Does every family quarrel over trivial matters?

Yes. My dad spilled vegetable soup on me every time he ate, and I quarreled with him:

My mom was angry at me every time for crumpling her beloved sheets because she loved a bed without a single wrinkle :

My dad has been arguing with my mom because she likes to stay up late watching TV, and I'm afraid that she won't sleep well, and my mom won't change it for decades

However, none of this changed the situation of our happy family living together.

Every time I shop, my mom didn't forget to buy socks for my dad because he wore socks heavily:

I buy yogurt for my mom whenever I have free time because she needs to regulate her stomach:

Every time I cross the street, I can see the eager eyes of my parents on the other side; They would even take me by the arm, even though I wasn't a kid anymore

No one is a saint, and everyone has unhappy times, tantrums, and vexatiousness, but they can't change the fact that you are a family.

Think back to the heartwarming scenes in your life.

Not necessarily. Due to the different factors such as growth environment, personality, knowledge, experience, mood, etc., it is normal to have different opinions on some things and argue, but since it is a family quarrel, it will quarrel, and it will not hold grudges. So don't pay too much attention to it, keep a good attitude towards these so-called "quarrels", sometimes noisy feelings will be better, just imagine if everyone is too lazy to talk is not more depressing?

There are many couples in the relationship, they will quarrel every day because of some trivial things, because these things are not worth mentioning, so for the relationship, maybe these people, they are also very concerned about each other, so they are also dependent on each other, so they will often quarrel, so in the relationship, we can not quarrel, or it is better not to quarrel, because if two people quarrel, it is also very hurtful to hurt.

One or two people are also more mature.

In the relationship, if two more mature people, they will not quarrel because of these trivial things, because the quarrel will also make the relationship between the two people weaker and weaker, which is also the relationship between these two people is very bad.

Second, we must learn to tolerate each other.

First of all, in the relationship, we must learn to tolerate each other, because since two people choose to be together, don't quarrel because of some trivial things, we can also tolerate each other, so that the other party can also understand our hearts and cherish this relationship more.

Third, you can also find more things to enrich yourself.

In a relationship, if one party is more idle, two people will quarrel, because one party is more idle, she is always more sensitive, and always quarrels with each other because of some trivial things, so that the other party will also feel very tired.

Therefore, in the relationship, we also need to maintain mental independence, because in this way we can treat the relationship more, if we rely on each other very much, then the other party will be more tired, so in the relationship, we also need to learn to be mentally independent, so that we can maintain a good relationship.

Therefore, in life, everyone treats feelings differently, and we can usually do things according to the accumulation of our own life experience, so that we can manage our feelings well, and we can also make ourselves more and more mature, and we can also let ourselves get some inspiration in our feelings.

In fact, most of the relationships are quarrels over trivial things. But as long as it is a quarrel, it will have an impact on the relationship, so two people can retreat when they say these things. Don't take it personally.

Quarrels abound in relationships because of trivial things, which is a big part of people's lives, and it is not necessarily a bad thing that can make us understand each other better.

I'll fight over trivial things, because I think these little things are very important to me, and if I don't, I'll be very uncomfortable.

I will quarrel because of such small things, and after the quarrel, I will reflect on my behavior, and then I will quickly reconcile.

No, I feel that it is not easy to meet each other, and I don't want to force the other party away because of this trivial matter, so I won't quarrel.

In the relationship, it is also very common to quarrel because of some trivial things, because sometimes I am in a bad mood, and then such a thing happens, I will argue with the other party because of this, and I can't get used to some of his behaviors, so there is a dispute.

It's normal to quarrel in a relationship because of some trivial things, because trivial things are full of life, so look at the tongue and touch the teeth.

In relationships, we will also quarrel over trivial things. But we never hold grudges when we quarrel. If you quarrel, you will quarrel, because you don't agree with each other. After all, people don't take the little things to heart.

Yes, we may often quarrel over trivial things, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, how can there be no contradiction at all, I feel that quarrels are normal, as long as they are not principled issues, they can be solved.

Of course, there will be quarrels in the relationship because of some trivial things, because many times there are disagreements and two people have a good relationship, and it is normal to ridicule each other, so once the quarrel is over, it will not be real.

People often quarrel over trivial things in their relationships. The growth of people is also slowly grown through these quarrels, so don't ruin your relationship because of some trivial things.

Of course it will. Because feelings are not interests, there are many emotional components in them. Small things can also cause mood swings, and conflicts can erupt if the other person doesn't respect them during the conversation.

Definitely, I feel that we often quarrel with each other because of some trivial things, and we quarrel and even divorce because of trivial things, which may be done when two people have been together for a long time and have nothing to do.

It's very unworth it for two people to often quarrel over trivial matters. Frequent quarrels will affect the relationship between two people, and it is not better to talk about conflicts and tolerate each other.

No, because in the relationship, if you are calculating, do not understand each other, and quarrel over some trivial things, then this hard-won relationship will soon come to an end.

I think sometimes it is normal to quarrel over trivial things, because two people disagree, and neither of them wants to quarrel.

Yes, there will be some friction between two people in the process of getting along, and this situation will occur, which is very normal.

Before I established my self-awareness, I had the impression that I would always quarrel over small things, such as I didn't do my homework well at night, I got naughty at school, and so on.

My father would always quarrel with my mother, and my father's reason was "It's all your fault for giving birth to this little second son", and because of this sentence, I attributed my sense of indebtedness to my mother and the reason for everything to myself. And this feeling has been affecting me for a long time, and it is incompatible with the self in me.

The period of junior high school was the period when I was very self-conscious, and everyone called that period adolescence and rebellious period. I was doing very well during that time. I was proud to challenge my parents' authority, I worked against my teachers at school, and I had a lot of adherents during that time.

When I came out, I realized that many things were not my fault, but my parents' fault.

Family harmony has a great impact on children, and those indifferent quarrels are the poison that affects children's hearts.

Today at my brother's house, there were five people in total, me and my brother and sister-in-law, sister-in-law, her mother and nephew. They quarreled over the trivial matter of buying garlic seedlings, and the final consequences were so serious that they scared their nephews into crying.

Looking back, I also objectively analyzed it, all three of them are responsible, and if one of them can say less, it will not be so serious. From the perspective of the family, in order to bring children to the couple, the aunt worked hard every day to be disliked, which was psychologically difficult to accept. And for my brother and sister-in-law, respecting the elderly is also what they should do, there is no need to argue about a result, even if they win, what is the point?

Besides, the nephew is still young, although he doesn't understand some things, but he can feel the fluctuations in the atmosphere, he instinctively cries when everyone clashes-for-tat, and his parents' attitude towards their elders is also likely to happen to them themselves in the future.

CCTV once watched an advertisement, which was very heartwarming, telling the story of a mother washing the feet of her seventy-year-old mother, and at the end of the advertisement, her child staggered with a footbasin to wash her mother's feet. It's a kind of inheritance, and this kind of education is imperceptible, not words.

Then let them quarrel, you know, since you don't want them to care about you too much, this noisy is their way of life, and naturally there is no need to change.

You can see that many parents are so noisy, but they have lived a life of love and affection. When you quarrel, you can't strangle each other, but after the quarrel, the two people still live the same life, and it is relatively rare to quarrel, and then divorce!

You can amplify it and don't let their quarrels affect you too much!

Hehe. You should tell your parents how you feel and ask them to think about whether they thought about your feelings during the fight and whether they thought about how it would hurt you.

They should be considerate. Reconcile from the middle, and say each other's good in front of each of them, 1 This is very simple Left ear in and right ear out Don't go to your heart 2 Aren't you afraid to live if you die? There is no problem that can't be solved, just want to open a little habit of it.

You can reason with them and let them stop arguing, if they don't listen to you, don't interfere too much so as not to affect you, and when they calm down, you can communicate with them more, which will play a role in easing the relationship between them! Come on! Don't be too frustrated, there's nothing you can't get by!

Which couple doesn't quarrel once every two or three days, in fact, tell you a way to relieve your anger, which is to think about each other's advantages when you are angry, and think about it when you quarrel.

It's hard to explain the emotional thing, and from what you said, it seems that he is starting to dislike you. You're not too young anymore, you can't stand the delay, you just drink him and talk about it, if it doesn't work, forget it. If he's still unmoved, then it's time for you to leave him.

In fact, the focus is still on yourself, whether he loves you or not, whether he is good to you or not, you should feel it deeply, if a man loves a woman, what should it be like?

Ask your own heart, sometimes you have to be ruthless in making a decision.

After reading your supplement, you are still very reluctant in your heart, what is good for you at night and bad for you during the day, this is enough to explain the problem, and if there is a problem, he will not consult you, so it is not interesting to get married, if you are not in an equal position, you will not be happy in the future.

Now you need to communicate well and understand what is really going on in each other's hearts!

Why does he go home and keep saying that he is tired? Why don't you care about him and don't appreciate it? Why don't you tell him you're tired? You all need to talk about these issues, otherwise it will be difficult to clean up when you break out after being suppressed in your heart for a long time!

Communicate more with your parents! Talk about the heart! That's how I came here! Sad

Now I'm just like you! 20 years old.

They still have to listen to what I say!

It's rarely noisy now. You go talk to your parents, it works!

I wish you a wonderful family.

Here is an excerpt from The Five Powers of Love.

After reading this section, I was deeply moved. Because in my life, it is full of shoulds, both for my husband and for my children.

My husband doesn't smoke or drink, and in his free time he plays games, swipes his phone, and another hobby that can't be shaken is playing ball.

In the past, I always held him to my own standards. When playing games and swiping his phone, he thinks, why don't he read a book, improve himself, go to play ball, why don't he accompany his children when he is happy, and take his children out to play for a while. Because of these thoughts, we also had conflicts, but later, I slowly let go, but every time I faced the same problem, although there was no dissatisfaction in my heart, the tone of my voice and the use of words were still emotional.

Every time he went to play it was one of the weekend nights, and he would ask for my advice before each departure and tell me I would come back early. In the summer, before going upstairs, I will ask if I am still downstairs, if I need to buy something, sometimes it is a little later, I will bring a little emotional "What time do you come back?" ”

This sentence, the message passed on to him was to blame him for coming back too late, but I didn't tell him, my inner appeal was to hope that he could come back early and play with the child for a while. The contradiction has been intensified in this way!

If I could use I hope + feel (I wish you came back early and played with your kids for a while), would it be a different result? It not only met my needs, but also made him gladly accept.

In life, we are always unhappy because of trivial things, in fact, it is not how serious the matter is, but we send incorrect information to the other person.

Replacing you with my hope will make our intimacy more harmonious!