Why is society becoming more and more apathetic? Why is this society becoming more and more apatheti

1.The influence of the previous generation! At least I give money to beggars, and my dad will be sarcastic about me. The education of the previous generation is to teach us to mind less about other people's affairs, others are **!

2.If a kind person is not ruthless enough, and a person whose heart is not poisonous enough, it is difficult to make a lot of money, this is a vicious circle! When you come out to work, you know that if you want to make a lot of money, you have to put aside your humanity and dignity!

3.That's what most people think. I really want to help others, but I can't really afford it.

When everyone scolds passers-by for being indifferent, have you ever thought about it, the life or death of passers-by is not important? If you lose all your possessions for helping others, I think the families of passers-by will be completely shattered! If you are unlucky, you will be imprisoned, and you will have to lose your youth.

Think about what would happen to your family if you went to jail and your house and possessions were gone. Your parents are old and begging on the streets, your children have to drop out of school, your wife divorces you and remarries, your parents hate you, your children hate you, and your wife hates you!! Who will pity you then?

You don't know what little conscience you have in front of them!

We don't expect anything in return, we just want to be safe!!

There is a saying that if you see others as angels, then you live in heaven, and if you see others as demons, then you live in hell. At a time when everyone is asking what is wrong with the current society, has anyone ever asked themselves whether they are also indifferent? I don't know if this society is really as popular as advertised on **, but I think there are still a lot of good things around me, and I am still willing to do good things.

Don't take evil as small, don't take good as small and don't do it", what is good? When you walk down the street and see someone else's littered garbage on the ground, you pick it up and find a place to throw it away, that's good. When you sit on the bus and see someone in need come up and give him a seat, it's also good.

There are countless kinds of so-called good deeds, and it is not only when others are stolen and robbed can they be called righteous and courageous, and not all good deeds must have some unclear risks. Do a good deed every day, start from yourself, do something good every day, you will be in a happy mood, and you will feel much better when you look at the society.

Because of the increasing materiality, there is less and less communication between people.

The consequences of blind pursuit of economic development Lack of moral education Money worship Selfishness is prevalent Unable to control others Start with yourself!

It's none of your business, hang high.

Nowadays, human beings are pursuing alienation, not assimilation!

You're cold, I'm cold, everyone is cold, everyone is cold, it's really cold, it's a very simple truth.

the emergence of social apathy; It is a change caused by changes in socio-economic relations, and people's perception of the same thing will vary depending on their economic status. The lack of moral education will also produce the phenomenon of social indifference, which will make the masses of society have a weak sense of morality and be unable to adhere to the bottom line of morality, which will lead to the phenomenon of social indifference from the city. The disorder of social moral value orientation, the lack of social moral protection, and the negative influence of traditional moral culture are also manifestations of social indifference.

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1) The impact of socio-economic and social structural development.

Since the beginning of reform and opening up, the social economy has developed at a relatively rapid pace, and social wealth is accumulating at an astonishing rate. When people rely on their own abilities and resources to obtain economic benefits, there are disparities between individuals in each society because of their abilities and the resources they have learned. Since people only limit their sights to their own exclusive interests, this has led people to develop a relatively narrow and closed view of interests.

When people see other weaker former individuals or groups suffering difficulties or troubles, the stronger part of the people is first concerned about their own interests, if not directly.

If the relationship of interests is concerned, it will be bypassed, which will form a phenomenon of indifference.

2) The psychological role of the public When an individual encounters a crisis in the society and receives help from others, but is framed as the perpetrator by the rescued, this will leave a bad influence on other members of the society, and the psychology of the public will think that good people are not rewarded, so they will not.

Consciously reject helping others.

3) Lack of Moral Education The lack of moral education is another important reason for the phenomenon of social apathy, and all kinds of educational institutions pay more attention to the cultivation of professional qualities and ignore the cultivation and education of morality.

and socially desired behavior.

IV. The Influence of Traditional Concepts of Thinking Ancient precepts or proverbs, such as "nothing to do with oneself and hang high on one's own," and "it is better to do one thing than one thing less," are the traditional philosophies of the Chinese. Under the influence of this philosophy of life, people do not care about the suffering of others, but only seek self-preservation, whether it is rescue under normal circumstances, or when danger comes and requires a certain amount of alcohol, they are difficult to stand up, but only to disappear.

Look, wait, or avoid. These relatively backward traditional ideologies contribute to social apathy.

5) Educational attainment, practical factors and institutional factors.

The reason for the phenomenon of social apathy is that the education level of the public, the practical factors and the mechanism of the people are revered, the education level of the people is the code of conduct of the people, the reality of the coupons will directly affect whether people will interfere with the social phenomenon, and the market mechanism factor is that people are loyal to the society after their behavior, and the social infiltration will be public.

I have a lot of feelings, so let's talk about my own experience.

Tell a little thing that I have personally experienced before, After the college entrance examination ended the summer vacation, I rode across the province to Wenzhou, Zhejiang, and had a small accident that was known by the family, and then scolded and told us to go back, at the train station, of course, I had to move a bicycle up and put it on the other side of the railing, because I was thin and small and had little strength to move over, many people were watching next to me, so I asked a sturdy middle-aged man next to the lead Liangsha if he could help, guess what he said, he said: You can't move over, I can't move over...... Oh my God, I was stunned by my three views, this thing is very impressive, and there is such an indifference, I don't want to ...... anything that helps to carry it for a few seconds

Maybe I'm too kind to feel that this society is indifferent, I still helped a lot of strangers over the years, although I don't know each other, and even when I was a student, I had 2 times because I saw strangers have difficulty in borrowing money from Huaizhou, and there was no news later, and I knew it was **.

My kindness and zeal are almost worn out by this society......

Of course, there are also things that warm my heart, and when you receive thanks from others after helping others, you are really happy and feel that it is worth it.

The main reason is that everyone feels that life is not easy, and it is not easy to make money, so when they spend money, they will spend it on the bladeLife is not easy, and we are eager to meet warm-hearted people.

At home, it is good to have a warm-hearted lover who thinks of you in everything, speaks in a measured manner, and never makes you angry;

In the unit, there is a warm-hearted group, who don't care about everything, don't laugh or talk, and never talk to you, how good;

Outside, there is a group of warm-hearted people, there are people to help them in everything, everyone is kind, and they never blush with you, how good. If there is such an opportunity, I am afraid that he will be the happiest person in the world. I want to be such a person, I don't think anyone wants to.

However, looking back at myself, is he a person who thinks about his lover in everything at home? I always want my lover to treat myself well, but do I treat my lover well! The ancients said that respecting each other is like a guest, do you treat your lover as a guest?

Perhaps, it was okay when I got married for a while, but after a long time, my lover's face was wrinkled, not beautiful, and she was vulgar, so she got tired of it. There are frequent quarrels, and it is not pleasing to anyone who looks at them. So when you ask people to be nice to you, first you have to be nice to people.

Those who love love to return, and the love is deep when the love is true. On the contrary, complainers complain and ...... when they are upset

In the unit, you are eager to meet a group of warm-hearted groups, everyone is a group of kind, empathetic, do not care about things, the overall amount of others, smile at you every day, never quarrel with you. But have you done that? Do you give your brightest smile to your colleagues every day?

Do you think about your colleagues and leaders every day? Don't you ever take your anger out on others? If so, congratulations, you must be the most popular person and the happiest person; But the fact is that you always put your emotions on your face, one will be sunny and one will be cloudy, one will be bad, one will be that bad, and you will say right and wrong in front of your colleagues, although it is not a big deal, but it makes people feel that you are always a little wrong, colleagues are alienated from you, and the leader does not trust you, such a day can be called a good day.

Undermine our trust and make us lose recognition of our acquaintances. The "acquaintance society" emphasizes the rule of man rather than the rule of law, and most of the work is done by the familiarity of the relationship between people and the depth of feelings, and the closer the relationship, the more likely it is to achieve practical goals.

Such "acquaintance socialization" will inevitably evolve into "acquaintance pathology": weakening the function of the rule of law, diluting competitive incentives, exacerbating the spread of corruption and rent-seeking, and so on. It is not alarmist to say that the excessive development of the "acquaintance society" will eventually corrode the rule of law, destroy the market, and disintegrate harmony.

Traditional Chinese society is a "society of acquaintances", a "society of human feelings", a society of envy, and a focus on "courtesy and exchange", and sometimes even courtesy is greater than the law. Mr. Fei Xiaotong, a sociologist, has described this in detail: people treat different objects with them differently according to intimacy, internal and external, and familiar;

It is characterized by a personal relationship between people, through which people are connected to form a network of relationships, and "background" and "relationship" are typical discourses in the society of acquaintances. Once people are in trouble, once they encounter injustice, the first thing they think about is whether they have "acquaintances" and whether they can get "relationships".