He took the PhD, we broke up, and my boyfriend studied for a PhD, should we break up?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-28
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    can only say that he doesn't love you very much, if he really loves you, how can he ignore you for so long? Love you and you won't let go.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    He doesn't love you. Whether it is happiness or pain, he doesn't even have the idea of sharing with you.

    At the very least, he doesn't love you that much.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I don't think you can afford to wait, wait for him for three years, maybe you'll be older.

    Since he chose his studies and career, you have fulfilled him, you wait for him, and he said that he would separate, which is really hurtful.

    Let's talk about it, the doctors in our school are all dragged by their families, and the family is happy, what can't he do.

    Kaobo is not a monk, but you are both not young, especially if you are still a woman, and you can't stand the wait, he can finally find a girl in her 20s, what should you do.

    Let's talk about it, forget it if you can't talk about it, it's not that you can't find a good one, you are waiting for him so humbly, what does he disagree with.

    The two of them put down their posture and talked.,Lower your posture for the last time.,If he's still like this.,Then say goodbye.。。

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Is there any conflict between going to graduate school and marrying a wife? In the end, he is selfish.

    In a relationship, especially for men, it is difficult to give up the gender dividend, let alone make concessions or compromises. His Ph.D. or bridge core studies are his personal accumulation, which is to increase his bargaining chips in the future, and whether there are you in this future is not necessary, is it? Thinking that getting married will remind him of his inability and affect his distraction.

    When I was a sophomore in college, the wedding car came directly to the school to pick up a senior sister, she was so happy, and then took graduation photos with a big belly, everyone envied her, the choice of life is not to be considered when you are old or ready for sufficient material conditions, I don't understand why you will be willing to shorten the density and time of getting along, to wait, to wait for prestige, money, house, car to get married, is not to see something else more important than love, love is only the age to talk about a fun and snowy moon, If you really want to absorb the other person's life into your own life, it will become very heavy. It can only be said that your relationship has not yet reached the step of getting married.

    You can also ask him about his plans, accept it if you can, and worship it if you can't accept it, you must know that as long as you have the purpose of accepting marriage, you can also meet many men who are very sincere. After all, a blind date is to get married, and if it is suitable, it will be married, and there is more sincerity, isn't it?

    When a woman falls in love, she can fall in love and enjoy the beauty of love, but she must be sober-minded when making decisions, and don't think about returning to his capital because he has invested so much time and feelings. Marriage is really firewood, rice, oil and salt, and get along with a person's character and thoughts, as long as it is a marriageable man, you can consider it. After all, a man who yearns for marriage is much stronger than a man who yearns for a high degree of education.

    How much youth can a woman waste? And men never worry about getting married too late, as long as they have money, they can still find someone in their early twenties at the age of forty or fifty.

    Let me ask you, has he discussed with you about studying for a doctorate? Even if you discuss, you are asked to think about his future and ideals, wait a minute, who will not write a blank check, as long as it seems that it is okay to give a woman a little love, she will wait in place aggrieved, sad and ......sadShe won't even use these emotions to annoy you, but worriedly ask netizens she doesn't know on the Internet, because she is reluctant, and she can't help but make him selfish and cold.

    Think about it.

    Why be humble.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Personally, I feel that you can wait, your concern should be that you have already participated in the pure processing process, but he is studying, secondly, he still has three years to finish his career, and he may not marry you immediately after graduation, your future seems a bit far away. Let's share my views:

    1.I remember a long, long time ago, I studied the income of studying for a doctorate, generally speaking, the country and the school will have a certain amount of support for doctoral students, that is to say, if you choose to study for a doctorate, or if you are willing to study for a doctorate, there is a high probability that you can make money without spending money, and if you have an income of 3 4000 or even thousands of yuan a month, you can still do it. Secondly, after graduating from the doctorate, the income is also okay, unless he chooses to enter a university as a teacher or do research, the starting salary is good, to show you a set of numbers:

    In 2018, the average starting salary of doctoral students in 985 colleges and universities was 12,015 yuan; In 2018, the average starting salary of doctoral students in 211 colleges and universities was 11,041 yuan; In 2018, the average starting salary of doctoral students in double non-African universities was 7,893 yuan; Although the gap is not small, the starting salary level is still very good, of course, compared with Huawei's annual salary of 2 million, it is far away, but it is a special case, and there is no need to think about it.

    2.Your future is really not good to give advice, personal feelings, as long as you accompany and guide him more, tell him that after graduation, you are not young anymore, but you are willing to stay up with him, give him space to think about this problem for himself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on whether you love him enough, and there will be a certain risk that he may break up with you after graduation because there is a gap between you.

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