What is the fundamental reason for the high divorce rate among young people in contemporary China?

In the past, people paid attention to "marrying a chicken and marrying a dog with a dog", because in the eyes of many people, divorce is a disgraceful thing, even if two people have disagreed, they have to barely live a lifetime, and now divorce has become a very normal phenomenon, and no one will look at divorce with colored glasses, so the divorce rate is getting higher and higher, why does this happen?

The first is the change of ideology, in the past, marriage also needed the order of parents, the words of the matchmaker, now everyone advocates the freedom of love, the same divorce is also free, people's minds are becoming more and more open, and gradually realize that marriage is not the whole of life, not that divorce is incomplete, now divorce is not a shameful thing, everyone pays more attention to self-development and the quality of life, if two people are unhappy together, there is no need to force together, it is better to fulfill each other.

The second is the improvement of the level of education and the independence of women, in the past, women did not have the opportunity to learn, did not have the ability to work hard outside, and needed to rely on men, now all people can receive education normally, everyone is equal, but many families still uphold the idea of male dominance and female dominance, but many women no longer need men to provide the economy, and many men also uphold machismo, hoping that girls will take on all the housework, and the two will naturally have contradictions, and inconsistent needs will lead to divorce.

The last is the pressure of life is too great, the so-called "poor couple mourns", once a person gets married, it is no longer a free individual, but a part of the family, all need to work hard for the family, the house, the car, the children are each like a mountain, overwhelmed people, now the social development is too fast, it is easy to keep up if you are not careful, it is easy to quarrel when you are stressed, and the transparency of society also makes people more like to compare, compare and compare, it is easy to be dissatisfied with each other. Some families have to live separately for financial reasons, which will weaken the relationship between husband and wife, and they will break up if they can't get along.

The most fundamental reason is that young people do not pay much attention to marriage, and they also feel that if such a marriage makes them more wronged, then they will divorce directly.

The most fundamental reason is that women cannot be treated equally in marriage, and if women give birth, they will also be discriminated against in the workplace. Young people are becoming more and more independent, and they can live well even if they live alone.

I think the most fundamental reason is that young people nowadays regard marriage as a child's play, which is particularly irresponsible, so there will be a situation where they can get married and leave if they want to.

I don't know when the divorce rate has been high, and young people account for the majority of them, the emergence of this phenomenon has to attract everyone's attention, now the marriage rate is decreasing year by year, and the divorce rate is increasing year by year, and continuing like this will definitely bring some adverse effects. <>

At this time, some people will have such questions, since the divorce rate of young people is so high now, why did they choose to get married in the first place? I think about this from the perspective of young people, in fact, young people don't think that divorce will happen to them when they get married, no one wants to catch such a trend, but then life can't go on, and young people don't worry as much as their elders, or they don't want to think about so many things, so they are also very decisive in the matter of divorce. If they knew before they got married that they would divorce in the future, then they would definitely not choose to get married in the first place.

Next, I will talk about the reasons why young people get married now. <>

Personally, I think that the reason why young people get married when they are not very old nowadays is, to put it bluntly, because of love. Because you love each other enough, you want to form a family with each other, even if you don't know this person very well, you may choose to marry each other. And once you really like someone, you may not consider many realistic factors, just like whether two people are suitable or not, they don't care, this kind of love brain, which is also a reason for the high divorce rate among young people.

Of course, there is another factor that young people are a little impulsive nowadays, I personally think that marriage needs to be seriously considered, it is not hasty, but there are many people who just regard marriage as child's play, and they may decide to get married as soon as their heads are hot, so the consequence of impulsive marriage may be divorce.

Because today's young people may just be impulsive when they get married, and then feel that two people love each other very much, so they get married, and they don't consider other factors, and after getting married, they find that they can not just love each other in life, so some people will choose to divorce.

Most of them got married because their parents urged them to get married and couldn't withstand the pressure of life. The expectations for marriage were too high, but I didn't expect that there would be so many expectations after marriage, which led to disappointment in life, so I chose to divorce.

It may be because they don't know much about the character of both parties at the beginning, or it may be because there is discord between the two parties after marriage, conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, parenting problems, and financial pressure, which may lead to divorce.

Because they were very in love with each other at the time, after all, no one was together for the sake of divorce when they got married, so the end of divorce was inevitable.

It is because the society has formed such a trend of scum, and when people fall in love and get married, they are generally more blind and impulsive, and many wheels do not consider practical reasons, and many people grow up in an unhappy family environment.

This is because the society is developing rapidly, and many people's economic conditions are already very good, and after getting married, they feel that this kind of life is not suitable for them, and they also pay special attention to their own improvement, and they are more concerned about their own feelings.

As we all know, now that we have a cooling-off period policy, why do we have a cooling-off period policy? It's because the divorce rate is too high now, and there are many young people who take divorce too seriously. The reason why some young people divorce at every turn is mainly because these young people, whose views have changed, are all people who have the ability to support themselves, and they are all half the sky, so they will not choose to endure any grievances.

Even some young people can get divorced just because they order any dish for dinner, which is not a big joke.

Now that there is a cooling-off period for divorce, it is hoped that young people can slow down when they encounter conflicts and contradictions after marriage, and divorce at every turn without a trivial matter. The divorce rate of young people is high, and the remarriage rate is also very objective, and there are those who divorce in the morning and remarry in the afternoon. In this way, isn't marriage a child's play?

There are also young people who can divorce and remarry as many as six times, which can only be said that young people nowadays have too little sense of responsibility and obligation in marriage. Divorce is not a big deal in their eyes, but whether they are in a good mood is the big deal. If young people's view of marriage does not change, the divorce rate will most likely not fall.

The divorce rate of young people remains high, mainly because after entering the state of marriage from a state of love, the role has not changed, and it is still a state of breaking up when you are in love, but it has changed to a divorce after a quarrel. In the final analysis, young people do not understand the concept of managing marriage at all, or are not willing to consider the concept of running marriage at all. Pre-marital and post-marital guidance for young people is very important and urgent.

I don't understand that young people nowadays are very self-conscious, in fact, they don't understand the essence of marriage at all, but they just feel that they are the only ones in the world, and if they are unhappy, they will make everyone unhappy, this kind of self-centered thinking is also very shocking.

Nowadays, the divorce rate of young people remains high, and they do not know how to manage marriage, and too much ego is the main reason.

Because many young people are very open-minded, and many young people are in better economic conditions, they will choose divorce if they feel unhappy in their marriage.

This may be because young people nowadays are not very good at managing love, so they are prone to divorce.

That's because young people nowadays are very willful, and they all treat marriage as child's play, not serious, and have no attitude.

Because young people are too hasty about marriage, many young people enter marriage without careful consideration before marriage, and find many inappropriate after marriage, and finally choose to divorce.

Because young people nowadays are easily carried away by love, and they have a lot of flash marriages, because they don't understand each other's character, they will divorce if they find that they are not suitable after being together, so the divorce rate will be very high.

Because young people nowadays have their own ideas, especially when they encounter difficulties, they are also very afraid of trouble, so they will choose to escape, and they will naturally divorce.