Is it an abnormal performance in the heart of a 21 year old who is alone?

In today's society, you have to be able to speak well, have good interpersonal relationships, and suffer a lot if you are alone, so you should change it!

Everyone's growth. I'm similar to you in my heart, but I'm slowly changing a little bit myself.

It depends on whether you are voluntary or involuntary, if it is involuntary, it is a manifestation of psychological abnormality!

It's a personality problem, but it's not psychological.

It doesn't count. Just exercise and exercise.

No, in fact, everyone needs a quiet space, maybe you just have a stronger sense of need.

No, but try to get in touch with people, after all, this society is a society of people!

I don't think so, I like to carry a backpack on my back and travel alone with ***.

This really doesn't count... Sometimes a person is very chic, isn't it...

It's normal psychology. Part it's character, part it's age.

It doesn't count. This is a very common mental manifestation in growing up, and everyone will be the same.

Don't worry, everyone has this stage.

It's normal, everyone's personality is a problem, but it still needs to be changed

Not quite normal, lack of social interaction with people.

No, they'll think you're independent.

Be proactive: Take the initiative to socialize with others.

No, it can be said to be strong

。。。How do you know if you don't take that step, and then talk about it when you step out.

You're normal! And smart! Only fools believe in friendship!

Friendship is one of the excuses to take advantage of people! Love, family affection are people who are taking advantage of different relationships! Keep relationships in perspective!

You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people! If it's easy to lose, make fewer friends and don't make friends in the end! If you like to take advantage, make more friends, but don't make deep friends!

It's easy to be between people! Sometimes you can't rely on yourself, and others are even more unreliable (this sentence should be understood in your own heart, but don't let others know).

What you said is more vague, I don't know what kind of concept you said about not making friends, whether you can accept contact with people, whether you will be nervous when you come into contact with people, shortness of breath, etc.

I agree with the answer of the "Count of Edit" friend, because depending on whether or how strongly your body reacts when you come into contact with people, you can tell if you have a psychological barrier in interpersonal communication.

In most cases, problems with people are caused by personality or psychology, you don't have to worry too much, find the most intimate friend to communicate with the factors that affect your judgment of others the most, sometimes appropriate confiding will change some of your cognition. If you really can't do it, it is also very helpful to find a place online where you can do psychological counseling and communicate with the other party.

In fact, this shouldn't be a psychological problem, it's just that there is no trust in others, and not everyone has a purpose in contact with you, everything is relative.

Is your personality very introverted and wants to make friends, but you feel that there is no real friendship To be honest, friendship is the purest in the age of 14-18 You have to grasp it well A person will grow old for a lifetime It is good to have two or three true friends Real friendship is not three or two days, three or two months, it is to be looked for Want to open a little or find your parents to talk about this matter With real friendship, you must grasp it well Just like love, cherish it As for whether the psychology is normal I don't know I can only suggest that you understand

Of course not, although love is relatively early now, but high school students talk about jujube and bird love is still called early love, that is, the stool makes some of them twenty years old. There are too many people like you, you just haven't met a girl who can make you feel excited, everyone has their own fate, and so are you. Don't be discouraged, maybe tomorrow you can meet that one of yours.

Good luck.

It's normal, I'm 28 years old and haven't been anywhere.

The mind should be relaxed, the pressure is too great, and it is easy to develop into mental illness! It's not to scare you. To calm down and be calm, you should relax yourself and not be so nervous. It'll be fine after a while! Have a good day!

Ghost Upper Body:

Do you understand? Hurry up and chant the Buddha!! It's okay for someone else to read it for you.

This is called overjudging yourself in psychological problems, when you find yourself a little excited, you start to restrain and care, overly care about the psychology back to produce the wrong law to become excited, etc., so you don't care, relax when doing things, concentrate your mind, don't keep thinking about what you will be excited about, etc., I need to help me.

I don't know what you should be happy about What you should be happy about is to share it with your friends Isn't it a disease Isn't it good to be happy Find a day off Find a good friend Share your happiness After relaxing, you will be fine Don't pay attention to those !

Nature is the foundation of happiness.

Typical ADHD is zinc deficiency, take some health products, especially zinc supplements, try it!

Maybe it's just your own imagination, you think it's like this when you see it on TV, you actually don't want to do it in your heart, you just think it's curious, and now you can't tell whether it's your own idea or it's for curiosity, in fact, you're still in the curiosity stage, just think more about dating boys.

There are cases that don't count same-sex dependence, and almost everyone has experienced it, and if you magnify things in your heart, it will bring you this feeling, and there are some things that you don't deliberately resist will only have the opposite effect, and those that don't "belong" to you will naturally disappear.

Maybe it's because you like to play.

LZ: That's the case with me as well.

It just so happens that everyone also helped me solve 、、、

Moreover, some other girl will make me say that I want to say something fleshy (but I don't dare to say it) the reserved 、、、 of the summer of the cool palace not yours" to resist him? What do you mean? Resist what?

Our colleagues often engage in ambiguous actions. But it's all an indifferent attitude, just playing. It's always your own man in the first place!

You may just be curious about the relationship between women and women! Don't think about it that way, as long as you still have that kind of lust for men, then you won't be that kind of person

No, as long as you see that you are older, if you are in adolescence, it is not a big deal to have a little different thoughts in your heart, and if the emotions are very strong, then you have to calm yourself down.

I'm a man and sometimes I hate women, just sometimes.

Most people with abnormal hearts will show a behavior that is different from ordinary people, and abnormal psychology will inevitably lead to the externalization of behavior, when you see a person behaving strangely, it is likely that his heart is abnormal.

There are two kinds of people who are mentally abnormal, one is to know that they are psychologically abnormal, and the other is to not know that their minds are abnormalThose who know that they are not in their right minds, they will use normal behavior to cover up that distorted psychology, and most of those criminals are such people.

And those who don't know that they are not normal in their hearts, they show a behavior that is different from ordinary people, which makes people think that they are very strange, and at the same time they do not have a certain self-awareness.

We can illustrate these two different kinds of people by giving examples, that day when I was walking downstairs in the community, I saw a heinous scene, there was a stray cat lying on the ground and sleeping, but a young man next to him didn't know what he thought, holding half a brick in his hand, and suddenly threw it at the poor cat, and the cat screamed at that time, followed by a painful roll.

I think it's a sign of a mental abnormality, and he doesn't know he's mentally abnormal.

The kind of people who are obviously abnormal in their hearts but have the ability to know themselves are the most terrible, they will hide this abnormality under normal behavior, and then discover those abnormal psychology when no one finds out.

For example, those well-dressed people on weekdays, it's really hard to say what kind of people they are behind them, once in the name of the people in the TV series there was a ** played by Hou Yong, who rode a bicycle to and from work, never spent money indiscriminately, and looked particularly frugal, but his home was unbelievable, the refrigerator was full of money, the walls were full of money, and even under the bed was money.

When he was arrested, he said to Hou Liangping: I never thought of spending this money, I just want to smell it.

This is a very good person who knows that he is not normal in his heart, but hides it very well.

It is difficult for people with abnormal psychology to have a healthy social circle, some people have always chosen to close themselves, unwilling to make friends, whether it is when studying or at work, they are not willing to communicate with others, the older generation of people will say that this is too introverted, in fact, some introverted people will talk to their better friends, but this type of people with abnormal psychology are unwilling to contact anyone, including their relatives.

Finally, I would like to say that mental illness is still very dangerous, and people with major depression like that may not be able to do something amazing! So we must pay more attention to some friends around us who are not very talkative and more closed-minded.

What is this, I used to be the same as you, but thinking about what I want to cherish in this world, I feel a little better. In these years, who doesn't have a burden. It's good to get used to it, there is a solution to everything.

You're still alive and well, which means it's not too serious.

It's also good to know that you're thinking negatively.

Discipline yourself and try not to think of bad things.

You can do things that will make you happy when you are irritable, such as humming a festive song, reading jokes, websites, Weibo, etc.

Make positive friends.

Talk to others about your troubles often.

You can also write it down yourself.

Of course, you can also find a psychiatrist.

First of all, you can find a way to vent without harming others or yourself. In this way, there is an outlet, and it is easy to release emotions. Psychological negativity can also be alleviated...

There can be many ways. For example: singing, walking, playing games, shopping, etc., only if you find an outlet that suits you, that's fine.

You don't have to rush to try, you can try them one by one slowly, and when you feel that one of them is OK, then you can go on for a long time. It's up to you to think about it...

There are a lot of people with your kind of character.

Hide the emptiness in your heart with unbridled laughter in front of people, and when you go to a place where no one is around, this sense of emptiness, insecurity, and loneliness arises spontaneously.

You are extremely insecure and loving, but your friends often regard you as the happiest "pistachio", but they don't know that their happy friend is actually lonely and lonely.

You should talk to your friends more and tell your thoughts, so that your friends will understand, oh, it turns out that you are like this, and they will take the initiative to communicate with you emotionally, and your heart will gradually be full and secure :)

There must be something depressed about your psyche, the fear of being alone. You need to vent, you can indulge yourself during the day and make yourself relaxed, and at night when you are alone, you will not be able to vent and be in a bad mood. Medically speaking, now that you have some underlying depressive symptoms, you need to actively intervene.

You have to think about everything, don't get into the horns.

No one can defeat you, it's you who knocks you down.

Not detailed enough What's the madness? What's the suck?