Should there be suspicion among good friends?

In the real world, people are becoming more and more hypocritical, and almost everyone wears a veil and acts as an insincere self. The word "friend" has become more and more abstract. The meaning of friend has different concepts in the eyes of different people.

Friends, no matter how long they have known each other, no matter how many times they have met, as long as they treat them with sincerity, they are friends. Some people, when they use friends, try to compliment, and when they achieve their goals, they scoff at them, and even laugh and sarcasm in front of other friends, in fact, this is not a friend. It's just a tool you want to take advantage of when you're struggling.

Friends, not every day to contact, not everything to report to you, friends, the longer the more true, the more plain and pure, the more sincere the longer. A true friend, he won't laugh at you when you're making a fool of you, he won't look at you coldly when you're in trouble, he won't be jealous of you when you're good, and he won't be jealous when you tell him your secrets. He won't spoil you.

When you are sad, he will have sincere words to persuade you, and when you are worried about work, he can accompany you to relieve your boredom. A true friend, only one step worse than a lover, only one level lower than your parents, a true friend who can accompany you through your life until forever...A true friend, when you are in a difficult situation, listens to you, he will not just take it as someone else's business and listen to the joke.

True friends will try their best to help you, understand you, and pull you along! A true friend, never forgetting your name and what you do...True friends, let alone scolding, because friends respect each other, even if there are any contradictions, they are held in their hearts, at most they are estranged from the relationship, and they will not scold, if you can scold your friends, then you are not real friends

True friends, there are many sayings, in my eyes, this is a real friend, if a person has two such friends, then I feel that this person is really happy and lucky. However, lucky people are always scarce. ~

He came when you were in a good place, and he was gone when you were down. A true friend should be one who shares adversity and hardship, and does not come because of attainment or poverty. If he makes friends with you when you are prosperous and is not willing to suffer financially with you, then he will definitely not be a good friend to make.

Because he only pursues your interests, not sincere friendship. I've seen a lot of so-called friends like this, and you don't have to be sincere.

It will not defend your interests, but will compare your superiority from you. Maybe it's because they have too much desire to win, some people always have to compete with the people around them, and they usually don't care about their friends. It is even very excessive, such a friend is not worth making.

On the surface, he is enthusiastic about communication, but he doesn't care about it behind the scenes. I once made a friend, often chatted with each other, I thought it was very lively and enthusiastic, only to find out later that it was just a way for him to interact with others, he was enthusiastic about almost everyone, and then broke off with me nonchalantly, it was really a fake friend.

People who tell others your truth or secrets. It is normal to confide in a good friend and share secrets, because if you trust and trust a friend, you will treat it as the object of confiding, and if your friend can't keep your secret secret or even use it as a talking point, it means that he is a fake friend, not worth cherishing, and needs to stay away.

Making friends is an easy task, but making a real friend is not easy and takes time to test. The ancients said that "comrades are friends", and true friends are like-minded, shared weal and woe, and people worth cherishing.

It's that when you have something and need help when you encounter difficulties, he always hides away.

The friends who are often said behind the scenes are fake friends, so don't want such friends.

Saying bad things about you behind your back, gloating when you're in trouble, that's a fake friend.

I don't like people who try to speak ill of others next to me, and the kind of people who especially like to chew on the root of people's tongues are not to be friends.

Always borrowing money from you, always hurting you behind your back, saying that yours is not.

Be sure to stay away from those fake friends who "can't see you", what are their performances.

Ordinary friends just play together a lot on the surface, but they don't have much emotional communication.

But a good friend can also be called a confidant! But it doesn't have to be together often, you may see each other every once in a while, but you won't feel strange, as if the distance doesn't exist at all, you will think of him (her) when you are most frustrated and sad, even if you just listen silently, you will feel a lot better, good friends will remind you when you do something wrong and even quarrel with you, but this is really good for you and not for accommodating you in every possible way.

As for why people are so suspicious, because the current society is very complicated, and that kind of simple people are often deceived, so it seems that everyone has to paint a protective color on the outside, but I believe that when you gain the trust of others, you will find true friendship, that is, you will also find that the world is not always so false, and there is true love.

Good friends are always trustworthy, and friends in general are the worst people.

Because everyone has entered adolescence, they will more or less care about what others think, and hope that they are the focus, so they will wonder if he is unhappy with me. Personally, I think that good friends don't have to stick together all day long, on the contrary, they will give each other a space, and even if they don't have anything to say, they won't be embarrassed to be silent when they are together.

Landlord, I have the same problem as you....Hope the good people can give us the answer!

Others are suspicious, whatever, do your own.

Good friends and ordinary friends are not easy to define.,It's quite complicated.,Rely on feelings.。。。

A good friend is someone who trusts each other, helps unconditionally when there is a problem, shares their hearts together, plays often, and tells you what is good and bad.

Friends in general, just acquaintances, occasionally talking, and seeing each other.

。。。How to say it, everyone in the process of growing up, friends are gradually eliminated, as the age increases, intimate friends are less and less, in this interest-driven society ups and downs, there will always be a lot of contradictions and disputes, friendship mixed with interests, become no longer innocent, these are the necessary processes.

Personally, I think that intimate friends are often the kind of people who can tell you bluntly when friendship vs interests, "I need... Hypocritical politeness, hypocrisy and pandering to the snake, this is not a sincere relationship. It's just to prove that there are friends.

To put it bluntly, your material conditions do not determine whether everything is good for you, everyone has his "shortcomings", maybe you think you are doing well enough, but these are what you think, maybe the people around you do not agree, just be yourself, between friends, grasp the scale, no need to pretend, you can blame him, but you must be for his good instead of showing off, you can also silently accompany him to drink when he needs to talk the most, just listen to his nagging.

Take your time and realize that this is really the earth...

Maybe you're too good and make your friend jealous, or maybe he doesn't want to be friends with you at all.

To live in the world is to be a man: to be a good person!

The so-called way of getting along with friends is actually the way of being a person! A good person with good conduct and generosity, his circle of friends must be very wide! This is due to the respect and respect he is made. So many people are proud to be friends with him!

Sincerity, generosity, humility, and willingness to help others are some of the rules that make friends get along with each other, and if you can work hard to do this, you and your friends should have a good relationship!

However, there are always many snobs in the world who are always unable to treat others well. Always likes to bully others. Treat other people's humility and humility as someone else's weakness and deceive!

These people are not able to correct their wishful thinking and self-righteous thinking. They will inevitably become more and more isolated and have fewer and fewer friends!

You're doing a good job against the criteria of being a friend. It's just too far-fetched for the so-called friends mentioned above! Because there is a problem of moderation in everything.

For a person who does not know how to respect others. You don't have to respect him or her anymore. In this way, it seems that you are measured, upright, and backbone!

A spineless person will be underestimated by others! ）

It is advisable that you try to maintain your strengths and overcome your weaknesses. Slowly, you will have a lot of close friends. It's because you've earned the respect of your friends!

Don't blindly tolerate it, you must have a bottom line, others violate the bottom line, you have to express it, whether it is to say it well or lose your temper, you must be resolute, you can't let people cross the bottom line, remember that sometimes there must be in life, there is no time in life, don't force it, it's your confidant, even if you quarrel, you can't leave it, it's not yours, you can't keep her.

1.There is not necessarily a great tacit understanding between friends, don't think too much about friends.

2.There can always be someone to say hello when you meet, maybe someone else just wants to wait for you to ask first.

3.A friend should maintain a good relationship every day, and after a few days, the friend will gradually distance himself from him, because the friend basically speaks the truth, and if there is no one to confide in, he will not go to the person again.

Workaround: My approach isn't necessarily good, but I've faced it before.

Take the initiative to find that friend, communicate with him (her) more, chat, when you find that you have no common language, when you find that he (she) ignores you, you should be objective, he (she) has begun to lose his good opinion of you, will no longer be very good to you, and the relationship between friends will become the most ordinary. So, if you really want to keep this friendship, you should also look at the other person's thoughts.

Summary. There are many kinds of friendship, one is temporary friendship, at a certain stage, leaving each other with a lot of touches and surprises, but the world has a feast, one day we forget each other, and there is a long-term friendship, based on unreserved trust and determination, who is recognized in the crowd, it is a lifetime thing.

There are many kinds of friendship, one is temporary friendship, in a certain stage of infiltration, leaving each other a lot of touches and surprises, but the world model sedan spine has no sail stove and does not disperse the banquet, one day we forget each other in the rivers and lakes, and there is a long-term friendship, based on unreserved trust and determination, who is recognized in the crowd, it is a lifetime thing.

The friendship that is truly in the heart never needs to be deliberately mentioned to wake up, nor does it need to be carefully planned, as long as it is natural and buried in each other's forests. Like a fine wine, the longer it lasts, the more mellow it becomes, and we don't have to worry about anyone falling behind, because our hands are tightly gripped.