What should I do if my parents say that my partner is incompatible with the child in my belly and wa

Updated on parenting 2024-07-20
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I think these are too superstitious, now it is not a feudal society, everything must have a scientific basis, and I don't think an innocent life should be harmed. Parents' emotions are also very important, you must be optimistic about it, the baby in your belly will be healthy, you have nothing wrong, I believe that the child's father will not be willing to hurt your common flesh and blood.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Damn, who is in his family, and there are grandparents who want to kill their grandchildren? Feudal superstition of the dead, I think you have to think about it clearly, maybe this time don't really can't get pregnant next time, of course, now his parents must say that they don't care, it's really hard to say at that time, you are not married, maybe you will persuade his son not to, even if you are really married, there are three unfilial pieties, no queen is the greatest, you can still leave with you, they have nothing to lose, it's a big deal to find someone who can give birth to help them inherit the family lineage, you will be pitiful, and it will be very troublesome to find it in the future, A friend of mine is in a similar situation to you, anyway, he was kicked out by his mother because he didn't have a child, and he said that chickens that can't lay eggs waste food ......You'd better discuss this with your parents, after all, they are the ones who love you the most, and they are also from the past, and they will know how to deal with this kind of thing better, the child is yours, you have to think clearly, I am also three months pregnant, I understand the feelings of a mother soon, take care of your body is the most important thing, bless you and this child, children are the best gift from God to us, I hope you can cherish ......

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    What age is it, and you are still so superstitious, think about the life and death of your child in your thoughts.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Resolutely can't be defeated, people are too superstitious nowadays, they say they don't care if you don't have children, how is that possible, absolutely impossible.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You go to the police station, and the police uncle will tell you that your father is a dragon, and your son is a tiger. If you don't believe me, go and ask.

    You and your husband have to decide their own affairs, don't let the family get involved, and you have to say what you want about the children!!

    Which is more important, their superstitions or your children's happiness or your well-being?

    Listen to them today, and there will continue to be new content tomorrow, so if you don't believe it, just wait and see.

    I wish you happiness.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Is it your parents who disagree? You should talk to your husband and look at this time frame with a scientific eye! After all, this child is the crystallization of your husband and wife's love! Unless they deliberately find fault and don't want the child.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Do not believe this superstitious statement, the child is innocent. Also, don't think that the child doesn't feel it, check the relevant information on the Internet to know how sinful it is, take the simplest ****, generally use the suction type, that is, use a suction machine to pump the child out, in the process of pumping the child will become fragments, but the child's head is too big to pull out, the doctor will take a Niezi to clip him out, sometimes the child who is sucked will squirm, why? He's trying to survive!

    So don't go for an abortion for all sorts of reasons, the child is innocent!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's all superstitious, women have to think about themselves, ** it's not good and painful, if your husband loves you enough, don't care what others say, you ask your own family to see, after all, your husband's family won't think about you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you dislike the objective phenomenon that you can't change, then you have to change the scorer.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Mom is fascinated by superstition, which is the rhythm of harming you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What are you? How many months is the child?

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    These things are all lies! Fortune telling is a coincidence at best, and there is no need to believe it at all! There is a book that says that the real meaning of fortune telling is to give people a kind of psychological comfort for their own survival, in this sense, the fortune teller says that your fate is good, in fact, it is an affirmation of your own ability, and you will be full of confidence in your life in the future; And to say that your fate is not good, it is purely a manifestation of "crow's mouth", and it should be reprimanded!

    In fact, fate is only in your own hands, and no one can control it, only you!

    Our post-80s generation is from advanced science and culture, and we should have a reasonable material understanding of the world, believing that the world is material, without losing consciousness, as long as things are right, we have no reason to say wrong, are you right?

    In short, things are going in the direction we think we think are going to change, and if you think you and your boyfriend are suitable, then it may be really suitable in the end; But if you also believe in fortune telling, think that the two of you are not suitable, and do related behavior, then it is likely that the two of you will not be able to get together in the end. Actually, in this case, it may not be that the two of you are really inappropriate, but because your consciousness and behavior caused your breakup, so no one is to blame!

    I hope you know in your heart, know yourself, don't be superstitious, believe in judgment, believe in science, and do it yourself!!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You have to look at this question in two parts:

    On the one hand, don't be superstitious about fortune tellers, fortune tellers really have so much ability, why doesn't he count what kind of daughter-in-law he should marry in this life or what kind of husband he should marry to be pampered? They are also mortals, not gods, and in the end, fortune-telling is just to earn food; On the other hand, you must correctly analyze your boyfriend and face up to your relationship with your boyfriend, a man's quality must be excellent in the end, and in today's turbulent society, a man's sense of responsibility is the most important among all qualities. Under this premise, you carefully examine whether your relationship with your boyfriend is firm, whether you are sure enough to withstand any difficulties or even disasters, and whether you are mentally prepared to live and die with him for the rest of your life.

    Therefore, combining these two aspects, the most critical point is not what your parents think, let alone what the fortune teller thinks, the real decision is in your own hands, if you identify your current boyfriend, there is a feeling that he will not marry, then firm your choice; If you are still hesitant for the time being (excluding the fortune telling factor), don't rush to make a conclusion, continue to date, and then investigate and examine his own feelings.

    Life is nothing else, and you can't start over when you're wrong. The power of happiness is in your own hands.

    Finally, I wish you all the best in your love and a happy marriage.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You haven't crossed the century, it's the 21st century! What age, attributes, you belong to the rabbit, don't be timid and afraid like a rabbit, talk to your mother, it's not a big deal, let your boyfriend behave better. Cut.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hmph, if the fortune teller says that you are very compatible with the pig, will you marry the pig, China is the feudal and superstitious people like you, so backward!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't believe in fortune tellers, the principle of the physiognomy is not very accurate, it depends on whether the eight characters fit together, and there are many ways to tell fortunes.

    Also, if you have a good relationship with your boyfriend, don't look at anything.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It is important to pursue what you like, don't believe in superstition, and your fate is in your own hands.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Depressed, do you really believe in fortune tellers? Then you have lived in vain all these years, and now it is the 21st century, think clearly, don't ruin the happiness of your life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Let's get along. Some people just don't get along. There is no way to do it. Constellations and blood types are statistical laws, and there is some truth to them.

    However, if you love it very much, or if the other person is really nice, let's work hard to manage and maintain this relationship. Of course, it is necessary to communicate and communicate from time to time. After all, no one is the same, not to mention that there is also a gender apart. Tianxian is not good at operating, not communicating.

    I hope you are happy.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't lose your true love because of superstition, you will regret it for the rest of your life!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Do you also live in a feudal society?

    Don't believe in superstitions.

    As long as two people truly love each other.

    Why call those things.

    But don't hurt your mom because of it.

    It is necessary to convince the mother through various channels.

    I think as long as mom loves you in plus your own efforts.

    I will definitely promise you.

    Good luck. (After saying that the rabbit and the dog can't get married?) )

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you want to believe that, it can all be true.

    If you don't want to believe it, it's all nothing.

    I think it's really ridiculous to give up someone you love because of a disagreement.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Cut is childcare

    Smash his mess with bricks hehe

    Isn't it just fortune telling, you go to check so many fortune tellers on the Internet, and Ziwei or something, I don't believe that you are superstitious, then you are more superstitious than your mother! I don't believe that none of you are compatible!! ~

    Anyway, two people who love each other don't rely on what they get along with or not to decide whether they will be together in the future The main thing is to rely on feelings! Then you say that foreigners don't have a genus, don't they all get married?!!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Is your mom going to get married, or is it going to get married?

    What age is it?

    Let's listen to Mr. Wan Feng's lecture.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Can he figure out when you and your boyfriend met?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    ..Fortune telling is not accurate, what age is pulled.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This is also believed? There's nothing to say, I have time to read more books!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Depressed, do you really believe in fortune tellers?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Some parents believe in these very much, such as "chickens and dogs don't have their heads" and the like, that is, chickens can't be with dogs, if it's because of the incompatibility, this is a bit difficult to do. If you don't believe in this to keep you together, it's okay if there is no problem in the future, but what if there is a real problem between you? Parents will definitely associate this with this.

    In fact, there are some incompatible people who are combined, and finally happy, and there are also incompatible people who quarrel and contradict each other every day after marriage, but in the eyes of their parents, they only think of the bad, and the good side will be automatically blocked, as the so-called rather believe that it is, not believe that it is not, since there is such a statement, it will definitely care, and it is inevitable that the heart will mumble, the feudal superstitious ideas of the parents' generation are more serious, and it is difficult to make sense. I have a friend who is like this, she is a dog, she is a chicken, but her parents said that they were not compatible and did not agree with them to be together, no matter how much trouble they made, they couldn't change the ending, and in the end the two separated.

    If you really love your boyfriend, and your boyfriend also loves you very much, you can try your best to convince your parents to say more about these incompatible genera and then live together is also a good example, and in addition, let your boyfriend behave well in front of your parents, let them know that you married him is the right choice, and he can bring you happiness. The purpose of doing this is to reassure your parents, to dispel their doubts, and finally to agree to the marriage of the two of you.

    Two people together is fate, and it is not easy to become a family in the end, we must cherish it, and we must not ruin a good marriage because of this unfounded statement.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think there is no way to persuade this, because the parents' ideas can't be changed, this kind of feudal thinking is too difficult to do, but if it's true love, you can't give up, try your best.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Because parents are more feudal and superstitious, you should communicate more with your parents in this situation and try to change their ideas.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Many times the words of the parents will affect the direction of the whole relationship, if the parents are more feudal, this is still easier to do, after all, it is not directly against you being together, you can talk to them about the situation in disguise.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You have to communicate well with your own parents, because the old people are more feudal, they are worried about this and that, or for your own good, so it is understandable that they still do not communicate.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think if you really love your boyfriend very much, you have to make your parents accept new ideas, you have to communicate with them well, and it is pure superstition to break up because of incompatibility.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Nowadays, society is all about science, and they also express their wishes to their parents, and parents will not force their children to behave well and let them accept you and your boyfriend.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think this question is very child's play. In fact, it is very important for two people to be happy together, and there should be no problem in communicating more with parents about this kind of thing.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think it must not be divided, because I should tell your parents that this is some feudal superstition, who still believes in this now, it would be good for two people to have a good relationship together.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I will never divide this reason, persuade my parents more, there is no such statement in this era, it is not scientific. And as long as the two of you are together!

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It is recommended to separate, the discord is just an excuse, there must be a deeper reason, but in the future, whenever you encounter something, it will be associated with the phase, marriage is a matter of two families, and a marriage without parents is not perfect, unless you can change your parents' minds.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Nonsense!

    I think this reason is too far-fetched, more unacceptable than asking for a 1 million bride price, from an outsider's point of view, this is obviously that he didn't even bother to find a reason, and he wanted to send you away with a casual word, and he didn't like you as a son-in-law at all.

    First, something will happen

    Someone has long said that if you want to marry a daughter-in-law, you must first pass the mother-in-law's level, so it is definitely good to be a boy who will come to things, and she will buy her a smile if she likes it, Rong Ke is sincere, after all, people cultivate a flower so well like a pearl in their palms, your son-in-law took it away at once, and their hearts are also sad, and it is right to be good to them from this point of view.

    2. Talk about true love

    Don't do anything with them, don't popularize any scientific values with her, you will admit that you are incompatible, but love can make up for all this, no matter how powerful the mother-in-law is, it is impossible not to love her daughter, and he really hopes that her daughter can find someone who really loves her to spend her life with.

    3. Perseverance

    If the old mother-in-law says so, you will retreat, then it can only mean that you don't love his daughter enough, and it proves that it is the right decision not to marry your daughter to you. Therefore, you should be thick-skinned, and there will be repercussions if you don't forget it.

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