My boyfriend plans to do a PhD, but I m just a college graduate

I'm a girl, and I'm selfish and I feel like you shouldn't continue to support it Unless you both have good family backgrounds, society is realistic, and life is realistic. If nothing else, he will definitely have a good future in three years?? It must be better than it is now?

As for you, I can only be cruel to say, it must be worse than now. Girls can't afford it

If it were me, I would choose not to let him go, since I have studied to graduate school, I can find a job, why do I still want to study for a doctorate, don't you still find a job and be with your beloved, after three years, you will still face employment Your cultural gap will be even greater, and it will form a barrier, so what you need is a person who can give you a warm home and love you, it's not that there is nothing to say, you need to think about it! Don't waste your youthful ...... anymoreMay you have a good home!

Now there are a lot of doctors, and I don't think there is any cultural generation gap, if there is, there is only an economic generation gap, hehe.

There should be more or less a cultural generation gap. Does it depend on the strong emotional foundation of the two of you? How's the communication?.

It's a shame to break up. Especially junior high school students. You can try to communicate with him.

First of all, you have to show that you are supportive. After that, I was talking to him in a consultative tone, not enough boys will usually say that it is impossible or something, but you have to give him a vaccination now. Or don't give up now, it's a pity to try to give up on feelings for so many years.

Wait if you want to, and don't leave yourself with regrets.

So, when you decide to start a "companion" love, or are already in it, how do you maintain this relationship?

Perhaps some valuable lessons can be gained from those cases that persevered to the end. We have collected a number of "companion" loves, and on the basis of analyzing their stories, we have compiled a list of tips that may help those brave "companion families" to better understand the hearts of the doctors and maintain the relationship.

I don't mind that our relationship will definitely need to be more tolerant of me during his PhD years, as long as he can understand the value of my work and not take it for granted. ”

At that time, they also thought about it a lot, and the two studied the problems they might encounter in the future together, and found a fixed meeting time, requiring that they must play ** every day, and then there were fewer contradictions. Fully communicate and fully understand the situation. ”

I knew that the future would be difficult, but he told me his thoughts from his point of view, and I also expressed my attitude openly and honestly, and it was our mutual decision to go on with him, so that even if we can't go on in the future, at least we must get together and disperse. ”

If you can't be your girlfriend's work partner, then solve her life troubles, take her to eat and drink, and I will take care of the housework without adding pressure to her. ”

When he is anxious, help him adjust, such as talking about light things and diverting his attention appropriately, sometimes it can help him to burst out of inspiration. ”

After all, he is studying, so the family affairs and expenses are mainly borne by me, and I let him relax, after all, he has time to repay me. ”

When her experiment didn't go well, the project was under pressure, and she even had the urge to live, she told her directly, if she really couldn't do it, you would raise her. ”

Don't listen to them being a mouthful of 'academic garbage', but deep down, I still want someone to recognize the value of my scientific research, so I must praise him more. ”

Every time someone asks her, 'What's the point of doing all this research you're doing?' I'm the first to go up and help her respond. ”

He is really busy with scientific research, and sometimes he can't take care of other things for many days in a row, and he doesn't have the heart to socialize, so at this time, I will go and find something to do for myself. ”

Blood and tears experience, it doesn't matter if you can't do anything else, the important thing is that you don't bother her. ”

It is undeniable that in the journey of accompanying readers, it is indeed necessary to accompany readers to a greater degree of dedication.

However, this journey is not only the difficulties mentioned above, it also has a lot of sweetness that other people do not feel, and after such a special period of companionship, the understanding of each other and this relationship between two people may be much deeper than before.

After all, difficulties are temporary, but love is eternal.

Don't be frightened by the comments of netizens, after all, every relationship is unique, and how your story goes, that pen is in your own hands.