Why do many young couples end up divorced? What causes it?

In our lives now, we may be surprised to hear someone say who is divorced, but now we may not be surprised. Because now in life, divorce seems to have become a common thing for many young people.

First of all, there will be no improvisation for the sake of marriage.

Today's young people will not make do with marriage for the sake of marriage, in the previous marriage, many people after marriage, even if there are many dissatisfaction with married life, will not easily divorce. Because they will feel that divorce will be humiliating, and divorce will seem to be like they have some ulterior secrets. So even if the marriage is unhappy, many people will choose to continue to make do with it.

But today's young people don't think like this, as long as they feel that their married life is unsatisfactory and will not consider many other issues, they will directly choose divorce.

Secondly, there will be no grievances for the sake of marriage.

In the past, many people felt that divorce was a very shameful thing, so even if they suffered a lot of grievances in their marriage, they would not easily come to that point, so many people suffered too many grievances in marriage. Even if you cry every day, you will choose to swallow the tears in your stomach. But today's young people are different, as long as there is a side in the marriage that makes them feel wronged, they will decisively choose to divorce and find their own happy life.

Again, there will be no perfection for the sake of the child.

The reason why many people did not choose to divorce before was to give their children a complete family, so they would insist on not divorcing for the sake of their children. But this is not the case for young people nowadays, children are not very involved for them, and many people will give up their children for their new life.

So now we see that many young people will choose divorce as long as they feel uncomfortable in their married life.

Because there are many young people who are very realistic now, when they fell in love, they were really in dire straits, and they completely changed after marriage, some women were domineering and did not take their families seriously, so they forced men to have no status and led to divorce, and the other is that men have changed after marriage, that is, they are not so considerate when they are in love, they are lazy and lazy at home, and they don't want to do anything at all, they just play cards all day long, which woman can accept this kind of life, so they will divorce.

Nowadays, young people get married too quickly, so that after the real cohabitation, they find that there are many aspects that they don't see in front of them, and they will feel different from before, and they feel as if they are not married alone. I advise young people nowadays to live together for a period of time, and then when we see the most real side of each other's lives, and then consider whether it is suitable for marriage after running-in, and don't blindly rush to get married.

Living apart, disagreeing with each other, disagreeing with each other, discording, and slowly fading or disliking the relationship, each couple has their own reasons for separation, and it is good to manage the emotional world of their two people.

The reason why many young couples divorce is because they are not well thought out when they are together, and after they get married, they find that the two people are not suitable, and it has something to do with the fact that the two people are too young.

Now most couples want to divorce, because of social pressure, generally economic reasons, some husband and wife have no money, can not earn money to support the family and can not give each other a good happy life, or the husband and wife do not have a common language, and some of the personality is not suitable, the relationship is not harmonious, can not talk about it, generally because there is no money can not give the woman a good happy life let the husband and wife divorce!!

Nowadays, most couples will divorce, the main reason is that two people have no feelings together. And two people don't care about each other and don't care. Both sides are more indifferent. That's why there is divorce.

The previous sentence you said is wrong, as far as I know, most couples are not divorced, and you may be a little biased. If a couple will divorce, it must be that the relationship is gone, or that one party has done something unforgivable.

It is because they don't know how to tolerate each other, and they treat each other very badly, and they don't know how to tolerate each other's shortcomings, so there will be divorce.

Nowadays, the financial pressure of many families is very high, and there will be very serious quarrels, and this situation will occur.

Because everyone is reluctant to settle now, the openness of the concept of marriage makes them treat marriage more casually.

1.Raising a baby is a heavy task: Raising children requires a lot of time and energy, and couples often feel tired and stressed, which can easily lead to dissatisfaction or impatience with each other.

2.Differing parental attitudes: Couples may have different ideas and ways of treating their children as pure returners, which can lead to disagreements and disputes over the education of their children.

3.Uneven division of labor: When it comes to taking care of children, some tasks may be taken on more by one party, such as changing diapers, bathing, feeding, etc., and if the other party feels that they are not doing enough, it is easy to cause dissatisfaction.

4.Unbalanced time allocation: Raising children requires a lot of time, which can reduce the amount of time couples spend in communication and together, and the lack of interaction can easily lead to emotional alienation, which in turn can lead to conflicts.

5.Child preference for one parent: Some children may show a preference for one parent, which can easily lead to resentment and jealousy on the part of the other, leading to conflicts between the couple.

6.Constant stress: Children need to be taken care of constantly, which will bring certain pressure to the couple's physical and mental health, work and life, and if it continues for a long time, it will inevitably lead to fatigue and conflict between couples.

7.Insufficient communication: Husbands and wives are busy taking care of their children and cannot communicate in a timely manner, resulting in poor information transmission, lack of emotional communication, many problems cannot be effectively solved, and patience is easy to wear, resulting in conflicts between husband and wife.

Nowadays, most couples are divorced, because women are now more independent, and they don't want to wronged themselves in life, if they can't meet their needs, it is better to divorce.

Because now people will divorce once they have some conflicts, they are very selfish, they always want each other to take care of their feelings, and they are not very respectful of their feelings.

It is because there are many couples who are very impulsive, and they can't stand the slightest grievance in their marriage, and they will choose to divorce as long as there is a little conflict.

Because people are more open-minded now, they don't feel that two people have to live a lifetime, so they choose to divorce if it is not suitable.

Two people have lived for a long time, and they feel that the other party is not suitable for them at all, or their life attitude and personality are not suitable for them, so they will eventually divorce.

This is because people are particularly irrational in the face of feelings, and there are many times because of accumulated contradictions, or when they get married, they are in a hurry.

Because they found a lot of problems with each other after marriage, and after time running-in, they have no feelings for each other.

I don't know enough about it, life is dull, two people walking together in a hurry don't know enough, and I can't stand the blandness of life.

There are many reasons for this, but I think the most important reason is to make everyone's face gloomy so as not to affect the Chinese New Year.

1. In order not to affect the New Year.

Although the divorce rate is very high now, most people feel that they should not get divorced during the New Year's holidays.

On the one hand, this is unlucky, and on the other hand, it will affect the atmosphere of the New Year at home, so many people will deliberately avoid the New Year's festival, so it has become the peak of divorce after the year.

2. New Year's greetings are easy to be wronged.

During the Chinese New Year, everyone will inevitably visit relatives and friends, especially some families with many relatives, and the entire Spring Festival will be spent in the New Year's greetings.

The more people, the more contradictions there are, different families, different people have different ideas, young people are more likely to be wronged at this time, and the whole Spring Festival down, the couple has a belly of fire.

When the contradiction erupts to an irreconcilable level, the two will naturally go to divorce, and choosing to go through the divorce procedures after the year is the last respect for the Spring Festival.

Some people think that it is normal for a woman to marry into a man's house and go home with the man during the Chinese New Year, while some people think that men and women are equal, and it is only reasonable to go to one side for a year.

If this problem cannot be solved within the Jiafan court, then who will return to the house for the New Year will become the source of conflict between the husband and wife.

In fact, not only between husband and wife, the question of whose house to go back to during the New Year will also involve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, there are many women who can't bear the mother-in-law who originally promised her husband to go back to her parents' house with her, but suddenly regretted it before the year, unreasonable, women feel that they are not respected at home, so they chose to divorce after the year.