Is the person who has hurt you in love destined to hurt you a second time?

Updated on society 2024-07-06
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    The environment we live in is undergoing various changes all the time, with the continuous development of social economy and the continuous progress of science and technology, Internet technology.

    It has also become more and more developed. And the communication between people is becoming more and more convenient, so with the continuous influx of outside ideas, people's relationships are becoming more and more open, and the degree of free love is getting higher and higher. I have to say that in the process of falling in love, you will encounter all kinds of problems to a greater or lesser extent.

    So if someone who has hurt you in love, is it destined to hurt you a second time? In this case, it also varies from person to person, because in love, it is very likely that due to some other factors, you may feel very guilty, and after realizing your mistake, there will be no second time.

    But for some people, he simply did not realize his mistake and just used such a method to redeem his beloved. If you don't have a clear understanding of the seriousness of the problem, then in this case, you are likely to hurt your loved one a second time. Therefore, for this situation, it also varies from person to person, and we must make a judgment based on our own actual situation.

    And when we choose our own object, we must think carefully and consider before making a decision, because things like feelings cannot be forced.

    And in the process of love, many people will choose the person they like, so it is easy to be hurt. Because people who love others are always more likely to be hurt, and all the suffering is borne by themselves, so for things like love, we should also have a more correct attitude, which is very important.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The person who has hurt you in love is not destined to hurt you a second time.

    It depends on what kind of person this person is, because he hurt you once, he deeply realizes his mistakes, because he loves you more and cherishes the love of having you again, so he will not do anything to hurt you again.

    Unless he doesn't really love you, but only thinks about his own interests, is fundamentally self-centered, and ranks you in a dispensable position. Hurt you as his punching bag at times. This way, secondary damage, or even more damage, can occur.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The road of love has been smooth and bumpy, but it has been hurt before. It is not necessarily that you will be hurt in the future, and it is not necessarily that you will not be hurt in the future, because people are emotional creatures, and they are not perfect, and their thoughts will be inconsiderate.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think it's destined to be, you have to know that the person who has hurt you will not hurt you once and it will end, if you have to be with him, then he will only stab you again and again. For this kind of love, I would rather choose to leave, I will choose to break up with him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The person who has hurt you in love is destined to hurt you, the second time since he has hurt you for the first time, you can't let him hurt you again, because you have already suffered a painful blow, you can't bear the second time, when you are hurt for the first time, you have to stay away from this person, he will not cause you a second injury, because he is not suitable for you, she must choose to stay away when she makes you miserable and sad, and you must learn to protect yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think so, it depends on whether the person has changed, if he is the same as you used to and still hasn't changed, I think he will hurt you a second time, but if he realizes his mistake and changes, I don't think he will hurt you anymore.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This sentence is too absolute, although it is said that people who have hurt you once are very likely to hurt you again, but there are also people who wake up and change themselves to be good for you. In general, it is better not to eat back grass.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The person who has hurt you in love, if you don't know how to learn a lesson, continue to be entangled with him, don't know how to communicate, and don't know how to do ideological work, then, after getting along for a long time, it is destined to hurt you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think it's possible, because after he hurt you once, he may apologize to you, and then ask for your forgiveness, and then you are together again, he may make another mistake to hurt you, which is unavoidable, after all, human nature cannot be measured.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I understand that there is only one difference between one hurt and 10,000 times, and when he hurts you, he will hurt you again, because in the process of such a hurt, it shows that he doesn't care about your feelings.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The person who has hurt you in love, if you choose to forgive, then he will definitely hurt you for the second time, because it is very real in the world of feelings, and he has hurt you, which means that his love for you is not wholehearted.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Someone who has hurt you in love has a high probability of hurting you a second time. Because a person's nature is very difficult to change. Maybe intentionally, maybe unintentionally, will always hurt you again.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The person who has hurt you in love is destined to hurt you, it is impossible for such a thing to happen to me for the second time, in love, if the other party does not cherish it, it really hurts me, then I will definitely choose to break up, and I will never have any contact with him again.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Under normal circumstances, if a man can hurt you emotionally once, he will definitely hurt you a second time, but to analyze a person's good and bad, you have to remember that it is important for the man to hurt you under what circumstances (and circumstances).

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This is not necessarily, some people hurt you unintentionally, so the person who has hurt you in love will not necessarily hurt you a second time, it depends on the specific situation, however, if there is a first injury, you must pay attention to it, don't let the second time there be a hurt soil.

    Not necessarily, but beware.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Someone who hurts you once may not hurt you a second time, and maybe the other person will learn a lesson. Be careful with you, and won't hurt you a second time. Of course, it is not excluded that a small number of people who don't care about you themselves will hurt you many times.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think that the person who hurt me once in love will definitely not hurt me the second time, because I have nothing to do with him the second time. Therefore, in our lives, we must ensure that we do not let people who have hurt us hurt ourselves again.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If he hurts you, he will definitely hurt you a second time, because if you are hurt for the first time, then he will definitely hurt you a second time if there is still a chance.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you are hurt once in love, you will leave a shadow in your heart, and you feel that after he gets along, you may be hurt, and the second time many people will be taught again and again, and they will make the same mistakes, so it is very likely that they will be hurt again.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The person who hurt me in love will not hurt me a second time, because I will not give him a second chance, I am not so stupid.

    There are a lot of stupid women in this world, but it's definitely not me.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think for this kind of person, they will definitely choose to hurt you for the second time, because they don't know how to cherish someone anymore, so you must be careful, it is very easy to get hurt in love.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't think so, because in love, he hurt me and I can forgive him, but I can't give him a second chance to hurt me, I will choose to leave him, so he can't hurt me anymore.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This kind of thing will not be, because relatively speaking, the first time in love in the person who has been hurt, more or less some of the experience in love, the second time when choosing love, naturally know what kind of love is more suitable for themselves, what kind of person is more suitable to be with themselves.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you have been hurt by the same person once in love, it is inevitable that there will be no risk of being hurt by the second time, after all, he has obtained your forgiveness when he hurt you for the first time, so he may also have the next injury, at this time you should protect yourself well, and advance and retreat in time to not let yourself be hurt again.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Just like a husband and wife quarrel and do something, there will be a second time if there is a first time, he has hurt you, and he is destined to hurt you, so no bad thing can let him have a bud, this situation should be eliminated in the bud, do not hurt the other party, should be affectionate and reasonable.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The person who has hurt you in love, I feel that it will definitely hurt you, the second time, because he doesn't love you at all, he doesn't care about you, so he will hurt you, and the person who really loves you is reluctant to hurt you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, I think that the person who has hurt you in love, you should stay away from him, no matter what, if you meet again, he may hurt you a second or third time. So we should learn the lesson, and that's the best option.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you have been hurt by one person, you will not be easily hurt by the other person for the second time.

    However, once a person really falls in love with someone, his emotional intelligence will become lower and lower, and he will be easily hurt, for the second time.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If the person who has hurt you in love, he is likely to be hurting you, and the second time because there is a second time because of the first time, so to say well, after the person who has hurt you, after leaving you, you can properly consider whether you are still with her.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I won't give him another chance to hurt me, because I feel that if I plant a heel in one place, I can't do it again in a second place, and I'm still relatively clear-headed.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No. Because I will stay away from the person who has hurt me, and I will be vigilant, I will not give him another chance to hurt me.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    No, I'm going to be haunted by what he's done, I'm not going to forgive, I'm not going to give him a chance.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Of course, I won't give the other person another chance, because that would be tantamount to giving the other person another chance to hurt me.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Of course I won't give him another chance, because that would be tantamount to giving him another chance to hurt me.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Being hurt again and again, I believe that many people will be disheartened about the relationship, and feel that they may never meet a good marriage again, which is an idea that is easy to produce after encountering many setbacks. When encountering such a thing, we need to make the following psychological adjustments, so that we can face our emotions with a healthy mindset:

    Clause. 1. Jump out of the relationship for the time being. If you are hurt many times, then it is really not suitable to start the next relationship in a short period of time. You need to jump out of this circle first, stand on the periphery and take a look at the relationships you have experienced, and think about what caused the hurtful things to happen again and again.

    If you can't find the cause, then ask your friends to help, if you can't find the root cause of the development of these things, then, next time, you may still encounter the same result and the same harm again.

    When love comes, we have to take the initiative to move forward and seize it. When the fate is over, don't be too annoyed, we will never judge our career and studies can be enterprising, when you are positive and self-improvement attitude and state, you will definitely be seen by someone who cares, the next relationship, it is not far away.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    should be cautious about feelings, dare not give too much at once, and be even more afraid of being hurt again. But there is still hope to meet the right love.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Sometimes I may be afraid that I will be hurt again because I didn't understand the hurt I received from my previous giving, but I still believe in love.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I will give up my feelings, I don't trust anyone anymore, I feel that the world of feelings is to be hurt, and it is better to be alone.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I don't believe in feelings anymore, and I don't treat others with my heart anymore, I can't withstand such a blow.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I will be calm about my feelings, and if I like it, I will give it well, and if I don't like it, I will ignore it.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If I've been hurt again and again in a relationship, then I'm going to not want it. After all, the purpose of talking about feelings is to enrich myself, and if I am so unhappy and sad in this relationship, then why should I continue this relationship?

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I think if I'm in a relationship and I'm hurting all the time, I'll consider stopping the relationship.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I will accept it, because in such a life, love or not love will always hurt others. In terms of feelings, it is difficult to say whether it is right or wrong. The person I love, even if it is said that it is hurt by myself, I can love and accept the other person again, not to mention that he hurts others.

    Don't always believe that a good horse doesn't eat back grass, forget the pain after the scar, or know that there is a tiger in the mountain, and shrink into a turtle on the spot. None of this is realistic. After the pain, you know how to cherish it more, shoes on your own feet, comfortable or uncomfortable, only you know.

    Don't think that just because he hurts someone else, he will hurt you too. Everyone makes mistakes, you can watch for a few days and don't judge too early, because you don't want to miss someone who really loves you.

    He hurt others, but what if he realized his mistake. And love doesn't have a causal cycle as you might think. He doesn't necessarily hurt others, but he will also hurt you.

    Learn to believe that the love He brings you may be sweet. You can try to accept him and give him a chance. If you really love him, be nice to him, and if you don't love him, reject him early.

    In fact, time will make you understand love, and time can prove love. In this life, a person is in the process of learning to love and be loved. If there is no rejection, no harm, no try, how can you understand?

    Don't be afraid that the relationship will not work out because you are afraid. I think it's a pity if you miss out on this fate because you're afraid of getting hurt.

    If time does not make you accept him, then reject him. And we will always experience sorrow, pain, and failure, so don't be afraid to accept someone who has hurt others. There are a lot of false feelings in the world, pain, failure, sorrow, but maybe he is true to you.

    There is no need to tie yourself down with someone else's harm. Learn to believe and try, and the person who has hurt others may learn to love you.

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