his parents to hear).

There are two options here.

A: 1Well, it's definitely given, isn't this our custom here?

2.Alas, I don't know if his parents didn't know about the customs here or deliberately didn't give it, she hadn't received it yet, and she told me about it. (Pause, and behave naturally, when his parents are not there, don't change your voice, so that his parents can clearly hear that you are talking about them.)

This can only be played on the spot).

Then just keep chattering.

Note:1Let his parents be able to listen to your conversation.

2.Be natural (can be rehearsed).

3.Don't chase the issue, change the subject or walk away when you're done.

Or you just wait and don't change.

Good luck.

It depends on your boyfriend, 1 you can't take the initiative to ask your mother-in-law to ask for it, if you do, you and your boyfriend will be equivalent to blowing 50%, 2 is a showdown with your boyfriend, remember, you can't let his parents know, (you should have told him in advance) if you just want to mean the customs, just say it generously, I think they will understand!!

Sister, we can't just rely on this dead rule, if people don't give you New Year's money, you won't deal with others? Don't forget, you're married to him, not his parents! Besides, what people give you is for you, and if you don't give it to you, it proves that they don't like you?

They don't like you because they don't know you, so just because they don't like you, you don't get along with them? Besides, you should also see from their attitude towards you! You can't deny your relationship with your boyfriend because of their attitude...In short, don't feel like anything because of a little bit of customs, the rule is that the dead are alive...You don't understand that...

If you look closely at their attitudes, you'll know.

The little things look at the most real!

Do you like your boyfriend or do you like customs?

Dizzy, now I still have to ask about the New Year's money???

I think the red envelope sent by my boyfriend's mother should be accepted.

Since you already know your boyfriend's mother, it means that you have met your parents, then you and your boyfriend are in a relationship for the purpose of marriage. Your boyfriend's mother sends you a red envelope, which means that she likes you, she treats you as her daughter-in-law, and treats you as her own. <>

If you refuse her red envelope at this time, she will get angry and think that you are not polite. will feel that you don't take her as your own person, or even take her seriously. And he may also complain to your boyfriend, complaining that you don't know how to be polite, and your boyfriend's mom will complain to him that your boyfriend will be unhappy and even quarrel with you.

At this time, I should have received this red envelope, and then said thank you to my aunt, saying that I have been busy with work for a while recently, and I will go to see her when I have time. Of course, you can't just say this, after a while you should really visit her, buy some skin care products, or gifts she likes, so sensible and polite.

So that your boyfriend's mom is happy, your boyfriend is happy, and it's very likable. It is also good for the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future.

Summary. My boyfriend's family conditions are not good, can I ask for the New Year's money given by my parents? Dear, I feel that you are a warm, considerate and empathetic girl.

My boyfriend's family conditions are not good, can I ask for the New Year's money given by my parents?

My boyfriend's family conditions are not good, can I ask for the New Year's money given by my parents? Dear, I feel that you are a warm, considerate and empathetic girl.

The condition of the man's friend is not good, can he ask for the New Year's money given by his parents? Dear, the New Year's money should be wanted, it is not only the family's acceptance, recognition, respect, and more importantly, a wish, blessing.

Honey, how long have you known each other? It's a good thing to see your parents!

Do you think their family is not in a good condition, can you give an example?

I only saw his parents, and my parents didn't know yet.

Because my boyfriend and their family just bought a house and owe a lot of money, sooner or later, his mother transferred 500 to me on WeChat, and I don't really want to go to marriage with my boyfriend, look at their family, you are a daughter-in-law.

Although there are some difficulties at home, I still respect you and value you.

I don't really want to get married with my boyfriend darling, do you think it's not completely settled so far?

Can you tell us why you hesitated, struggled, and wanted to give up?

Because he's not the kind of boyfriend I want, what I want is Bi Kelu's humorous hand who will take care of people, and he won't talk sweetly and has no sense of ceremony, his mother has been used to him since he was a child, and now that he is 20 years old, I feel that he is very immature.

So I'm struggling with whether I should take this New Year's money.

Mmmmmm, I feel your sanity and sagacity, and I know what I want.

So I'm entangled in this New Year's money, I tell Zheng whether you should accept it, if you mind it very much, you can also not take it, or you can take it back to your boyfriend after receiving it, or return the socks to them in another way.

What are your local customs like? Are you going to their house this time to marry a prospective daughter-in-law?

No, we have been talking about Da Xun Chong for several years, and we met the man's parents just after a year, but we met, and we didn't discuss what Changyou engaged to marry, and then it may be because he grew up and matured, and found that he was not the person he wanted.

Uh-huh. How do you communicate this with your boyfriend?

I haven't said it yet, but now I think so, if I accept the red envelope, I will feel very guilty, if I don't accept it, it is his mother's heart.

Mmmm, you're tangled, conflicted, and at a loss.

One is your own feelings, from your heart, you don't want to accept the other is his mother's mind, so you feel that if you refuse, her mother will be very disappointed and uncomfortable.

What do you think is the most important thing when the two collide?