Why are so many women divorced now?

With the development of the economy, China's marital status has undergone great changes, mainly reflected in the decline in the marriage rate, the continuous increase in the divorce rate, and the postponement of the age of first marriage.

The logarithm of divorces and the divorce rate have been rising for a long time. From 1987 to 2020, the number of divorce registrations in China climbed from 580,000 to 3.73 million. From 1987 to 2019, the crude divorce rate climbed to.

In today's society, the lights are bright, the attraction outside is also very large, and the pressure of work and life is particularly great, sometimes both parties may be more irritable, giving the most gentle side to others, and giving the most irritable side to their families, some people can't bear the pressure of these families, and they can't bear the changes of the other half from the tenderness when they are in love to the irritable when they get married, so they all choose to divorce.

Feelings are not in place, or the relationship is broken down are the reasons for divorce, and now people are under too much pressure, but any little spark may trigger divorce, so the divorce rate remains high.

It may be that women now have to take care of their families and work to make money, and their quality of life has changed dramatically, and they feel that it is not worth it, so there will be many people who think this way.

The number of divorced men and women is the same, the simplest reason: not getting along, the actual reason, the three views do not agree.

Accidental reasons: Affected by film or television or something, regretting not being able to go back.

There are many factors in divorce, both men and women are the same, they both like the new and hate the old, and if your wife is not attentive to you, you should cherish it.

It seems that we will also see such people in life, after being divorced twice, they no longer take marriage seriously, the number of marriages has increased, and the number of divorces has also increased, like the woman in the show, at the age of 35, she has already had four marriages, and the third marriage is only two months. So why are there more and more divorces?

1. Use divorce as a solution to your problem.

This kind of person is psychologically immature and lacks an attitude towards marriage. Hello, I'm good, everyone's good days can be lived, and stumbling days are not willing to live. Once there is a little problem between the two people in the marriage, they choose to escape or blame each other, and once they can't escape, they will divorce and the problem will disappear.

To put it simply, there is not enough sense of responsibility.

2. There is a fundamental problem of its own.

Everyone generally thinks that divorce is the other half that they picked blindly, but after many divorces, they have to think about their own problems. This pattern of multiple divorces is usually due to the same or similar grounds. Therefore, one's own lack of one aspect or deviation of values is likely to be the root cause.

It is precisely because of Honghua's own problems that he is not aware of and cannot overcome. will make wrong choices again and again. The most common is vanity, there are girls with strong vanity, they love those who like to brag, but this kind of person is not a man who lives a down-to-earth life, so he will appear, constantly jump out of the siege, and fall into the same siege dilemma.

1. The economic problem is lacking dust.

In married life, many women are often in an economically disadvantaged position, not as rich as men, but are required to take on the same responsibilities as men to raise children and support families. Many women are worried about high housing prices, burden-bearing mortgages, and children's education, diet, and nutrition costs. Divorce also involves the spouses' property, including a house, car, household registration, taxes, and various stresses.

Many couples will bow to financial pressure, even if the marriage is unhappy, but if they are divorced, it will be more difficult to raise the family alone.

2. The problem of face and children.

Chinese attach great importance to face, and family ugliness is something that ordinary people do not want to mention, so many couples would rather break their teeth and swallow blood than easily choose divorce after the relationship breaks down. Because after two people get married, it is not only a problem for two people, but also a problem for two families. After the divorce, the husband and wife cannot face their parents, their respective relatives, relatives and friends, and outsiders pointing fingers behind their backs.

Many couples choose to be together for the sake of face, and they also choose to be together for the sake of their children. They are afraid that after the divorce, the children will have no father and no mother; They want to give better care to their children and protect their children's growth.

1. Most women in the demolition hall are not financially independent, do not have a good economic foundation, or choose to be a full-time mother after giving birth, and are completely financially dependent on men. When the marriage came to an end, Li Trembling was unable to raise the child alone and was forced to choose to give up the child.

2. Some women are more selfish, and when they divorce, they only think about their future life, and it is very difficult to live with children after divorce, and it is not good to remarry if they remarry, so they choose to give up their children.

3. When most people divorce, the man will go all out to fight for the boy's right to raise the boy, the man thinks that the boy is the root of his family and cannot be taken away by the woman, and the woman is not as dominant as the woman in terms of economic income, housing and other conditions, so she cannot fight for the custody of the child. The family that gives birth to a girl generally depends on the woman's opinion, and the girl can be raised by whomever she wants, but most of them are raised by the woman.

Therefore, I think that men and women should have children after marriage after careful consideration, and both parties are ready to be parents before deciding to have children, so that children can grow up in a loving family, and if the marriage breaks down, they should also consider which party the child is more suitable to live with, so as to minimize the harm to the child.