At the beginning of the Red Mansion, why did Mrs. Wang ask Daiyu not to provoke Baoyu?

Daiyu belongs to the fence, without a prominent background, Baoyu belongs to the hope of the family, afraid that after Daiyu provokes Baoyu, Baoyu will make some trouble, which will affect Baoyu's future, and I am also afraid that Daiyu will marry Baoyu.

Mrs. Wang knew that Baoyu was very fun-loving, and she didn't want the two of them to have any scandals, and she was also afraid that Jia's mother would let Lin Daiyu marry Jia Baoyu, so she didn't let Daiyu provoke Baoyu.

Mrs. Wang was afraid that Jia Baoyu would make a disturbance, which would affect his future in the future, Lin Daiyu had just entered Jiafu, but after listening to her mother, she learned a lot about Jiafu.

The core reason why Mrs. Wang did not let Baoyu marry Daiyu in the Dream of Red Mansions was Daiyu's personality and hobbies, and Mrs. Wang believed that Daiyu would find it difficult for Baoyu to have a career and maintain the family, let alone make the family prosperous. There is no longer any backing for Daiyu's family, that is, they have no economic strength, but they have to subsidize Daiyu's food and clothing. And then there is Daiyu, who is also Mrs. Wang Jinzao's mother, who doesn't like Daiyu very much, and she also has a preconceived dislike for Daiyu.

These core reasons also make Mrs. Wang not let Baoyu marry Daiyu. <>

In the Dream of Red Mansions, Lin Daiyu.

Due to the death of his parents when he was a child, he came to Jiafu early.

In Grandma's home, Lin Daiyu, who was already sensitive, was even more withdrawn in the chaotic environment under the fence, which caused Daiyu to speak a little harshly and straightforwardly, which was easy to offend others, which also affected the management of the big family.

Possibly. If Baoyu is allowed to marry Daiyu, then Mrs. Wang will finally survive until Jia's mother doesn't care about anything, and after Mrs. Wang becomes the queen mother of the family, Daiyu's character will obviously not please Mrs. Wang. Mrs. Wang will not let Daiyu, who is not very good at managing affairs, be able to share the affairs for herself, let alone wait for Mrs. Wang to get old, Daiyu will be able to take care of household affairs.

Although Daiyu was born in a family of eunuchs, Daiyu's father also served as an important position in the imperial court such as the imperial history of salt patrol and the doctor, so it can be said that the family power from which Daiyu was born is also quite powerful. But the uproar didn't last long, and the teenage Daiyu could only live under the fence in Jiafu because of the death of her parents, and Daiyu at this time had no family backer and no economic strength. In a wealthy family like Jiafu, Daiyu is only from a comparable background in the eyes of Mrs. Wang, but the economic strength of the Daiyu family and the influence of family officialdom are worthless.

In Dream of Red Mansions, Jia Mu.

More than once, he said that he was most concerned about his daughter in his heart, and then, that is, Daiyu's mother, when Jia's mother said this in tears, Mrs. Wang's performance was very indifferent, and even found words to leave a few times, such an indifferent performance, coupled with Mrs. Wang's treatment of Xue Baochai.

's smiling face performance is obviously not like Daiyu. Mrs. Wang and Daiyu did notBlood relationship, is also a little disgusted with Daiyu's mother, plus Daiyu never persuaded Baoyu to concentrate on studying and gaining fame, which is different from Mrs. Wang, who hopes that her son Jackie Chan wants Baoyu to take the fame and take the official career, which also makes Mrs. Wang even more reluctant to let Baoyu marry Daiyu.

The core reason why Mrs. Wang disagrees with Jia Baoyu marrying Lin Daiyu is that Lin Daiyu is not a girl who follows feudal etiquette, she thinks that Lin Daiyu is a "rebel" who has no rules, has a heartbeat, and may lead Jia Baoyu to harm, not a qualified daughter-in-law.

1. Mrs. Wang thinks that Lin Daiyu is a "rebel" rather than a suitable daughter-in-law.

In Mrs. Wang's heart, the standard of a good daughter-in-law should be knowledgeable and reasonable-what you know must be books like "Women's Precepts" and "Women's Training", and what you can achieve must be the etiquette of three obedience and four virtues. And Lin Daiyu is very disgusted with feudal etiquette, and her words and deeds are often anti-etiquette, so she is not a qualified daughter-in-law in Mrs. Wang's mind. Mrs. Wang is a strict feudal patriarch, and the daughter-in-law in her mind must be the same person as her, Lin Daiyu is obviously not the same kind of person as her, so she will not accept Lin Daiyu.

This is the core reason why Mrs. Wang does not accept Lin Daiyu.

2, Mrs. Wang thinks that Lin He will take Jia Baoyu badly.

Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu are a kind of people who call for hardship, both are rebels of feudal etiquette, and Mrs. Wang can't control Jia Baoyu, so she will never let Lin Daiyu make matters worse for Jia Baoyu's lack of learning and skills. Therefore, Mrs. Wang's chain likes Xue Baochai, who often persuades Jia Baoyu to be more attentive in his classic career, and alienates Lin Daiyu, who rebelled with Jia Baoyu. In fact, the reason is because Mrs. Wang and Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu are two completely different types of people, Mrs. Wang hates rebels, but she can't dislike her own son, so she transferred her dissatisfaction to Lin Daiyu.

3, Mrs. Wang likes docile and well-behaved girls, Lin Daiyu is not this kind of girl.

Mrs. Wang and Lin Daiyu don't have much communication in "Dream of Red Mansions", and Mrs. Wang basically didn't take much care of Lin Daiyu, so the relationship between the two is not close, although Mrs. Wang is Lin Daiyu's aunt, but this aunt is not as good as her cousin-in-law Wang Xifeng to Lin Daiyu. In "Dream of Red Mansions", Mrs. Wang's favorite Xue Baochai and Raider are well-behaved and docile girls, and this meekness not only refers to being docile to the elders and masters, but also to the meekness of etiquette and fate. Lin Daiyu is obviously not like this.

I thought that Mrs. Wang was a short-sighted, confused and stupid person. She likes people who speak kindly and obey her, and hates people who are sharp and angular. Therefore, she likes the slave attacker and the hypocritical Xue Baochai, and hates the real and kind Lin Dai who is missing Zhaoyu.

She never thinks about and verifies the authenticity of others, and a hypocritical good word from others deceives her all over the place. And Lin Dai Fu Kaiyu will not please her, will not disguise the surface, and speak sharply, which is not the type that Mrs. Wang likes.

Because Jiafu is a big family, Jia Baoyu is the only child and can inherit the family business, and Lin Daiyu is a small family, just a girl.

The final reason is that the family of the two of them is not suitable, and the status of the two people is also very different, so they do not agree to be together.

Because Jia Baoyu went crazy when she found out that she was not marrying Lin Daiyu and chose to become a monk, Mrs. Wang regretted it.

Because Lin Daiyu passed away after hearing the news. When Baoyu heard the news, she also fell seriously ill. The family has also declined a lot.

Through the marriage of the two, Baoyu did not regain his senses. It also made Mrs. Wang's heart very uneasy.

Because Jia Baoqi slowly knew that the whole person was lost, Lin Daiyu was gone, and Xue Baochai was also unhappy, which was equivalent to ruining the future of the three people. And as Jia Ling Xiaobaoyu became more and more crazy, Jia's mother was also affected by Naqin, her health became worse and worse, and the entire Jia Mansion became worse and worse.

This is because he found that the treatment was more suitable for Jia Baoyu than Xue Baochai, and Lin Daiyu's temper was better and her personality was better.

Because after Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai got married, they did not achieve the results they expected, but made Jia Baoyu's spirit abnormal.

It may be that Mrs. Wang thinks that Daiyu's parents have passed away, and she has no backing, so she doesn't like her.

Because Daiyu's personality is not pleasant, she is always indecisive, and she has a glass heart, so she doesn't like Lin Daiyu.

Jia Baoyu cares about Lin Daiyu, so every time she can be emotionally involved by Lin Daiyu, she either wants to fall jade or is crazy. Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu have no feelings, so they seem to be much more harmonious, and the two are polite and polite! Mrs. Wang is a typical woman who obeys the three obedience and four virtues in Mr. Cao Xueqin's pen, so on the premise of not involving love, isn't Lin Daiyu ignorant, and Xue Baochai dignified?

Compared with a woman who will often make her son crazy, Mrs. Wang will naturally be more inclined to choose a girl like Xue Baochai who can respect her husband after marriage, so even if it does not involve blood and family, and does not involve all other factors, Mrs. Wang will definitely abandon Lin Daiyu and take Xue Baochai as the first choice for her daughter-in-law.

Because Mrs. Wang felt that Lin Daiyu was sour and mean, and it was not easy to get along with, and she did not have the demeanor of everyone, even if she married Lin Daiyu, it would not help the family, so she didn't like it.

Because Mrs. Wang felt that Daiyu was an orphan girl and could not help Baoyu, and Mrs. Wang had conflicts with Daiyu's mother, she didn't like Lin Daiyu, and Lin Daiyu's health was very bad, and Mrs. Wang felt that she would have problems with childbirth in the future.

First of all, Mrs. Wang's life was not as decent as Daiyu's mother Jia Min, she was rich in clothes and food back then, even if Mrs. Wang's concubines were not as favored by Jia Min, she was jealous and taboo. Jia Min and Mrs. Wang have many years of experience in the same roof, and there may be contradictions in them, hating the house and Wu.

is because Mrs. Wang can't get used to Daiyu's appearance, and feels that Lin Daiyu is not worthy of her child, and there was also a Xue Baochai at that time, and Mrs. Wang felt that Xue Baochai and her relationship was deeper.

Because Mrs. Wang felt that Lin Daiyu's background was not good, her status was humble, and she was not worthy of Jia Baoyu, so she didn't like Lin Daiyu.

It was because Mrs. Wang felt that the other party was very delicate, and she usually looked weak, so she didn't like such a woman very much at that time.

Because Daiyu is not in good health, she also likes to be petty, and this kind of character is definitely not treated well by the elders.

Because Mrs. Wang is not thinking about the love of her children, I have to say that compared with Daiyu, Xue Baochai's mother's family is more powerful.

felt that Lin Daiyu was sick, plus Lin Daiyu did not have particularly powerful capital, and her maiden family had no one left, so she could not assist Jia Baoyu.

Because Daiyu's personality is not pleasing to the elders, it is too sad.