How can men change, how can boys change?

Generally, when you have money, the surrounding environment changes, and whoever changes the environment is easy to change.

When a man is rich, he becomes bad, and when a woman is bad, he is rich. Although it is not explicit, there is some truth to it.

It only changes when it's hurt.

Let's start with appearances:

1. Hairstyle accounts for 70 of a person's overall beauty, girls can also have long hair and short hair, tie a ponytail and drape hair, and boys are basically a hairstyle, at most, they don't blow bangs, and they blow on the back. So, choose the right hairstyle and double your appearance!

I have to say that in skin care, the three most important points are moisturizing, sun protection and cleansing. Don't think that boys have rough skin and thick flesh, and go out without any protective preparations. Tanning is one thing, and what's even more terrifying is photoaging, and by sticking to sunscreen in the last step of skincare10, you can definitely be 10 years younger than your peers who don't wear sunscreen.

As for cleaning, the facial cleanser should be moistened with water and foamed before washing the face, and do not use a towel to wipe the face, there are a lot of bacteria. I always use a tissue to press on my face to absorb the moisture. Cleaning**I have only used ass cream and think the effect is not bad.

3. Dressing This can only be inspired by looking at other people's collocations and finding out the dressing style that suits you. In fact, boys are simply very refreshing, and they generally can't go wrong. Here I put a few boys' outfits in spring, summer, autumn and winter, you can refer to them.

Change your hairstyle, change your dressing style, and be positive.

If you always attract the wrong man, the first thing you have to reflect on is: Are you too kind? Kindness is a beautiful quality, but it's not so good if you never complain or express your true emotions.

Excessive kindness is to accept unacceptable behavior, to make others think that no matter what you do to you, you will forgive them, this is without bottom line and principle, you give them endless reasons to hurt you.

At the same time, always remember that you can only offer some help to others, you are not a savior, and you cannot change anyone. If you have been trying to change people who have been hurt and abused in ways that change the mindset of others and in ways that are not quite appropriate, then it is easy for you to overdo it for them, which is why you always fall in love with similar people. To get rid of the savior complex and save your time, you need a partner who is on par with you.

Also, if you care too much about others and always want to please them, you can easily lose yourself. If you indulge in pleasing others, of course, this may not be so bad when it comes to getting along with friends or family, but for a partner, if you just satisfy him endlessly, then you will not respect your own needs and desires, and you yourself will not be satisfied for a long time, making the give-and-return imbalance between the two parties in the relationship.

Of course, clear boundaries are the foundation of sticking to your principles, and don't give up on sticking to some of the necessary boundaries just because you're close. In a healthy relationship, boundaries are necessary, and if you don't establish them, those who are not the right fit will take advantage of this and eat away at your own independent territory step by step. For example, if you let his friends play video games in your place at any time, then it will disturb you all the time.

Therefore, the refusal should be made directly.

Faith is the first requisite.

There is also no lack of stability. Belief. Bearing. Conservation.

These are all things to be exercised in small things.

If you want to go from a boy to a man in 1 second.

Then I'll tell you.

That's impossible...Laugh. ）

I guess I have to go through some things.

Remember not to be surprised. Remember what you should do.

But a real man is not without a little vitality.

To go from a boy to a man is to balance these.