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In today's society, young people are under more and more pressure to live, and many important things such as buying a house, buying a car, and getting married are waiting for us to do and complete.
But take a look at the high housing prices, the unattainable bride price; Looking back at myself, I still didn't achieve anything, barely surviving with a meager salary.
So, we fell silent, or gave up. For the unattainable life, we are less and less able to live the way we want.
I still remember my childhood dream, when we were inspired to change the world and become heroes in TV dramas; Growing up, I realized that it was not easy to change the world, so I thought that it was okay to change myself, so that I could be a little successful, a little rich and healthy; As we continue to grow older, we have to face the pressure of starting a family, and look at ourselves, but we are still struggling with the quagmire of life.
The more we feel that we can't live the way we want, the more we want to break the jar. "So be it" - this is the excuse for how many young people compromise with life.
Why do we all have this feeling? This is because our expectations of ourselves are too high, and we have wanted to be a big hero since we were young, but the reality is that there are so many heroes.
As our expectations are disappointed, we become disappointed in ourselves, we compromise with life, we become compromised, and our desire to be motivated slowly dissipates.
However, you may not know: you give up, others are still trying, and you can still see many successful people. What you see is when others are glamorous, but you can't see others silently paying behind their backs.
The reason why they can succeed is that they have been working silently.
That's what I'm trying to say, let's not set limits on ourselves, say I have to achieve a certain achievement, a certain level. However, the consequence of this is that when you don't reach your goal, your gap will be very large, and it will be very easy to give up.
What we have to do is continuous efforts and persistence. Choose your own direction, work hard bit by bit every day, step by footprint to move forward, you don't need to look at the results, just see if today's self is better than yesterday, this is enough.
If you are really willing to work hard, then the worst outcome in life is only a late bloomer.
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For a person, if a person often makes their own decisions or draws conclusions without thinking, then the person usually gradually becomes very superficial and impetuous. On the contrary, if a person often comes to his or her own conclusions after careful consideration, good results are usually achieved. Deep thinking should be seriously considered.
Therefore, it is very important to think deeply and deserve our attention. In order to develop one's ability to think deeply, everyone should first have the desire to think deeply. For a person who often doesn't think, they usually feel very confused and painful when faced with some more complex issues.
For a person who can think deeply, they can always summarize their own laws of things and solve problems quickly in this way, and at the same time, they do not blindly obey others, and they are excellent in improving efficiency and doing things. At the same time, for us, when we have a strong enough ability to think deeply, the world we know and some of the things we experience will be very positive for us. Interdisciplinary learning and building multiple thinking models.
The poly-thinking model was first proposed by Charlie Munger, and this model changed the way he lived and learned thinking to a great extent. The model is based on the knowledge of all disciplines and uses this as a framework to ultimately form this holistic mindset. For a person, the variety of knowledge that a person possesses will affect the image of the world as seen by that person.
Therefore, for us, we should not be limited to the specialized discipline we study, but should study other disciplines extensively and should not limit ourselves to a small circle.
Finally, when our learning reaches its limits, we will rise to a great height, being able to blend various disciplines while being able to solve more problems in life. People are inert, and learning or thinking requires our own self-discipline and self-compulsion to do so. If we don't, we'll waste a lot of time on indifferent things.
In fact, we can set ourselves a question that deserves deep thought, for example, what is the purpose of our existence.
Forcing ourselves to think regularly for a period of time every day will not only help develop our ability to think deeply, but it will also allow us to improve to a great extent. As we think more and more about the problem, that is, keep an open mind, everyone should understand the harm that China is doing to our country by closing the country, which for us is actually the same as the individual. There must be an open mind so that we can keep improving and learning.
At the same time, this form of problem-solving is very inefficient for a person. For those of us who want to gain the ability to think deeply, we must have extensive academic knowledge. At the same time, we must not just taste ideas.
We always need a heart that can break the casserole and demand an end. At the same time, we also need to develop other special skills in various areas and use them as a springboard so that our ability to think deeply can be successful.
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I think it makes sense. Sometimes a person's success doesn't all depend on how hard the person works. What really makes a difference is a person's state of mind. Success is preceded by setbacks, and if you don't have a good mindset to keep trying, then you won't succeed.
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There is half truth in this sentence, because there are several factors for success, opportunities, inspiration, environment, etc., but your own efforts are also very important, after all, your fate is largely in your own hands.
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Yes, work hard to find shortcuts, don't fight alone, sometimes look at ability and opportunity, no courage to work hard will not succeed.
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This statement is very true, hard work is not an absolute factor that affects success. There are many other factors.
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This makes no sense at all, because if we succeed, we will work hard, and if we don't work hard, we will definitely not succeed, so this statement is not true.
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There is some truth to this. There are also many other factors that influence your success, so the conditions for success are not the only ones.
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In fact, there is still some truth in this sentence, indeed, if you don't work hard, it is impossible to achieve success, after all, it still depends on yourself.
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This sentence makes sense, what makes a person enlightened is often not hard work, but an inadvertent force, and this power will become faith.
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Reasonable. Sometimes it is external factors that affect your success, as well as your own mentality, which has nothing to do with hard work.
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This sentence is only half true, the factors that affect a person's success or not not only depend on a person's acquired efforts, but also innate talent is equally important.
Of course I do, the more the better, because I'm genetically good, it's just one more twin brother, or even one more person close to you.
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