My husband and I have been married for two years, and because I have been sick at home, some work

It seems that you are providing a little less information.

How old are you? Marriage age? The nature of the work ?..

Based on the information you provide, you can get these two possibilities.

1: The female colleague he said may have something similar to you, and there are some ways of doing things or other places that are worth learning from you, and he wants you to get better, so he mentioned her to you, if this is the possibility, then, it is obvious that he loves you and wants you to become as he wants, but some of your recent things may hurt him, and the female colleague he mentioned may handle it well.

2: He feels that his relationship with you has faded and needs to be injected with new energy.

And mentioning this female colleague is simply easy, there is no special meaning just to enhance your communication, and his desire to find love with you may be a typical speaker who has no intention of listening to the heart.

Note that it's unlikely that he really fell in love with that female colleague, if he did. So a man with a little common sense will not go home and mention it to his wife, unless it is just some characteristics that he appreciates, but it is not as good as his wife, so he will mention it to his wife, I hope you can also have these characteristics.

And you also said that you have been sick at home, even if the expenses are not large, most of the time he needs to bear the expenses of 2 people, right? It's really hard for a man to work outside alone, home is a place to rest and heal, maybe outside, he is angry for this home, for his own future, and he is naturally in a bad mood when he comes home, you can also understand him, even if it can't help specific things, give him some comfort!

It's really irrational for you guys to quarrel about this!

If there are irreparable consequences because of such a thing, it will be 2 people who will regret it at that time!

At least he's still your first place! Take advantage of it and cherish it!

Wishing you happiness! Rain.

Maybe it's because she lives close to you, don't think too much, it's nothing, if they weren't divorced and not together, your husband wouldn't have said anything about them. Maybe your husband is taking them as a warning and wants you not to be like them. Cherish life. Don't think too much about it.

You have to believe your husband, he doesn't like her when he mentions that girl, if he likes a girl, he won't mention it to you, your husband tells you about her, is it saying that she is strong, or emotionally, you are not feeling well now, and your husband is encouraging you to get better soon. His approach is to love you, you rest well, don't think too much, you think he loves you. Besides, you have only been married for two years, and it is fate that two people can walk together.

Treasure it.

As soon as they got married, the other party was seriously ill, and it was really heartbreaking. When one of the spouses becomes seriously ill at the beginning of a small family, it means that two, or even three, families face a major challenge.

First of all, it is best to look at the emotional foundation of the two people, and the foundation is good for the three families to work together, and go all out to heal the disease with financial, material and energy resources.

But if one party is sick and the other party has concerns, it is very embarrassing. One way or another, love can trump all!

I'm an example, it's no wonder that my health has been bad since I got married, so I have been Qingque for 3 years without children, not that I can't give birth, it's that I love to have a miscarriage, in the third year, I have pain all over my body, I can't see it in several hospitals, and I can't find out the reason, in the process of treatment, he is really good for me, but the body is not angry, and finally paralyzed, he was only 29 years old at the time, one day he suddenly proposed to divorce me, why suddenly, because there is usually no appearance of divorce, I couldn't accept it at the time, and said to him, I still have hope of being cured, and when I go to the provincial doctor for examination, if I really can't be cured, I won't drag you down, and I will take the initiative to file for divorce, but he not only didn't agree, but also forced me every day, saying that he wanted to break me mentally. Seriously, the mood at that time is self-evident. Every day, I live in pain and the pain of facing the breakdown of my marriage.

Fortunately, my family did not give up on me, and with the help of my mother, brother and sister, I was sent to the provincial doctor**. Before leaving, my mother came to him and told him that she was going to take me to the provincial doctor, just to inform him, not to give him any hope. He didn't react at all.

After arriving at the provincial doctor, he was diagnosed with thyroid cancer. At the time, I heard that it was cancer. I didn't have any fear, I only had one belief in Xinliang Zheng's stupidity, I wanted to live for five more years, not to divorce him, and to drag him for five years.

What a misfortune! If you have feelings, face them together! If you don't have no feelings, it's best, let's end it! It's going to be hard.

As the saying goes, the moon is cloudy and sunny, and people have good and bad luck. In life, when the relationship between myself and my other half develops to a certain stage, and finally the two people enter the marriage hall, it is obviously a thing that makes me particularly happy and happy, but not long after getting married, my other half suddenly fell seriously ill, which is obviously a huge blow to myself and the whole family, but in this case, if it is me, I will still do not abandon my other half, guard my other half, and take good care of each other. Help the other person as soon as possible**.

We should understand that since we have chosen to marry our other half, it means that two people should help each other in the future life, take care of each other, and share all kinds of setbacks and difficulties encountered in life. Although it is said that not long after getting married, my other half fell seriously ill, which is a big blow to my life, but it is also a test for myself.

When we encounter such a problem, we must reflect our sense of responsibility, in the considerate and careful care of our lover to feel their warmth, so as to really promote the relationship between two people, and we should also realize that their other half is seriously ill This is not one of the things, but also related to themselves, related to the whole family, in the face of this problem, we must have confidence, dare to face the challenges that life brings us, in this process, Let us get the real growth of Lu Xiang, and in the process, we will also make our relationship with our other half deeper.