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There are more and more in the province, will it lead to women not being able to find a partner? This is not possible because the difference in the ratio of men to women in the country is too large. There are too many willfulness and too few women, so it is men who give birth to men. The more important, the more important the reason.
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Marriage is never the grave of love, it's just that we can't walk through the door of vulnerability. Marriage is the sublimation of love, and it depends on how we walk through the door of vulnerability.
It's not just marriages that have graves, but any relationship that involves intimacy. Because we would rather die than expose our vulnerability. Because in our experience, if we show vulnerability, we can be abandoned by our parents, who are said to love us the most, and it is even more difficult for others to believe that women are weak in appearance, but have a reticulated and sensitive mind.
Imaginative and suspicious. Sometimes it's hard to tell whether it's a dream or a reality, and the transition between happiness and crying is a blink of an eye.
So, men can't understand how women behave in a fight:
I like to turn over old accounts so much, and I can think of such vicious words. How did the ladies of the past become in the blink of an eye?
All I want is a little tenderness. You don't agree to this, and I'm too shameless. Admit your mistakes, as long as you admit your mistakes, I will forgive you immediately.
And women can't understand what men behave in a quarrel, women always think wishfully:
Although I like to compare you to others, it's not because I like you. Otherwise, how could I be nice to you! You don't love me at all.
And the logic of men is: You say that others are good, so why do you want to follow me? Since you don't trust me, why do we need to talk about it?
Since you are in charge of everything, every time you are in front of your friends, I can't get off the stage. What does it mean for us to be together?
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Because the remaining men and women have not met a destined person who is willing to get married, they would rather live their own lives alone, rather than have a lover world in reality, which is also not easy to fall in love after being older, because they are afraid of a little bit of love danger distance, first refuse a little bit of debt after that, don't like it is not rare, rare and reluctant to run to him quickly, she is none other than you, there are some dilemmas, this is also the rest of the inappropriate, but suitable for adaptation.
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Just because the conditions are good, so they have a high vision, everything is looked down upon, and they always feel that the object they are looking for is not as good as herself, not worthy of him, more and more like this, and finally Liu became a leftover man and a woman, in fact, they did not have a high vision at the beginning, as their own conditions are good, they ask others to be as good as them or the same as them, so they are more and more unable to find the other half, <>
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There are many reasons, on the one hand, the remaining men and women are generally highly educated, so they prefer to find a high-level spiritual object to feel happy, on the other hand, they have not met the right person, so they are delayed, and there is that the current person pays more attention to the material aspect, and would rather not deal with the object if he does not meet the requirements of his heart.
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Leftover male, leftover female. Now a lot. There are also many people who don't look for a partner. It can only be said that the requirements are very high. And then they all lost their time.
Some people will look at the conditions, and some people will not look at the conditions. Men and women in the past, perhaps very feudal. Will consider the right match.
Today's young people are not like that. All have the psychology of comparison. Not content with the present.
That's why there are too many boys and girls now.
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The main reason is that to a large extent, these leftover men themselves do not have good conditions, but they are still eager to find young and beautiful girls to marry. They have no self-awareness, and they are unwilling to admit their own shortcomings, and they are blindly whimsical, and the final result is definitely that no woman wants to marry them, and they have to be single.
It is impossible for a woman to marry a man who is full of shortcomings, but refuses to change, does not work hard, and has no sense of responsibility.
Therefore, in a sense, the reason why older leftover men can't find a partner is really because women are becoming more and more high-quality, so they don't look down on them.
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Now there are many handsome men and women. My own conditions are not bad, and my family conditions are not bad, but I just don't want to find a partner. That's for several reasons.
The first reason. Accustomed to being alone, going their own way. The second reason.
Not used to living with another person. I don't want to be dragged down by the trivial things of life. The third reason.
I don't want to do so many chores. I can cook and do my laundry. Why bother finding another person to control yourself.
The fourth reason. Be financially independent. Buy whatever you want.
Don't be controlled by others. This is the number of leftover women now, although the conditions are good. But still the reason why I don't want to get married.
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Hello! Nowadays, many leftover men and women are in such good conditions, not because they can't find a partner, but because of the development of society, economic independence, the emancipation of personality, and the change of the concept of mate selection, it is not easy to find a more suitable, satisfactory, and favorite object, so there is such an embarrassing situation!
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Nowadays, there are many reasons why some older men and women can't find a partner, mainly because: First, they haven't met their true love, and they would rather be single than settle, which is responsible for their own happiness. The second is that at the beginning, the work pressure was too great and there was no time to fall in love, and I missed the best age to fall in love, and became a leftover man and a woman.
The third is that now that I am married, the burden is too heavy, and the price of houses and cars is too high to bear. So there was a situation where the object could not be found.
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Because I haven't met the person I feel about, I want the best in love, and I want to find someone I like, and he likes himself, which is very difficult, so there are many people who are single.
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Many people care more about their own feelings and are reluctant to make changes for others. Also, fate hasn't arrived, and he hasn't met anyone who makes him willing to give everything.
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Because now many men and women are constantly changing themselves, improving their personal abilities, and constantly creating wealth. Who knows that there are more things and contacts in contact, and the horizons are also broadened, and they are generally reluctant to compromise. Will choose if you can't meet your own heart and like your own then would rather give up than do this, ask them if they are not afraid, the sense of security comes from themselves, and they are no longer financially dependent on others, so they are fearless.
Even if you don't want to live with someone you don't like for a lifetime, you feel that life is happy and you live in the present, and it's useless to think so much about things in the future. Therefore, there is no longer the same way that it used to be, and it is said that when you reach a certain age, you will get married and have children.
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Your use of words is incorrect. There are so many men and women left, why are the conditions so good but they can't find a partner? It's not that they can't find a partner, it's that they are unwilling to lower their conditions and are unwilling to make do.
Today's children have a very high ideological realm, just because of their own good conditions, so they want to find someone who matches, has the same three views, and has a common language. So I searched and searched, and I was getting older. There are also many girls who don't want to look for it, their own conditions are very good, they are busy with work, and they don't have time to find a partner, get married, and have children.
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It's not that you can't find the object, it's that you can't find the object you want.
It's relatively easy to find a partner, and you can just make do with it.
But people must find their favorite object, there are many kinds of people, but no one is perfect, many people are very strict with their objects, and they don't want to settle.
As a result, I started to choose when I was young, and when I was older, the space for choice at this time was very small, but I still didn't want to settle, and eventually became a leftover man and a woman.
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Now many boys and girls, their conditions are indeed very good, but the reason why they don't look for a partner is not because they can't find it, but because they have a high vision, before they meet the person they think is right, they will not be a lot of people now, they are people who have their own ideas, they will not choose to be together for the sake of marriage, in fact, I think that although young people marry late, it is also a good thing, because this is a more mature idea.
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The main reason for the surplus of men and women is that the standard for choosing a mate is high when they are young. There are also young people who are busy with work, and they don't have time to think about finding a partner when they start a business, and when they want to think about finding a boyfriend, they are older or even more than 30, resulting in leftover men and women, so the conditions are good, but they should be the wrong person to find a partner. It's suitable, it's not suitable.
It's not as good as before, so I can't find a partner.
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It's too demanding. The conditions are good and I can't find a partner.,Basically, that's the reason.,But I haven't heard of a surplus of men.,It seems that there are only leftover women.。 Because men don't care that their other half is weaker than themselves, on the contrary, they want the other party to be weaker than themselves.
And the vast majority of women can't accept a man who is weaker than themselves, and it is difficult to find a partner when they are strong.
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It's because the conditions of these leftover men and women are too good that they can't find a match for themselves, and their own conditions are superior, there will also be some clear heights. If your own conditions are good, you must ask the other party to have good conditions, and you also have certain requirements in terms of external image, which are too demanding, and it is naturally difficult to find a satisfactory half.
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Now many leftover men and women are so good that they can't find a partner because they have a high vision, they can support themselves, and they are relatively independent financially, so they don't have much effort to find a partner, and it is difficult to find a suitable one, so they don't want to find a partner.
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Now there are many things where boys and girls are in good condition, but they can't find a partner. There should be both objective and subjective reasons. Objectively speaking, the conditions of boys and girls are excellent, and they also want to find someone who matches their conditions.
On the other hand, for subjective reasons, today's children are used to living freely without worrying about food and clothing, and do not want to be bound by the family.
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The current leftover men and women have good conditions, and they can't find a partner because they are pursuing too perfect, and the lifestyle they want may not be given by ordinary people, so they don't feel suitable, and it is difficult to find their own happiness.
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Today's people are different from the people of the past, especially if the family is good, he wants to find a better family, so it leads to the family that he is looking for a bad partner, he is willing not to marry, so there are so many leftover men and women now, he can't find a good object, he is willing to be alone, he is unwilling to marry, and the boy is the same as the bad girl, and he doesn't want it, and the good girl picks on her, so there are so many leftover men and women.
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Why is it that older men and women are, the more difficult it is? The first point of the object, they are very demanding, the second point, their inner world thinks too much, they think too much in all aspects, so they have been looking for a very old age, and they can't find the right one, which is related to their character, some are very simple, so it's easy to do things, but some people are not like that, his requirements and his ideas in all aspects are demanding, especially high and thinking specially, so that what she wants is not easy to get, Therefore, they have become a big problem, although their conditions are very good, but it is not easy to find a partner.
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Today's older young people are very good conditions, but the object is not easy to find, they are too demanding, they are all only children, there is no idea of sharing, when looking for a partner, he only thinks about himself, they are more selfish, so looking for a partner always feels that it is not suitable for him, three or two are older, and there is no suitable for themselves, so it becomes a leftover man and a woman, in short, the conditions are too good, the requirements are too high, can not tolerate others, just selfish.
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In today's society, men and women are equal, women sometimes earn money, and their educational qualifications are better than many men. Therefore, these leftover men and women, the better their conditions, the higher the requirements for the other half, they will definitely not make do with each other and break up if they can't get along. That is to say, people at all levels have their difficulties and difficulties, that is to say, it is not possible to find a suitable partner if the conditions are good.
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Because the requirements are too high and too demanding, many girls themselves are very good, and their family conditions are good, so marriage is not like a future! It's the same thing with boys, in fact, we all thought better!
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Now many leftover men and women have good conditions, but they can't find a partner, because they have better conditions, so their requirements are relatively high, as they get older, there will be fewer and fewer possibilities suitable for them, because the conditions are not good, they can't look down on the other party with relatively high conditions, they already have a partner or have a family, so they have become leftover men and women, and it has become a difficulty to get married and start a family.
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You ask why there are so many leftover men and women now, and the conditions are so good, why can't you find a partner? The main reason is that people are unreliable now, and some people find an object after a stage and then they don't become, the main reason is that everyone's quality is different, and the other party is still different, so it's quite picky, and now the remaining age of men and women is too big, and it is very difficult for them to find a partner again, and it is always because they can't go together for fear of being deceived, so the older they are, the more difficult it is to find.
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Why are there more and more "older leftover women"? After reading it, you will understand.
Excellent urban women are too picky, and poor men in the countryside can't find a daughter-in-law.
High vision is only part of the reason, with the increase of age, fertility has declined, and all aspects of appearance will be inferior to young people, and of course, many men still pay more attention to age and fertility.