Ask for help: How to change a boy s small heart? 50

Spend a week observing how others say, do, and get along, empathize, and how others react to the same thing, and see if you have too serious double standards, and you can do whatever you want to others, and if others are slightly inappropriate with you, you can't.

If it is, change it from now on, change it little by little, what used to be angry for two days, change to a weather, things that used to be angry, think about others don't react so much, don't be angry, it's really to look at the advantages of others, reflect on whether there is something wrong with what you do, when something happens, the first thing you think is that someone else's is wrong, you must be angry immediately, think about this matter from a different angle, whether this matter is also inappropriate, and slowly it's fine.

Character can not be fundamentally changed, but it can be improved, it is really to be lenient with others, strict with oneself, although we are usually the opposite, take your time, tolerance will make you more friends, you will find that it is worth enduring a while.

Look more at the good in others and think more about the good aspects of others.

Exercise, read books, accumulate.

It's a long time.

Some people talk about people behind their backs, and they are very angry when they hear them talking about themselves, regardless of gender, but that type of person who doesn't offend me and I don't offend, although they are not harmed, always gives people a bad feeling, and ordinary people are reluctant to associate with such people.

Spend more time with your colleagues and show your strengths, and you'll like you.

You lack personality right now, don't care too much about other people's mouths. Besides, others don't have that much free time to talk about a person all the time, do they? When you take advantage of the holidays to travel with friends, your horizons will be opened, and you will come back and you will not be shy about trivial things.

Talk to others, contact others, and don't care about gains and losses.

Careful-eyed men are too calculating, and they will argue with you for a long time for a little thing.

2 A cautious man is always fond of speculating on the minds of others, and is suspicious of everyone, and many times he will not trust anyone but himself.

3 A cautious man always lacks a sunny side, less sincerity and frankness, but more insidious and cunning.

4 Careful men are too selfish to always think about it. Such a man rarely puts himself in the shoes of others, and will only see his own interests, but will not put the interests of others in his eyes and put Qi Chun in his heart. In his mind, his own interests are higher than everything else, and even if his own interests are satisfied, he rarely takes into account the interests of others.

In fact, cautious men are basically emotionally oriented.

Because men are very possessive animals.

Don't let him feel that you don't care about him.

Don't behave too much in front of him and other boys.

Ask him more questions.

Men like the girls they like and care about themselves.

At one point, you have to make sure that you really like him.

To love you personally, you have to pay for him seriously.

The important thing in love is to be sincere, sincere, and tolerant.

You can't expect every man to be machismo, right, there are no perfect people and things, so why care about a man's careful eyes? Could it be that a woman who is not gentle is mentally ill? Don't understand a person or thing so one-sidedly, and don't ask everyone around you to be as perfect as you imagined, this is impossible, there are generous men, then there are naturally stingy men, why force a man to change his personality and body?

A small-minded man will be careful about everything, take himself as the center in everything, be more harsh on the people around him, take himself first in money and feelings, and be narrow-minded It is recommended to stay away from such a man He will only share blessings and will not share hardships and hardships and will not change for anyone easily.

This narrow-minded man is an extremely selfish and ruthless man.

Person. Whether he is working at home or at work, his first thought is his own interests. He gained and lost as much as he wanted, and he did it without leaving a trace, so that others could not say anything, and he did not have the responsibility of a man.

Living at home is even more machismo, self-centered, never thinking about the other half, and living with such a person will not only be very tiring, but also hurt from time to time. It is advisable to stay away from this kind of man, so that you can protect yourself.

That's because you're overestimating guys.

Both men and women. It's all human beings, and they're all within the scope of human beings.

Don't think about it because you're a man.

If a man is a woman, how can he do it because you are a woman?

Can you accept it.

Small-minded men are self-centered, selfish, think about everything for their own sake, like to take care of little things, and will hold grudges, and even retaliate, so they should stay away from such people.

A small-minded man has to learn to understand and show that he loves you and cares about you.

1. Listen attentively. When communicating with others, don't be absent-minded, improve your attention and understand what others are saying.

2. Think positively. After listening to it, you have to think about why others say that, what is the reason why he says it, what is the meaning he wants to express, etc. You may not think of it at first, but as long as you keep it in mind, after a while, you will gradually understand what others are saying.

Then you will experience and summarize with your heart, if you encounter such a situation next time, what others are probably expressing, gradually, your ability to listen to the meaning of the words will become stronger and stronger.

3. Communicate more with thoughtful people. Thoughtful people often have a lot of things to say that make you reminisce, and from these aftertastes, you can understand the meaning, and at the same time, you can also learn how to express your thoughts very skillfully.

The Three Beliefs of Practicing Eloquence.

1. The importance of faith in our eloquence. I often hear people say, "I grew up in a bad environment, so I didn't have the opportunity to practice eloquence."

The environment in which I work is so bad that I don't have the opportunity to work out at all. Some people will even say, "The reason why I am not good at speaking is because my parents can't speak."

In fact, a person's success or failure has little to do with the environment and birth, Hua Luogeng dropped out of junior high school because of his poor family background, and he became a famous mathematician; Andrew Carnegie's father made a living by hand-weaving linen and plaid cloth by hand, and his mother sewed shoes as a side job, and the family was very poor, but Carnegie created the myth of self-made through his own efforts. There are many, many examples of this.

A person's thoughts actually determine a person's behavior, a person's behavior determines a person's habits, a person's habits determine a person's character, and a person's character determines a person's destiny. We tend to be who we think we are. If you think you can't practice eloquence well, then you will never be able to practice eloquence. If you believe that eloquence is practiced, and there is no bad eloquence, then it is only a matter of time before you have good eloquence.

A person's belief in things often directly determines his fate.

2. Let beliefs enter our subconscious. The world's potential master Born Tracy once said, "The power of the subconscious mind is more than 30,000 times greater than that of consciousness." "Letting beliefs into our subconscious is only through constant self-suggestion.

3. Practice the three beliefs of eloquence.

1. As long as I have the opportunity to speak, I will speak.

2. As long as there is a chance to go on stage, I will rush to the stage.

3. As long as there is an opportunity to practice, I will practice with my heart.

If you can really apply these three beliefs of practicing eloquence to your life, in less than a month, your level of eloquence will definitely have a qualitative leap.

You and I are mortal, born in the world. Why bother, isn't it good to be happy? Since graduating from campus, there is no simple friendship, everyone goes their own way, works hard for their livelihood, there is no same environment, there is no common topic, and it is also inseparable to get together, so don't be too sad, go out, meet some work partners, will slowly eliminate the current negative emotions, I wish you happiness!