Is it good to have two boys, and does it regret having two boys?

Updated on parenting 2024-07-19
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It's also good to have two boys, they were all born by their own pregnancy in October, and it just so happened that the two children were together, and the family was also lively.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Everything is the same, but the burden on the two sons will be greater. In this life, I can only work hard for my two sons, and there are not many comfortable days.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Xiao Yezi is a native of Tianjin, and according to the Tianjin Population and Family Planning Regulations, you do not meet the conditions for having a second child

    Residents who meet one of the following circumstances may request to have a second child:

    1) The first child is a disabled child who cannot grow into a normal labor force, and it is medically considered that the husband and wife can have another child;

    2) Remarried couples (including one party remarrying and one party marrying for the first time) who originally had one child;

    3) Infertility (childbearing) for more than five years after marriage, and pregnancy occurs after adopting a child in accordance with law;

    4) Both husband and wife are returned overseas Chinese or compatriots from Hong Kong, Macao, or Taiwan, and have returned to China or returned to the mainland to settle down for less than six years;

    5) Both husband and wife are only children;

    6) Ethnic minority residents who have moved into our city from other places are allowed to give birth to a second child and are pregnant with the approval of the local population and family planning administrative department at or above the county level before moving in;

    7) Other special circumstances approved by the municipal family planning administrative department.

    In any of the following circumstances, both husband and wife or the woman may also request arrangements to have a second child:

    1) One of the husband and wife has lost all or most of his or her ability to work due to disability, or he or she is a disabled soldier of the second class or above;

    2) One of the husband and wife is an only child;

    3) The man marries and settles down in a family with a daughter and no children, and is responsible for supporting the woman's parents;

    4) Peasants in mountainous and semi-mountainous areas where there is a shortage of labor, and there is only one girl;

    5) Where one of the siblings is incapable of giving birth after marriage or is unable to marry due to special reasons, and the other has one child each, one of them is allowed to have another child through consultation.

    The national policy is to treat all people equally.

    So, no. If the two of you meet the criteria to have a second child, you can have a child. If not, then the policy will not change because you are disabled.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No, although raising two sons was stressful when they were young, they don't regret it when they are old.

    Because, the two sons can help each other, share each other's pension, have money to contribute, and their parents live more comfortably in their later years. Moreover, with two sons, the parents can choose to live in this house, and if they are not used to living there, they can also choose to live in that house, and they have more choices in their later life.

    Parents will always get old one day, and if they have two sons, the conditions of the parents will be relatively better. Usually, if you are sick, one of the two sons always has time, and the two sons share the money, which can also reduce the financial pressure on the son.

    Therefore, the "twin household" family seems to be under great pressure, but as long as the parents have the right mentality, educate their two sons well, and raise their sons well, the parents naturally don't have to worry too much.

    Extended Materials. Nowadays, young people are under more pressure, and most young people will choose to develop in better big cities, which leads to being in different places from their parents. On weekdays, I am busy with work and rarely have time to go home, even if my parents are sick and hospitalized, I may not have time to be filial piety at the bedside. Especially if there is only one son, in the long run, the parents are not "lonely old people".

    Many parents of only children, one of the things they regret the most in their later years is that they did not give their children a younger brother or sister, and it is too distressing to see their children busy and worried alone. And having two children and providing for their parents together makes the pressure relatively easy. Even if both children are busy and unfilial, they always have to take care of their parents.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Definitely! I'm still working for my children even though my hair is gray! Especially the only child has 4 old people to raise, 2 sons, and 2 husbands and wives to support themselves! It's so scary, so hard to think.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you have economic conditions, you don't regret having a warm family, and if you don't have an economy, you shouldn't have children like this.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    <> the world, there are no wonders, maybe having children will be a man's profession in the future.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Oh you mean to ask, two men can get married, so what about their children? In fact, they do this just to not have children, and if they want to have children, they go to a welfare home to adopt one.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Well, let someone else give birth on your behalf, or IVF

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Now two women can have children, and it is only a matter of time before two men are born

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