Do you know what it feels like to cry and cry again???

If you really love her (him).If this love does not belong to you, then please let go of your hand. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go.

Letting go is a kind of helpless despair, and it hurts to the heart. When the people who once cherished life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized: it turned out that what they once thought was eternal, but in fact it was just a meeting in Pingshui.

I once thought that I could hold hands all the way like this, but when I let go, I realized that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel is still parallel, even if it is not far apart, it is already the end of the world. The price of bravery is to let go of oneself first, admit defeat, accept helplessness, sigh softly, and wish him happiness in the future. Curled up in the corner, waiting for the wound to heal, experiencing the freedom of daring to love, hate, and loss.

The feeling of happiness may only be instantaneous, and after a moment, it is a person's wonderful. In the days after letting go, I will always be unhappy, and I will inexplicably cry for a song, a play, or even a sentence, always feel that the sky is dark, the clouds are gray, and I always feel that I have lost the meaning of life. However, a friend told me

You have nothing to lose, you just go back to the days before you knew him. I am relieved, just like fireworks can't hang in the sky forever, as long as they have been brilliant, why bother with days without fireworks? We are all ordinary Hongchen men and women, unable to earn the love network of love and hate, and unable to escape the whirlpool of love and being loved.

After the heartbreak and sadness, there is endless loneliness. Lonely? Perhaps.

But savoring the chic after loneliness, thinking about the happiness other than him, thinking about no longer having to rack your brains to guess his mind, will you breathe a sigh of relief and feel a little more relaxed? Is it really let go? I can face him calmly, even though there is a faint indescribable sourness in my heart, but I no longer cry, crying because a person's memory is in my heart, and I will not disperse it no matter what.

There was such a song. Are you afraid of loving me? 》：

Are you afraid of loving me, have you forgotten your tears? The heart is waiting for the rain to fall, and the tears have reached the cheeks; Are you afraid of loving me, isn't your heart dead? One step is nothing more than a cliff.

I asked myself again and again, "Am I scared of loving you?" "The answer is yes, I'm afraid, I'm really afraid.

The heart full of holes is so fragile that it can no longer withstand the torture of pain into the bone marrow, so I let you go, and let myself have a way to live, condensing you into a painting, deeply engraved in my mind, looking, thinking, but I will no longer be the person in the painting. You can better appreciate the beauty of the painting when you are outside the painting, isn't it? Shake hands vigorously and say sincerely:

Goodbye, cherish! Turn your head and walk away freely, letting the back be deeply engraved in your mind. When you can recall the moments of your past with a relieved mind, you can appreciate the beauty of letting go.

God let me meet you at the wrong time, and I cried; However, God is fair. Would you cry if he asked me to leave you at the right time?..

What I understand is that when you are so sad that you can't cry, you feel like your heart hurts, like it has been shattered.

The role of crying is not to solve practical problems, but to release a part of the negative psychological energy, make it psychologically more stable, and prepare psychological conditions for solving practical problems.

Crying doesn't solve anything?

No, crying itself solves the problem.

Crying is an expression of emotions and the release of suppressed emotions.

The "strongness" we often refer to may actually be a psychological defense mechanism of "repression", suppressing sadness and pain in the subconscious, so that we do not feel their existence for a while.

In this case, not only are the negative emotions not addressed in time, but over time, they can go beyond our tolerance at some point, causing us to fall into greater depression, breakdown, and a sense of meaninglessness.

Because crying can express many meanings: this problem cannot be solved! I don't want to!

Asking for help and other thoughts that need help, you see if the child has fallen, the first reaction is to see if there is anyone around him, and some people cry later. This is a way to ask for help. As the saying goes, a crying child has milk to drink!

Crying can induce compassion and is arguably one of the deepest emotions that touches people. Children cry, adults laugh. Adults cry, how difficult things are.

Remember, crying never means vulnerability, much less the opposite of being strong.

Crying doesn't mean that you can't solve the problem, after crying, isn't it better to solve the problem with a good heart?

If you want to shoot and cry, cry! You need a smiling corner where you can let your emotions unleash.

Sometimes, I am inexplicably in a bad mood and don't want to talk to anyone, I just want to be alone in a quiet daze.

Sometimes, I suddenly feel irritable, I feel uncomfortable watching anything, I feel panicked, and I am desperate to find an exit.

Sometimes, I find that the people around me don't know me, and when I face the people around me, I suddenly feel speechless.

Sometimes, it feels like you're out of place in the world, and what you've been holding on to overnight is unrecognizable.

Sometimes, I suddenly want to escape from my current life, and I want to pack my simple luggage and wander desperately.

Sometimes, don't say to you all of a sudden, I think you've changed, and then you start to have mixed feelings. Sleepy.

Sometimes, I wish time would stop for me and finish something I haven't had time to do.

Sometimes, I want to hide alone and be vulnerable, and I don't want others to see my wounds.

Sometimes, I suddenly want to cry, but I can't cry when I am sad.

Sometimes, in the dead of night, I suddenly feel that it is not that I can't sleep, but that I stubbornly don't want to sleep.

Sometimes, walking through a familiar street corner and seeing a familiar back, I suddenly think of a person's face.

Sometimes, I know I have a lot to say in my heart, but I don't know how to express it.

Sometimes, you feel like you have the whole world, and then you feel like you have nothing.

It's just that sometimes, even though he has a lot of friends around him, he still feels lonely.

Sometimes, I want to indulge myself, hoping that I will go crazy in hysteria.

Sometimes, suddenly I can't find myself and I lose myself without a trace.

Sometimes, a feeling of boredom suddenly pops up in my heart, and I feel that I am very tired and tired.

Sometimes, I can't see what my future will look like, and I am confused and overwhelmed.

Sometimes, you find yourself growing up overnight.