Nowadays, there are more and more older men and women, why are some young people reluctant to get ma

Don't say that young people don't like to get married, I hate marriage even if I'm married. Especially a woman, she is really tired after getting married, she was a princess of her parents before she got married, she has a job, and she can buy whatever she wants for her parents. After getting married, I have a baby, and the expenses are large, because there is no one to take the baby, and I have no income all of a sudden, so I rely on my husband to support the whole family, and I really can't give my parents what I want.

Happiness is not so important to me anymore. There are too many chicken-ribbed marriages in reality, and you can live happily without getting married, so more and more people are not getting married.

Perhaps, it's thinking too much. Many people who are not married do not feel that marriage is unimportant and do not want to get married, but precisely because they feel that marriage is too important and cannot make a decision casually. I have seen others and experienced the uncertainty of a love, and I have seen too many cases of classmates around me who are not so happy after marriage, and then become cautious and forward-looking about marriage.

Those who have become a habit of being single for a long time do not want to increase the burden. A person, working hard, the salary is still enough to spend, but when thinking about getting married, the car, the house, the children, I feel that the future is dim, think about a person so chic, why find someone to make your quality of life decline?!

I think it's because of poverty, now the cost of marriage is too high, bride price, have a house and a car, if you don't rely on your family, how many young people can do it, sky-high bride price, high housing prices, low income, but high consumption. Make young people afraid to get married.

In this era of female superiority and inferiority, I call on male compatriots all over the world not to get married. The pain that marriage brings to you will cost you far more money than the happiness you will get later on. Don't compromise your quality of life in order to get married.

Why do you have to get married? Life is dozens of years short, and it is calculated as a maximum of 30,000 days! Why do you have to twist two people with different life and education backgrounds, three views and different personalities together, the run-in process is too painful!

As for raising children to prevent old age, it is nonsense, and it is good if he doesn't gnaw at the old! Resist getting married and having children, advocate singleness, reduce pressure, don't be a house slave, don't be a child slave, and don't pay off a lifetime of foreign debts.

I don't think it's that I don't like to get married, it's that I haven't found the right one. My son is, no one can chase after him. When I was in high school, I often had two female classmates come to my house, one of them was quiet, delicate, calm, methodical, and generous, like when I was young.

A lively, beautiful and playful, a little careless, always happy. I like the former, my son likes the latter. Later, both of them were admitted to top universities, and the son went to a regular university.

After that, I didn't contact him.

Both men and women want to get the ideal love, but the reality makes both parties stop marriage is a responsibility, to take care of all the life broken, the reality of men and women is lacking, and the reluctance to get married is because of the contradiction as soon as there is a divorce to talk about things, so that both parties are afraid of the increase in inner pressure but tired, not married and tired, every day is worried and disgraceful, people are hypocritical.

Couples with better relationships gradually recognize reality. When you are in love, you don't have to think too much about the future, but when you talk about marriage, you find that the car and the house are so unavoidable that you can only bow to reality, and after the breakup, the boy doesn't dare to talk about it anymore, because there is really no money, and the girl's age is not too young, and the low is not high.

Those who are married may not be happy, those who are not married may be very nourishing, and a happy life is not necessarily based on studying, working, buying a house, getting married, having children, and children studying again. There is no fixed trajectory for a happy life.

I'm poor because I can't afford it, and the most important thing is that most women don't look good, and they never realize it.

Now many men and women are reluctant to get married, because marriage is so terrible, I have a friend who decided not to get married for the rest of his life! A person at ease? If you don't like it, don't spray, please pay attention to the quality! The more you spray, the more it looks like you're too poor.

The day of marriage is the time to enter the grave, and it is better not to marry for the rest of your life than to go to the grave.

I've always been used to being alone, living very freely, and once I get married, I enter a new reincarnation, and I'm very tired.

The wealth and the poor are extremely divided, and prices are flying up to the sky every day for the New Year.

Why do you want to get married, there are too many responsibilities to get married. Repeat the way of life of your parents.

Young people get married fast and get divorced quickly. It's better to be kind to yourself and enjoy the rest of your life.

It's not that you don't want to get married, ** there will be people who like to come and go alone, have low emotional intelligence, have poor conditions, and can't get married if you want to.

This is because of family reasons, most of the parents of young people are arranged marriages at that time, there is no love, so they often quarrel after marriage, and they are not so happy, but because they are conservative and will not go to divorce, they live one day at a time, and those who live in such a family and grow up will inevitably have resistance to marriage, they are afraid, afraid of repeating the life of their parents after marriage.

Not meeting the right person, or not being able to get married at all, are the two most important reasons why older young people do not get married.

We are always wandering in the world, not knowing where to go in order to embrace happiness. But time never gives us a choice, and in the blink of an eye, we become older youths. At this time, we were already a little panicked, but we also didn't have much choice, everything could only cross the river by feeling the stones.

These older men and women who have not started a family and started a business have ruined their years of service, and the reasons for this are nothing more than the following aspects.

First, their own conditions are good, they have a house and a car, a good job, and a high income, and such people have high requirements for mate selection. Asking the other party to be better than himself, picking left and right, delayed. It's a type.

Second, if you don't have a house or a car, your own conditions are average, the woman's requirements are too high, and the man can't meet the woman's requirements, which is also a type.

Third, I never thought about starting a family at all, this kind of person feels that being able to play for a day is a day, and I don't want to suffer myself for the sake of the children in order to repay the mortgage and car loan after starting a family. This is also a type.

In short, in life, marriage and family are also compulsory courses in life, just like people live and have to eat and sleep every day, but people can't live without eating, and they can't sleep without sleeping. Not getting married does not affect a person's life. Modern people, social competition is fierce, work pressure is high, so everyone's life is not easy, for the choice of marriage, but also according to the different circumstances of the individual, everything is natural!

One particularly strange phenomenon is that there are more and more leftover women at an older age, especially in the more prosperous first- and second-tier cities, which is especially common. Older leftover women have some characteristics, they are widely good-looking, have their own careers, have a lot of income, understand work and life, and have a small mood.

Everyone also found that in addition to the increasing number of older leftover women, there are also more and more older leftover men, and even the total number of older leftover men is much higher than the total number of older leftover women, but they are not as eye-catching as older leftover women. Even if there are so many older leftover women, and there are also many older leftover men, can we carry out the integration of resources, and the older leftover men marry the older leftover women as wives to achieve mutual benefit and win-win results.

But the specific situation is not optimistic, it is difficult for older leftover men to get together with older leftover women, so to speak, older leftover men are largely unwilling to marry older leftover women, this is not to say that older leftover women are not good, but older leftover men still have a lot of helplessness and their own views in their hearts. Older leftover men tend to do this for several reasons:

Sometimes, men have their own scruples and don't want to make half of their future relationships too colorful. Many men looking for a daughter-in-law look forward to finding a relatively simple girl, this girl does not have too much emotional pressure, and it is easier to cause feelings for themselves after marriage. No matter how old a man is, he will have such scruples, and the same is true for older leftover men.

Sometimes, older leftover men will want to be as old as girls, and there is no doubt that they have experienced a lot of feelings, and their emotional experience must be very rich, and it is very easy to compare with their previous boyfriends after marriage. Older girls have experienced so many feelings, and they will not be as dedicated to their feelings as little girls, and men hope to find a woman who loves them no matter how old they are.

Sometimes older leftover men with Lu will think that older girls have undoubtedly experienced many feelings, and this kind of relationship is often unsuccessful. Women are likely to have experienced men who have failed them, and in the emotional frustration again and again, women's personalities will also become paranoid, and they do not have much ambition towards feelings, and it is not easy to get along with each other in life after marriage.

In fact, in reality, many older girls have a good temperament and are more harmonious when they get along, but the inherent consciousness is super difficult to change, and many older leftover men are reluctant to try, preferring to find young girls who feel that it is very easy to get along.

No matter how the times change, there is one thing that men value very much in marriage, that is, they hope that their own blood and blood will continue and have their own sons. Most men have to think about having children after they get married.

Older leftover men sometimes have a higher sense of crisis, and they will take into account the girl's physical condition when deciding on their married life. Most of the older leftover men will think that when girls are older, there will be certain harm at the level of having children, although with the increase in daily living standards, this kind of risk has become smaller, but many men are not willing to try. They choose partners in favour of young girls with very strong reproductive functions, especially in men who are in a better position to do so.

1. Worried that women like Cavity Potato have rich emotional experience, and men will have some concerns in their hearts, 2. Worried that such a female character is too strong and difficult to get along with, 3. Worried that women are older and have risks in childbirth.

1.I am worried that older girls are emotionally rich and difficult to accept in my heart.

2.I am worried that older girls are sexually extreme, and it is not easy to get along.

3.I am worried that older girls are too old to have good luck, and there is a risk of childbirth.

It's not that older leftover men don't want to marry older leftover women, but that older leftover women don't look down on older leftover men.

Some of the older leftover women are because they are old and have problems with childbirth, and at the same time, these women have very high requirements, and they are all highly educated, so they will become leftover women.

To see what a man is like.

Why are women reluctant to marry older leftover men? Recently, four female netizens sent me private messages on this issue, and they have stated their opinions one after another, if you have more opinions on this, please feel free to express your views in the comments.

Netizens. 1. Female, 20 years old, unmarried, and has a generation gap with older leftover men.

Men are reasonable to find women of the same age to marry, I have a generation gap with older leftover men, no matter what I say or do things, I will not speculate, even if the older leftover women want to eat tender grass from old cows, I will love to ignore it, not to mention why the older leftover men are left, there is a reason to be left in the end, right? If I don't figure out the specific reason why he was left, even if I don't have anyone to marry, I won't marry the older leftover man, I'm afraid that the older leftover man will have psychological problems or physical problems, maybe I'm cranky, but the heart of defense is indispensable, after all, marriage is a big deal, and it is okay to be careful.

Who said that the best time has been in the distance that I don't know; Who has made the most beautiful wish to make dreams bloom with the fragrance of spring. Love is like that bright sunshine.

Netizens. 2. Female, 22 years old, unmarried, older leftover men do not have sufficient materials.

The so-called sufficient material is to make women satisfied, not only savings can meet the present life, but also a steady stream of income can meet the future life, if a man has sufficient material, except for a small number of men who do not want to fall in love, usually easily get rid of single, but where men do not have sufficient material, neither can be called a woman's heart nor as a woman's will, similar men are very likely to be left, often the older the more passive, unless the older the leftover man can make a career, so as to be a late bloomer, Otherwise, there are very few women who want to marry a man like an older leftover man.

Netizens. 3. Female, 25 years old, unmarried, older leftover male physiology is not as good as before.

Men are different from women, women are thirty like wolves and forty like tigers in terms of physiology, but what about men? If I marry a single man in my thirties and forties, when I am thirty or forty years old, the man will already be fifty or sixty years old.

Netizens. Fourth, female, 26 years old, unmarried, her parents do not slip Hu Feng's consent.

I once fell in love with an older leftover man, but my parents did not agree, I had to break up with the older leftover man, in fact, there is nothing bad about the older leftover man, but the older leftover man is the same, and the older leftover woman is the same, others are more or less prejudiced against the older leftover man or the older leftover woman, in fact, more tolerance and more understanding, will be relieved, although I broke up with the older leftover man, but I will bless him, find a more suitable woman for him as soon as possible.