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Absolutely. Because they will be very lonely when they are old, and no one will want to talk to them, so it will be very desolate.
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Personally, I think that if a woman who is not married and has no children is not necessarily desolate when she is old, they can also be in a nursing home in the future.
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Definitely, because seeing that others are full of children and grandchildren, but they are alone, it is inevitable that there will be a gap in their hearts, but there are also people who enjoy this loneliness.
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Yes, these people are lonely when they are old, and there is no one to take care of them, talk to them, and help them solve their problems.
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No, because the system of society is relatively perfect now. A lot of people are very concerned about the elderly. So it's not particularly bleak.
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No, mainly because even if you have children, you don't necessarily have to raise them when you are old, and most people are very self-reliant nowadays, especially when they are old, just live their own life.
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It will not be desolate when you are old, because you still have the company of your children, and you will still have something to rely on when you are old.
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No, because these women can seek what they like, they can do what they want, and they are actually very free.
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In fact, it is not necessarily, if you have enough assets, life is still okay, if you don't have money and no children, it is really miserable.
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I think so, because when you see other people with juniors and grandchildren, you will inevitably feel a little empty inside.
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Indeed, when you are old, you have no children to take care of by your side, and you can live alone by yourself, and your life is very tiring.
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Regardless of whether you have children or not, people need a certain way to "cover up" for their lives when they are old.
Some people say that I have enough money, and even if I don't have children when I'm old, I won't be miserable. It is true that a large amount of money is one of the options to reduce the risk.
Some people also say that when I am old, the society will naturally develop to a certain stage, and the facilities related to the elderly will be improved. This is not wrong, but we do not know how far the social mechanism will be improved at that time.
Others say that I prefer to believe in "human favors" rather than money and social mechanisms. It's like someone asks, "You can't even trust your own children, what can you expect from institutions you don't know?" "This choice is indeed the most certain compared to the first two.
So I can especially understand that many people advocate the benefits of having children because having children does mean that you have one more relative to support you when you are old, which is indeed one of the ways to avoid "old age and no one to rely on". However, this does not mean that you will not be pitiful when you are old.
First of all, the relationship between your children and you in the process of growing up directly affects their attitude in the future in the process of providing for your old age;
Secondly, there is a high probability that children will leave home and have their own families when they grow up. Will he be there for you at all times, when you need it most, and it's worth putting a question mark?
In addition, from the perspective of human nature, "no filial son in front of the bed of a long illness" is not a small probability of happening. The reason why I say this is not to say that all children are white-eyed wolves, but to emphasize that raising children to prevent old age is not an absolutely effective way to reduce the risk of no one taking care of your old age, it has a threshold. Devils know, when you're old, it's hard to say if your children will still be here.
The most important thing I want to express is that it is the will of parents to have children and raise children, not the will of children. Also, if your purpose in having children is only so that someone can take care of you after the rest of the year, is that too utilitarian? In addition, from the perspective of efficiency alone, it is the general trend of the times and social development to ask professionals to take care of it.
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Looking at your personal mentality and opinion, I have also seen many women who are not married and have no children, and they live more chic than us. Lao Le can also go to the old people's home, where there are many elderly people. That way you won't feel lonely.
It would be nice to find more knowledge to enrich yourself and face life with an optimistic attitude.
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Because there is harmony between people.
As long as you smile at the mirror of life, life must be beautiful.
Isn't it 100% unpleasant to have a child when you get old? I don't believe it.
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There is actually no difference between a woman who does not have children and a woman who gives birth, if you look at this problem from the level of the elderly, then the result is undoubtedly tragic, and this woman's future is definitely bleak.
Because the gap between the thinking of the elderly and the thinking of young people is still quite large, they still need to have children in their eyes, the elderly themselves like the frolic of children, and feel that the lively and lively family reunion at home is the most beautiful and happiest family, so when a woman does not have children, then her life is imperfect and unhappy.
But in the eyes of young people, the answer may be different, for example, now that there are more and more Dink families, why do they think that no children are happy? First of all, from an economic point of view, the cost of a child is really large, at least if this money is left for his own life, then it may be chic and free and ruined quality.
From the perspective of life, there are too many worries about a child, and because young people are now being raised up, their psychological age is relatively young, and it is really difficult to accept the pressure of life with children for a while, so for them children are a burden and not happiness.
So the fate of a woman who doesn't have children is sometimes lucky, because at least when she meets a scumbag, she can walk chicly, waving her sleeves and not taking away any clouds, because the slick fetters without children can make a woman live a very chic life. So in the end, whether fate is happy or not depends on how this woman plays the cards in her hand.
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There is really no harm in a woman not having children, and she is less guilty physiologically. If there is any downside, it is that women will psychologically feel that life is incomplete, or if they get married, they will suffer some pressure from the man's family. For a woman, this life is imperfect without children, and even when she is old, she will live a lonely life, but I have a different opinion.
Although for a woman to come to the family to say, if you choose to let yourself live alone for a lifetime, you don't want children for the rest of your life, you will indeed feel lonely in your old age, but if you don't actually allow yourself to have children or you don't have the ability to raise a child at all, then for this woman, in this case, having children is obviously a burden on yourself, since you choose to have children, you should educate and cultivate your children well, To show a sense of responsibility as a parent, if you are an irresponsible parent, then it is better not to have children in the first place, because this will not bring happiness and joy to the child's life. And for a woman who has no children, she may not be wonderful in the second half of her life, she will not be able to be happy, everything has its two sides, since she has made up her mind not to have children, then in the second half of her life she will have more time and energy to enjoy her personal life, which can reduce her financial pressure to a large extent, of course, for a woman, since she chooses not to have children, then she should also plan for the second half of her life, leaving a sum of money when she is old and lacks it, I can live a relatively stable life without worrying about my own pension problems.
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There are a lot of elders who think that for a woman. Without children, this life is imperfect and stupid. Even when he is old, he will live a lonely life.
But I have a different view. Although for a woman, if you choose to let yourself live a single life for the rest of your life. I don't want children for the rest of my life.
In his old age, he will indeed feel lonely. But if you don't actually allow yourself to have children, or you simply don't have the ability to raise a child. Well for this woman.
In this case, having a child is obviously a burden on yourself. Since you choose to have children, you should educate and nurture your children well. Be responsible as a parent.
If you are an irresponsible parent, then it is better not to have children in the first place. Because this does not bring happiness and joy to the child for a lifetime. And for a woman who has no children, she may not be able to be happy if the second half of her life is not exciting.
Everything has its two states. Since you have made up your mind not to have children, you will have more time and energy to enjoy your personal life in the second half of your life. It can reduce the pressure of losing money to a large extent.
Of course, for a woman, since she chooses not to have children, she should also plan for the rest of her life. Leave a savings. When you are old, you can live a relatively stable life.
Don't worry about your own pension problems.
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It is a way of life to tease Zheng without having children in his life. Even though I have children, I respect them.
First, a woman who has no children will stay young, with a good figure and clear eyes. Because it's so hard to take care of children. The worries of children when they are sick, the tutoring and busyness after school, and the worries about children's nutrition and growth will consume a woman's youth.
Although we can also say that this is also a mature beauty.
Second, if you don't have a child, you have to have the courage to face it, Bi Hesong is actually very traditional in China, and he is very different.
Third, if you don't have children, the older you get, the more lonely you will be, envy others, and have a good child who looks like you and speaks like yourself.
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There are many elders who think that for a woman, this life is imperfect without children, and even when she is old, she will live a lonely life, but I have a different opinion.
Although for a woman, if she chooses to live alone for a lifetime and don't want children for her whole life, she will indeed feel lonely in her old age, but if she actually does not allow herself to starve for a child or she is not able to raise a child at all, then for this woman, in this case, having children is obviously a burden on herself, since she chooses to have children, she should educate and nurture her children well, To show a sense of responsibility as a parent, if you are an irresponsible parent, then it is better not to have children in the first place, because this will not bring happiness and joy to the child's life.
And for a childless woman to Shenchun said, not necessarily the second half of her life is not wonderful, you can't get happiness, everything has its two sides, since you have made up your mind not to have children, then in the second half of your life you will have more time and energy to enjoy your personal life, can reduce your financial pressure to a large extent, of course, for a woman, since you choose not to have children, then you should also take precautions for the second half of your life. Leave a sum of savings, when you are old, you can live a relatively stable life and not worry about your own pension problems.
If you want to avoid this situation, you need to save money, and when you are old, you have enough money for your own life, so that this situation will not occur.
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