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What is there to get along with, almost everywhere, the three views are not in harmony and I hate it in my heart, even if I stay together, I still feel bad. There is no need at all, in fact, aside from seeing that there is nothing in school that you can't accomplish by yourself, rather than being inappropriate and insisting on being together, in fact, a person is more comfortable and in a good mood. I've got enough dorm anyway.
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Every day she says her things, I do my things, he plays his games and I read my books without interfering with each other.
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For the roommates you don't like and what they do, as long as it doesn't seriously affect you, you choose to ignore it, some strange roommates, you really don't have to bother to change him or want to influence him, and when you graduate, you won't have contact anymore So when you study and live together, you just study hard and do what you want to do.
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It's very simple, come from different places, have different dialects, different customs, and accept their differences. Sometimes don't be too self-righteous and think more for others.
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It doesn't matter if you don't know each other, I also changed dorms in college, as long as they are not particularly xenophobic, it doesn't matter, don't be too impulsive when talking about desserts, think more about others in doing things, and complain less about dormitory classmates.
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Talk less, make less noise, have nothing to do and talk about what he likes, and don't bow your head and be a man.
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There's nothing to get along with, so why do you have to push yourself? The library is the best place to go! Blindly accommodating, once you think about it in the future, it will make you feel extremely disgusting! Don't ask me why.
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I finally knew that it turned out that two people couldn't get along, not because one of them had a bad personality or anything, but because we both had a certain reason, I always stood on the moral high ground and criticized other people's personalities in a corner, while she directly criticized other people's personalities, appearances, and behaviors.
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Speak less and speak less, so that you can be harmonious.
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You should think more about how to learn how to get along, and understand each other more when you live with others for the first time.
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I saw a sentence before, it was a roommate and not a friend. So don't worry too much about it either.
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Don't. I was a roommate and friend for several years, and I barely talked to each other for a few months.
Doesn't it feel amazing, it's clear that roommates have been getting along day and night for so many years, and they know their living habits well, how can there be a big contradiction?
The two of us rented a house with another girl we didn't know. As soon as we rented a meal together, my roommate and I had a conflict. I think the cutting board should be separated, and she doesn't think it's necessary.
I think the bottom of the pot should also be washed, and she also thinks that it doesn't matter if the bottom of the pot is washed or not. In this way, over and over again, everyone has different ideas for cooking, and finally they do their own in the dormitory, because there is not much space and function, the dormitory is just sleeping and resting, and everyone's needs are similar, so it is not very visible. In addition, the bedroom needs to be swept every day, unlike renting a house, there are many places that need to be cleaned, such as the refrigerator needs to be wiped?
Do range hoods need to be cleaned? Do toilets need to be brushed? The differences in each person's living habits are magnified.
Who's clothes in the dormitory have been confiscated for a long time, and finally everyone says that it's not their own to rent a house, can the three of them still hide these problems?
The most chilling thing is that she became very good with another girl in less than a month, and when I had an argument with another girl, she always helped another girl. In the same way, she felt that it was not the same thing that the girl said, she felt that her friendship for several years was not worth a month's friendship, which was also an indifference that I had not seen in the past few years. In fact, if you think about it carefully, she has done a lot of unrighteous things in the past, but she didn't pay attention to it at the beginning.
I've spent so many years with roommates who have been with each other for less than a month, let alone friends who haven't lived together. At the beginning, I was thinking that it would be cheap and safe, but now as long as the rent is not too expensive, I still live alone, right? If you want to live together, the most important thing is that both parties are courteous, energy-saving, tolerant and respectful of others, because there will definitely be friction, but some people are taking a step back, and some people are calculating.
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It's some special quirks, always like to smell socks or don't like to take a bath, rub the bath, because often live together, will definitely notice some small details of each other, that is, some needed details in life, but if you don't often get together, you will definitely not find it.
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The roommate who lives together will find a lot of his little secrets after a long time of contact, and some of the things I saw were a roommate who would wash his face at night, only he didn't like to wash his feet, saying that washing his feet would give people goosebumps, which was really funny.
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Once shared a house with others, I was always intimidated by the other party's powerful goddess Fan, until one day I watched a sloppy roommate eat instant noodles with a big oily head, and suddenly felt that it was nothing more than that.
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found out that the other party will often have nightmares, and it may be because of a series of things that happened to him when he was a child, so he has been having nightmares for so many years, and the impact is also very serious.
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It's just that I don't do anything well, and I feel very depressed to live with a roommate I hate, and I don't even want to stay in the dormitory at all.
Our dormitory was very harmonious at the beginning, because after all, we had to live together for a long time, so we used to respect each other, but after a long time, one of our roommates in the dormitory began to expose her nature, that is, she felt that she was particularly selfish, girls would often apply **, there was a mirror on our pool, she would look in the mirror every time she applied **, and then her** would get around the pool, and the color looked particularly disgusting, but she never cleaned it up herself, When we all went back to the dormitory to prepare for washing, we found that the pool was full of ** residues, and we were very angry, but we couldn't tear our faces in front of us, so we had to squat on the ground to wash our faces. Originally, the hygiene of the dormitory is that everyone works together to maintain you, and we are all particularly helpless if we stain the washbasin and do not clean it up. Every time we wash, it brings us a lot of trouble.
Also, every time my roommate took her turn to clean, she never threw out the garbage, every time she just wiped the floor and left, and the garbage naturally piled up until the next day, and then the next person to clean it for her to throw away the garbage she didn't throw away the day before. Sometimes our housemaster would pack up the garbage and put it at the door the night beforehand, but she still didn't throw out the garbage when she cleaned it, because the dormitory manager had come to us many times. That's why people in our dorm don't like her very much.
And I feel particularly helpless to be in a dormitory with her.
The dormitory is supposed to be maintained by everyone, and if only one person spoils the dormitory, it will definitely cause the others to resent. And it will also cause inconvenience to others, so we should all pay attention to these small problems in dormitory life.
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It's like there's a rat poop in a pot of porridge. Obviously, the atmosphere in the dormitory was very good just now, but as soon as she came back, the atmosphere changed, and everyone was not very happy.
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I'm sure I'm going to break down from the start, and it's like that saying, the person you don't like, no matter what, you can't like it. So, I would be very uncomfortable, very anxious, and always thinking about her disharmony with me.
At the beginning, when I lived with her, I would definitely have a lot of discomfort, and I would avoid her anytime and anywhere, and I felt that I would definitely not contact him today and not talk to him, so as not to cause a lot of unnecessary misunderstandings and embarrassment.
Besides, I really don't like him, why should I talk to him, I think there must be a lot of unnecessary embarrassment in life. I think it's very inconvenient to do anything, because I'm afraid of touching it, people don't like you, and you don't like people, and all kinds of things will come out.
Besides, if you live together, you will definitely not be able to avoid contact, which is a very serious problem. It's not good to talk to him, it's not good not to talk to him, it's very difficult.
I don't know what to say about it, anyway, I just don't like it, I don't like it, I can't like it anyway, so I'm sure I'll refuse, alas, to live with him, ah, it's better for any of us.
If I really can't avoid it, living together, then I will stay away from him. There must be no conflict with him, so as not to bring any trouble to himself. I don't know, I'm not a very atmospheric person, so I don't need to be so atmospheric.
I'm sure some people have a different approach to things than I do, but yes, that's what I think anyway.
If I have a roommate who is mentally retarded, then my life, I think, is colorful, for example, he brings me fun every day, and makes me very happy every day.
We count the stars together, we drink beer together, we yell together, we skate together, we share our inner world together.
In my opinion, character is the most important, so it is very important to repay the money, because the money does not belong to oneself, but the money that belongs to others is spent on oneself, which is a very improper performance, and I would rather not have a quality of life but also have to pay back.
Married for more than a year and pregnant, my husband is not at home all the year round (according to his words, I have to stay in the army to work in order to live a better life, earn a dead salary) After getting married, I didn't even report the rotational leave, I was hungry and cooked and ate by myself, went to the supermarket to buy a lot of things and took them home, opened the door to be a cold and dark home, and felt very pitiful.
Love is caring, not pampering, love is blending, not unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors, not all sweetness. Embrace everything, embrace the stories of the past, tolerate the happy memories and sad feelings of the past. Love is someone who shares it with you when you are unhappy or happy, someone who can always be by your side to share every day with you! >>>More