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The state of most families in life is: the female protagonist is inside, and the male protagonist is outside. This requires women to have more time to analyze and compare their current life unconsciously, and to talk about whether their married life is happy in their spare time.
Men are different. Men are accustomed to hiding their living conditions, even the most affectionate best friends around them, they refuse to reveal more. Especially in the case of unhappy married life, it will make men feel very ashamed and lose face by speaking out.
But it is worth mentioning that men, although it goes without saying, does not mean that men do not have their own concept of happiness. Moreover, in many cases, whether a man is happy or not can be unconsciously revealed from the spiritual outlook of all people and how they behave. The good and bad are written on the face and shown in the concept of life.
A man who is nourished by love has a more open mind, a more peaceful heart, and an open-minded attitude towards others and everything. A happy man's smile will often hang on his face, and a man's smile must be the most visual norm to consider whether a man is really happy. Happy men are also very happy and kind, giving people a sense of approachability and comfort.
If a man is sad, irritable, and cynical after marriage, and wants to live a mess in the future, he will not be happy with it. After a man gets married, his life is plain and happy, and he doesn't have many bad thoughts in his heart, and this kind of satisfaction from the inside out can't be hidden.
In life, both men and women, young and old, like men who dress appropriately, are clean and tidy. It is said that people rely on clothing, and horses rely on saddles. Indeed, the way a man dresses fully reflects his own state and quality of life.
High-quality surfaces are no longer exclusive to wealthy men, but are also suitable for men with happy lives.
Men are surrounded by the considerate care and thoughtful love of the women in the family, and they can even sleep with a smile on their faces. I can dress myself seriously for daily transportation, because I not only have time and energy, but also full of self-confidence. Abundant love and the diligence of its women make the quality of life of men certainly high.
In fact, men are like children in many cases, and they are born with a sense of curiosity and inquiry, and when they can't find a sense of trust in their hearts, they always want to keep looking for a more comfortable harbor. A happy man must only want to stay at home outside of work, because there are girls at home who he cares about and misses him, this person can just grant him satisfaction, so that the man is stable and satisfied. A man who wants to stay at home must feel comfortable and comfortable, and there is something in the house that can attract his heart and make him look forward to it.
If a man wants to run away from home, it must be the beginning of a tragedy in married life.
Sanmao once wrote in the book: Men are mud, women are water, there is more mud, and the water is turbid; There is more water, and the mud is thin; No more, no less, pinched into 2 clay figurines - a pair of fairy couples. The ultimate gender relationship in Sanmao's eyes is also the balance between men and women that everyone longs for and requires.
Usually the influence of happiness is not achieved by one party, and a good relationship between the sexes requires the carefulness of men and women, and the sincerity of not thinking about it, and building it together.
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Looking at the usual state of this boy, if the state is better, it means that he is very happy. In addition, looking at the boy's figure, if he is fat, it means that the other party raised him for nothing.
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First of all, it depends on whether the man is fat or not, if he is relatively fat, it means that he is happy fat. Then there is the look at the man, is he more energetic than before?
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Will you get off work and come home on time, will you be happy when you talk about your wife, will you be annoyed when you receive your wife's **, will you want to surprise your wife, and will you help your wife share the housework when you go home.
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Whether a family is harmonious or not, in fact, largely depends on how the man behaves, when there is a conflict with his wife, how to humble his wife, let his wife and his parents create different types of situations in concept, how to do the grease in the middle, adjust the relationship between each other, this actually really requires the wisdom of men to deal with these things, but if the men in the marriage have these four main manifestations, I think their marriage will not last long.
Some men have been shouting the banner of "straight man of steel", not to take care of girls, menstrual let girls wash this and that, unwell, still working on things in the family, in the morning must be early for him in the morning, and at night he has to prepare supper for him, never know how to take care of the family, always feel that he is out of the house, earn enough money to remember that everything in the house is all women's, in fact, he doesn't know that working harder than him refers to women, and his own women need to be cared for, If a woman can do anything, what else do you want?
Self-centered people always feel that they are the strongest, the strongest, have been doing things according to their own ideas, daily life, work, can't listen to other people's suggestions, always feel that they are perfect, do things will definitely not understand the feeling of being felt, free to do what they feel is right, even in daily life, always like to yell at women, as if women are his dependence, this kind of man does not know how to replace people fairly, in married life, it is difficult for a long time.
Even if you are married, in fact, we all have enough thinking, have our own three views, our own value discrimination, I also have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, it is no longer the same child as before, but some people still like to listen to their parents, sometimes parents do give us a lot of useful suggestions, but sometimes as a man, listen to your own inner experience is not good? If you have a family and take on what you should bear independently, you can have a longer married life.
Even if she is married, she still can't change her flowery nature, there are still many beautiful sisters-in-law in WeChat, isn't it chatting about ambiguous relationships together, and every once in a while I will get to know many women in the leisure and entertainment club, this kind of man has an inferiority sense of mission, and there is no sense of responsibility to protect the family, how can women afford it?
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often doesn't go home at night, often compares others with his wife, often dislikes his wife, often coldly and violently treats his wife, and often says things that hurt his wife.
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Playing games will ignore your lover.,Don't have a stable job.,Never take the initiative to communicate with girls.,Say less and less to girls.,I especially like to have disputes over small things.,Never honor your parents.。
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Unmotivated, irresponsible, irresponsible to oneself, often tantrums, often complaining about their own state of life.
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Looking at the bits and pieces of this man's life, looking at the man's situation, and looking at this man's attitude towards his family, you can know whether this man is happy or not.
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He immediately found a girl and met Zhao Mei, This incident is really a story like a TV series. So Bo Hu Zaoji pretended to be Zhao Mei and directly beat the child and chose to divorce, because she thought that a man betraying himself was the most unforgivable crime, and she didn't expect to divorce after marriage.
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In marriage, don't care about one thing and another The money is gone, no matter how busy you are, you have to spend more time with your family.
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Sincerity, loyalty, responsibility, self-motivation, etc. A man needs to have these things after he gets married.
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The key depends on whether the man is self-motivated, responsible, responsible, good character, and good temper.
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See if they are particularly self-motivated, know how to care about you, have a sense of responsibility, whether they are diligent, and whether they will help you with housework.
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