In marriage, as long as the unhappy man will have a few manifestations frequently .

After getting married, if a man really loves someone, he will silently take on some obligations and become more courageous. When you are together, he will take the initiative to take on these complicated and inconvenient things, or actively communicate and discuss with you, and then the two of you will deal with them together. Only a husband who doesn't love you can often behave like this, throwing all the complicated and inconvenient things to you, while enjoying your efforts with peace of mind.

At this time, its eyes can't see your hard work, and only knows how to shirk responsibility and how to make yourself happy.

Married life will turn two unrelated people into a whole, therefore, the more a man loves you, the less likely it will be to have a small belly with you. In the process of getting along, it will take care of your feelings in advance, and even if you suffer a little loss, it will make you happy and happy. And a husband who doesn't love you won't consider your feelings, and because he doesn't have you in his heart, he will definitely not fully consider you.

At this time, when you are together, he will often quarrel with you over some trivial things, and he will become more and more small-bellied and unreasonable.

Treating each other with sincerity is the main prerequisite for men and women to get along with each other, even if the EQ and IQ are low for men, they know that they can't hide anything from women. Therefore, in marriage, a husband who truly loves you will open his heart to you and make you understand the bits and pieces of his life. Only a husband who doesn't love you can often hide a certain amount from himself, he went to ** today; And who lent the money.

You don't know anything like that. In fact, a man can only not want you to know anything without you in his heart.

Communication is actually a very simple thing, but it is too difficult for couples who are not in a good relationship. Because you don't love your husband, he will definitely not communicate well with you, even if you take the initiative to communicate with him and talk to him with kind words, he will not give you any good faces. However, before the eyes of others, it completely changes its appearance.

In short, all his not so good temper is only given to you, and only when he is with you, he will be like a hedgehog that people dare not approach.

As soon as you enter the door, you will be seen; I like to ignore what you say, and even think that you are disgusted by what you say; If you have something to do, you will find trouble, and everything will be considered your fault; I often come home late, I love to drink, and I am always full of complaints about life.

As long as the unhappy man in the marriage will have these manifestations frequently, first of all, they will often hide in some quieter places to think about life quietly, and their attitude is always very perfunctory when facing their wives, and in the marriage they will often complain to others about their family situation.

I will be very unhappy, very depressed, often reluctant to go home, often smoke, often drink.

Whether a family is harmonious or not, in fact, largely depends on how the man behaves, when there is a conflict with his wife, how to humble his wife, let his wife and his parents create different types of situations in concept, how to do the grease in the middle, adjust the relationship between each other, this actually really requires the wisdom of men to deal with these things, but if the men in the marriage have these four main manifestations, I think their marriage will not last long.

Some men have been shouting the banner of "straight man of steel", not to take care of girls, menstrual let girls wash this and that, unwell, still working on things in the family, in the morning must be early for him in the morning, and at night he has to prepare supper for him, never know how to take care of the family, always feel that he is out of the house, earn enough money to remember that everything in the house is all women's, in fact, he doesn't know that working harder than him refers to women, and his own women need to be cared for, If a woman can do anything, what else do you want?

Self-centered people always feel that they are the strongest, the strongest, have been doing things according to their own ideas, daily life, work, can't listen to other people's suggestions, always feel that they are perfect, do things will definitely not understand the feeling of being felt, free to do what they feel is right, even in daily life, always like to yell at women, as if women are his dependence, this kind of man does not know how to replace people fairly, in married life, it is difficult for a long time.

Even if you are married, in fact, we all have enough thinking, have our own three views, our own value discrimination, I also have the ability to distinguish between right and wrong, it is no longer the same child as before, but some people still like to listen to their parents, sometimes parents do give us a lot of useful suggestions, but sometimes as a man, listen to your own inner experience is not good? If you have a family and take on what you should bear independently, you can have a longer married life.

Even if she is married, she still can't change her flowery nature, there are still many beautiful sisters-in-law in WeChat, isn't it chatting about ambiguous relationships together, and every once in a while I will get to know many women in the leisure and entertainment club, this kind of man has an inferiority sense of mission, and there is no sense of responsibility to protect the family, how can women afford it?

often doesn't go home at night, often compares others with his wife, often dislikes his wife, often coldly and violently treats his wife, and often says things that hurt his wife.

Playing games will ignore your lover.,Don't have a stable job.,Never take the initiative to communicate with girls.,Say less and less to girls.,I especially like to have disputes over small things.,Never honor your parents.。

Unmotivated, irresponsible, irresponsible to oneself, often tantrums, often complaining about their own state of life.

1. I don't care about my wife, I am not considerate, and I am not tolerant 2. I often quarrel with my wife, no matter who is right or who is wrong 3. I am unwilling to communicate, and I hide everything in my heart 4. I often have a cold war, I don't say anything about it, I am sulking in my life, I am cold, no matter who is right or wrong, my wife is there alone and angry 5. I am not willing to be intimate with my wife, I solve everything by myself, I don't share it with my wife, I don't want to communicate with my wife 6. I don't care about my wife's parents, and I don't care about my parents. 7. Unwilling to quarrel with his parents and his wife's family for his wife, no matter who is right or wrong8. Unwilling to give up his career for his wife, and teach his wife at home 9. Unwilling to contact his brothers and friends for his wife, such as unwilling to contact his wife's relatives, no matter who is right or wrong, his wife is sulking there alone.

01 Don't mention family affairs in front of othersA man who is happily married will show off everywhere, and the topics he talks about with others will talk about his family and life. A man who doesn't talk about his family's life for a long time, doesn't have a family's ** at the desk, and doesn't have a family's ** at the front of the car, which means that he doesn't care about the family at all. An unhappy marriage is a failure of a man who is unwilling to show his weaknesses to others.

At general gatherings, or with people, as soon as family topics are discussed, he will withdraw. Attentive people can find that family is a man's scar and not worth showing off. 02 Make a decision without the consent of your family If you ask a man if he wants to go for a drink at night, and he quickly agrees, it means that he doesn't value his family in his heart.

Who wants to abandon their family and mix with someone who is not close to them? This is a small detail of marriage, if you go back late from overtime, remember to call your wife. Many men think it's nothing, in fact, their wives care a lot.

If you're busy, or if you can't get home on time, tell your wife. After getting married, it is not a person, but a whole, and you need to respect each other. If you need to make a decision, especially about Qian Liang Laoheng, remember to discuss it with your wife, only men who are unhappy in their marriages will decide privately.

03 Smoking, drinking, and perming your head is not something that a good man does for this kind of behavior that does not pay attention to personal image and health. Many men feel that smoking is more manly, but this is not the case, and men who smoke are irresponsible to their families and themselves. Smoking and drinking alcohol are wearing down your body, and if your body collapses, how can you support your family?

Seeing a man who often smokes, drinks, and burns his hair shows that he is relying on some external factors to relieve the pressure in his heart. Therefore, when you see such a man, you must know that there is a problem in his marriage.