How should I choose in the face of future happiness?

Updated on society 2024-07-31
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Don't worry so much, it seems to me that in your boyfriend's heart you occupy a position that no one can replace, you are quite right. Your boyfriend is also in a dilemma, with his mother who gave birth to him and raised him, and his beloved on the other. But I don't think any amount of pressure can match the love between you.

    To love is to be brave. Love knows no borders. I believe that you are excellent, otherwise your boyfriend will not love you so much, be confident.

    His parents can slowly dissolve it. I believe that your kindness and excellence will impress his parents. Sometimes the idea can't be too one-sided, after all, the people of the previous generation have different ideas from our thinking at this stage.

    Be more considerate. You can buy some things that his mother likes for you to send back, don't let his mother know that you sent it, after a long time, when his mother needs comfort, you happen to be bumped into, take care of her, she will be very touched, and will eventually agree with you. Warmth can only be truly appreciated when people are cared for when they are vulnerable.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    You like him a lot. I often go to his house. Bring some gifts or something.

    Mouth for dessert. When you go to his house, you have to take on some housework. It means that you really want to marry your boyfriend.

    Then it's up to your boyfriend to say. You can't just be silent. It won't work without a result.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Sometimes I think people are just too selfish, and you seem to think about this matter all the time from your own standpoint, right? What if you break up, how if you don't. Then, I'll also help you try to if one, if you choose to break up, his tenderness is given to you, how do you let him face his future wife?

    There's too much nonsense, and since there is resistance, don't listen to other people's nonsense. Let's discuss how to live in the future, and if it doesn't work, break up. Don't waste each other's time ......

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Then cook the raw rice and talk about it. The human heart is made of flesh. There is no such thing as a bond.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Have you thought about it? When you first fell in love with him, did you ever think you would forget him?

    In fact, the opportunity is not given to you by the but you have to be sure to fight for it, change what the hates about you, maybe she may be looking at your true side now, is testing whether you have a tolerant wife. If you choose to leave, you'll never find happiness. You work hard!

    Trust you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are incompatible, and there have been cases since ancient times. It is impossible to explain, as the saying goes: "It is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs." "That's why it's up to you. If it's true love, why care about others.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Staying the course is victory!!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Find someone who loves you, preferably one who you love too.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're talking about the love you want to have for the rest of your life, that is, the future, right? Happiness itself is a feeling, a pursuit, when you pursue what you get is happiness, when you meet the chain cherry blossom you get what you get is happiness, what do you say? Want to get your current love Love is like sand in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the more it will be lost.

    I think the canopy in his hands will never slip off. You have to grasp your heart, always maintain sincerity and single-mindedness in front of the spine chain love, stand in the other person's position no matter what is and think about the problem, don't worry too much about the person you love, and always put your sincere side first. You must know that it is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along, and many pairs of lovers only break the seed of love in the process of getting along.

    If you want to have a happy future, you have to treat this seed of love as yourself, so that it can germinate and re-bear seeds, and you know that it takes care to make a seed bloom. If you understand, your final happiness is yours.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Summary. Hello.

    Look at what you said, every day now, all of us are fighting for our future, no matter how long it takes, one day, we can get what we want.

    You will walk on the road to prosperity, and we will come as scheduled according to our own ideas, and everyone can be their own master!

    Will I be happy in the future?

    Hello. Look at what you said, every day now, all of us are fighting for our future, no matter how long it takes, one day, we can get what we want. You will walk on the road to prosperity, and we will come as scheduled according to our own ideas, and everyone can be their own master!

    You don't know if I'll be happy in the future, right?

    I'm lost right now.

    You need to sort out your thoughts, what is it that is happening? Once you know the reason, you can take targeted measures yourself.

    Anyone's happiness can only be obtained by himself, not by others.

    Iron also needs to be hard, and if you are strong, anyone and everything will be fine.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you want to live happily in the future, you must understand the rules of our relationship with the world, that is, the world is big, and I am in charge of my life.

    Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke expressed that he has run his own life colorfully.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    A happy life is perfect, as long as you live a happy life, even if you don't have a lot of money. Human life is only once, and it is good to be happy.

    There are people who love, and there are people who love themselves;

    Don't feel empty in life, set yourself appropriate goals in a limited time and pursue them quickly;

    If you have a goal you like, you have to go crazy, don't worry about the right or wrong results, as long as you are worthy of yourself.

    Something has happened.

    Got something.

    There is no step in life, and I still walk by myself.

    Life is full of sorrows and joys.

    But savoring it is a blessing.

    There are failures and successes.

    There are tears and smiles.

    There is pain and joy.

    There are disappointments and hopes.

    There was noise and quiet.

    There are worries and peace of mind.

    There is sadness and concern.

    There is indifference and enthusiasm.

    There are gains and losses.

    There is a request for a slippery and a request.

    There are perfections and flaws.

    This kind of life is the perfect life!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I value my current happiness more.

    In life, many people will have this thought: when I buy a house, I will be happy; When I earn enough money, I will be happy; When I was promoted to so-and-so, I was happy.

    But in fact, is that really the case? We seem to have been living like this all along, promising enjoyment and happiness in the future, and leaving suffering in the present. Therefore, "if the young man does not work hard, the boss will be sad" and "only if you suffer hardship will you become a master", which will be widely publicized.

    But in fact, of all the modes of life, sacrificing the present for the sake of the future is the worst, which postpones happiness forever and effectively cancels it.

    Have you ever wondered? You are unhappy, perhaps not because you don't earn enough or have a high enough status, but because you have lost the ability to enjoy happiness.

    Truly happy people should enjoy every bit of it in their own way of life, which is meaningful. It's not just certain moments in life, it's the whole process of life.

    Grasp the present, there are too many unknowns in the future! If you can grasp it now, you will be happy, because tomorrow and the accident will not know who will come first! There have been so many accidents lately!

    I have really mixed feelings! Don't love people you shouldn't love, thankless, don't think too much! Bother!

    Stay up less late, eat what you like, and live a life of willingness!

    If you are not happy in the present, what do you want to do in the future? The future is also unhappy? So, find a way to make the moment happy.

    Eat something delicious, get together with friends, take a trip, run a race, go to the kindergarten to cry with the children, go to the welfare home to find an aunt to dance, read a book, and study the causal connection between happiness and life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Happiness in the future, happiness in the present is short-lived, even if it is a little bitter now, a little tired, and the living conditions are not so good, but I work hard, and I will find my own happiness in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The current happiness is more important, because the current happiness is something that you can really feel, and the future happiness is still unknown.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I pay more attention to the current happiness, because who can say that the happiness in the future is good, cherish the present, don't wait until the future happiness is gone, and you will lose the happiness of the present.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I value my current happiness more, having good friends, a healthy family and a stable job, so it's already good, and I don't want to think about the future.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Happiness in the present is more important, because no one knows when the accident will happen, and if you care more about happiness in the future, what if you can't even reach the future.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The most important thing for me is the happiness of the future, the happiness of the present is only temporary, and the happiness of the future is the most important, I think so.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I value my future happiness more and I am working hard for the future every day, and I believe that I can contribute to my future.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Happiness in the present, because only by cherishing the present moment can there be a better future. In life, we need to learn to be satisfied, and the happiness of the moment is also accumulated by us day by day, so cherish it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I value my current happiness more. If you see someone you like in front of you, you must say it boldly, and no one can predict what the future will bring.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course, it is to pay attention to the happiness in the present, there is nothing happier than living in the present, only to grasp the happiness of the present moment, and the happiness of the future is simpler.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hello landlord, social prestige ranking is the top 1 Specially appointed experts look forward to answering for you at the rising tide, I hope my will help you, and everyone has had when you are confused, but I believe that you can come out quickly Believe in yourself, or in order to realize the value of personal survival, in order to prove that your existence has brought useful things to the world you are in. Life is like a dream but not a dream, although sometimes people can't figure it out, but we still have to face our own every day seriously.

    Man lives for the unknown; For love, for oneself, for one's family, for society, for one's country, people live to seek unknown answers and create unknown answers. When your actions are praised in small ways, you will understand the purpose of life; When your actions make a brilliant page for the unknown, you will find the meaning of life; When your actions achieve others and yourself, you will realize the value of life!

    Maybe you have frustration; Maybe in the face of setbacks, you want to choose to fall; Maybe the long-term struggle for the unknown without retrieval has made you lose the fun, confidence and courage Maybe you should think like this: Only today's present is the most real and truly belongs to us, so we should cherish the bits and pieces of the present.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I remember that there was such a Buddhist activity, a group of people signed up to participate in the Hong: it is to organize a group of people to sit and meditate for two days, during which they do not speak, it is meditation, and some people have changed their outlook on life because of this activity. It's a kind of sublimation of life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Don't ask too much and just go in the direction you like and are interested in.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, that spike dust is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as the Xun clan can only be in one with the people who love each other.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the most shiny, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love. Don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful.

    Love that does not stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

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