What to do when adults and children see things from different angles

Because it's natural to have different perspectives, and this is the time to talk and guide your child. If your child's perception is limited, you can talk about the situations in which his perception does not apply; If it's inexplicable, just ask, "Oh?" Why do you see it that way?

and so on. In this way, you can understand the reasons for the formation of this opinion, and you may learn more about the child's growth story during the communication process, so that you can guide it. During the communication, a calm attitude and a curious tone are the best.

You give it a try.

Mar 3, 2012 03:37:468 PM

It seems that your little one is still very smart, at least when it comes to learning. But don't worry too much, many smart scientists don't like to talk either. He is introverted probably because he has less contact with the outside world, and the family environment is also an important factor.

Parents should encourage their children more when they do things, and it is best to let him make his own decisions, do not ask too much of him, and guide the child correctly if there is something wrong with him. You said that his homeroom teacher often beats and scolds students, so you had better show this issue to the school, and if necessary, ask the school to change a teacher, because this is related to the child's future, and this teacher cannot leave a shadow in the child's heart. If conditions permit, you can take your children out to travel more often and see the outside world.

Adults' worlds and perspectives are inherently different from those of children, so it's best not to interfere with each other as long as there is no problem, and to do things in your own way.

This is normal, **, as an adult, you should think more from the perspective of children, respect children's ideas, treat children equally, and don't impose your own views on children.

Whatever? Mothers should do their best to take care of their children, be patient to observe their children, care for their children, and often order some parenting books to read.

Different people have different perspectives. Everyone's perspective on the development of thinking is different.

If it's an optimistic idea, it's best to support it.

You can empathize and look at things from the child's point of view.

Don't erase the child's nature, he has his perspective on the problem, I think this is a good development of his innovative thinking, and it can also give adults a lot of inspiration.