Why do women usually become very ruthless after divorce? What points do you understand?

Sometimes, women seem to be weak in marriage, but in fact, many times they are far more ruthless than men in the way they handle marriage. Men usually deal with the breakdown of their marriage, usually by doing so in a good way, leaving enough money for the woman to live on, and usually breaking up friendships. If two people have children, the man will usually take the initiative to raise them, and even if the child is with a woman, he will often visit and help him in his life.

After a woman divorces, she generally becomes very ruthless, which has a lot to do with these reasons. This is not intended to be an intentional assessment of such behavior, but only to give a clearer understanding of these factors in the marriage and to address them as appropriately as possible.

In marriage, sometimes there is no complete right or wrong, and the breakdown of the marriage is the influence of various causes. It's not that the man is wrong, but sometimes women don't have an in-depth analysis of the problems in their marriage, and often blame the man for all kinds of problems.

Because he feels that he is not wrong, he has a special dislike for men in marriage, and it is not easy to rationally solve the rest of the matter. They don't want to have anything to do with their ex-husbands, including each other's children, so many women cut off all contact with their ex-husbands and their children after divorce. This in turn has a great impact on the psychological state of children, and many children become introverted, manic and have personality defects.

After the breakdown of the marriage, if it is a man, it is generally objective to solve the difficulties. Women generally speaking, every tenderness has turned into clouds, especially around them, there will be a lot of unsuccessful female friends, and a large group of people blame the world all day long.

Men's are not, women become more realistic in such an atmosphere.

There is only oneself in my heart, throwing away the past friendship and children, and all the things I do only consider whether it is beneficial to myself, and it is difficult to take into account the emotions of other people. Usually in order to please the present family, he gives up everything that endangers him.

A woman's mindset.

Unlike men, complex relationships are not usually resolved, and when things become complicated, women are often at a loss and can only adopt a simple one-size-fits-all form.

The key to marriage is a more complex problem, especially remarriage after divorce, how to deal with the relationship between the family and the ex-husband and children, women usually become very confused.

In real life, after a woman divorces, she usually becomes more practical, and even has some desperation. This is also the influence of various factors, the marriage is not completely right or wrong, even if it is broken, it is necessary to solve the marriage relationship, and solve the relationship between the previous husband and the children he has.

Because a woman may have a sense of fear of marriage after divorce, she becomes no longer trusting other people, so she appears to be ruthless.

Because she finally woke up to the fact that in this life, no one can be relied on, she can only rely on herself. How much you look forward to when you get married, how much pain you feel when you get divorced. If a woman is disappointed in a man in the end, and when she dies to a man, she will leave very ruthlessly.

When the marriage breaks down, then the woman will become more rational, so it will give people the illusion that they will become very ruthless.

Because women will want to divorce after thinking about it for a long time, and women will take custody of their children after divorce, and there is no chance of winning if they are not ruthless.

For various reasons, some people think that divorce is a point-pointing thing, and they may become more and more inferior or unwilling to socialize, and some people will release themselves and be themselves again because they get rid of an inappropriate marriage, rather than being a person who cares about others in marriage. Others will no longer believe in marriage and love because of the failure of their marriage, and overprotect themselves. Regardless, marriage is a very important experience in a woman's life, and a failed marriage has a great impact on a woman.

This is because many women will have misunderstandings about things after divorce, so their temperament will change drastically.

Divorce also has an adaptation period, everyone's adaptability is different, give yourself time to tidy up, reflect on your previous life, learn lessons, say goodbye to your past self, and welcome a new self.

Marriage is a second life for women, and the quality of married life is directly related to a woman's living state. In the face of an unhappy marriage in which the relationship between husband and wife has weakened, what kind of mentality does a divorced woman have towards her feelings and life?

1. Loneliness. After the divorce, women feel powerless, because they have lost the help of daily life, especially at night, and are very worried about spending the night alone. You have been divorced, women must adjust their state of mind and do not have to lose self-confidence.

2. Expect to be cared for.

After a divorce, a woman undoubtedly feels like a victim, she expects to be understood and valued by others, and therefore sometimes she expects the mercy of a man or the attention of a loved one.

3. Fear. Divorce is a great damage to women, and some people cannot accept it, and even have mental abnormalities. Because they feel that their previous efforts have only achieved such results.

Sometimes there is a state of mind of fear and worry, which makes them pack themselves tightly and are afraid of suffering a little damage.

Of course, after the divorce, women are heartbroken, no matter how much they hate the other party, at least the previous memories are also touching and sweet. Therefore, after a divorced woman, she thinks more or less about her husband.

Divorced women may look at feelings more lightly, and pay more attention to the state of life, all aspects of bits and pieces, so divorced women basically have no enthusiasm for feelings, and have a deeper understanding of life.

A divorced woman, with the experience of divorce, will be very cautious about the next marriage, he will definitely find a reliable one that can make him feel secure, may lower some requirements, do not pay much attention to appearance, but care more about character and economic ability. will easily enter into a relationship, and will be very cautious about marriage.

This kind of thing is not the same for everyone, some people are divorced without brains in this regard, and they can't wait to find another man to marry, he just can't do without men, and there are people who need men to support themselves, and people themselves have the ability to support themselves, and after divorce, they don't want to get married again, he feels that men are unreliable.

Everyone is different, it is still related to the pattern and vision of people, if you see through it, you may live better, but if you can't think about it, you may always be depressed.

Some don't believe in the next relationship, and some are eager to meet a good relationship.

I have come into contact with some divorced single women, although the reasons for divorce are different, but the women after the divorce are basically sensitive and fragile. sensitive to the point where friends who have been friends for many years can no longer continue to interact; Fragile to brittle but not weak, only the mouth is hard. Alas, how pitiful and pathetic!

And such emotions can't be revealed, because she is afraid of being pitied, and it is not easy to comfort her. My husband, my husband and wife can't mention anything when they go to **, because I'm afraid of being sensitive!

What kind of mentality does a divorced woman have towards her feelings and life, I personally think that everyone's emotional life is different, so his mentality is also different, and under normal circumstances, divorced women will be more cautious about their feelings.

A divorced woman is equivalent to a hurt relationship, so she is more serious and responsible for the next relationship.

You should become bland in your feelings, want to be better to yourself, and still have hope in your life.

At the beginning, I felt very bad about my work, because I had lost the ability to make money, but slowly I would make my ability stronger and stronger, because I definitely wanted to live.

In their eyes, the so-called feelings may not be as important as economic conditions. So in the next relationship, he will definitely put the economic conditions first, because he already has the feeling he likes, so he won't value it so much, because he knows that no matter how good the relationship is, it will slowly fade over time, and only a good enough economy can maintain the relationship.

This is mainly divided into ages, and if you are older, the main thing you value is to be able to live.

Under normal circumstances, if a woman is divorced, I think he may be very disappointed in his relationship and will not have the idea of getting married for the time being.

The reason why a woman's temperament changes greatly after divorce is actually because there is a seed of hatred buried in her heart. After a divorce, I want to let go of myself completely and don't care about other people's opinions, after all, there are too many people who have divorced since ancient times, and they will never be the first person to divorce. Divorce hurts a woman a lot, it consumes her youth, she gives everything with a certain person, but there is nothing in return, and there will inevitably be some complaints in her heart.

However, I have also thoroughly seen through men and love, and if I want to start anew, most women will not choose second marriage after divorce, so let's find out more about it!

1. Why does a woman's temperament change drastically after divorce?

There are two main reasons for the great change in temperament, the first is that I want to live a more wonderful life. Due to the constraints of the family, many things can not be done, such as even having a drink with friends at night, depending on the face of the husband, after the divorce, it is very free, and no one can take care of himself at all. You can pursue the life you want and do the work you want to do.

The second point is out of hatred. It was too painful to be with my ex-husband, and I still loved my husband more at first, but then this love turned into hate, and after the marriage relationship ended, I slowly converted these hatreds into motivation, and my personality became cheerful.

Second, how much does divorce hurt a woman?

Divorce can be devastating for women, in addition to dealing with complex family relationships.

Also take good care of the children. Even if custody.

If you don't get it, you have to pay the child a fixed living allowance every month, and you have to take care of the feelings of your ex-husband's family every time you see the child. People's youth is particularly short, and no one wants to divorce until the last resort. In the dead of night, it is possible to cry alone, and this kind of heart will never be told to others, and people have a lot of pain when they become adults, and they can only bear it alone.

In short, divorce seems to hurt a woman a lot on the surface, but not divorce may hurt even more. For some women, divorce is the best option so that life can start anew.

The first point is divorce, and then you can see through a lot, so your temperament will change greatly, and the second point is that divorce will hurt a woman a lot, and her heart will be tortured a lot, so her personality is completely different.

I think the main reason why women's temperament changes greatly after divorce is that the pain brought to them by this marriage is very great, which also leads them to change their personality after divorce to find a new life; Divorce is still very harmful to women, because in this marriage, the damage they suffer is indelible.

In life, I will no longer believe in love, and I will no longer rely on anyone, and there will be a big change in temperament, which will affect the person's personality, interpersonal affairs, and interpersonal communication will become unsympathetic and loving.

Because I put a lot of effort into this relationship, my temperament will change greatly after the divorce, which is affected by various factors.

In the progress of marriage, there are usually many unpleasantness, and it is a lifetime to survive, and if you can't survive, you can only break up peacefully. For most of these married lives that can't get old, most of them are meaningless, and after divorce, women should be ruthless and live their own lives to fake their happiness. Good women usually understand that kind of big truth, and feel that they don't need to spend their energy on meaningless things.

Most of the desperate women can settle their hearts very early and find their own happiness. And there are some women who have been in contact with men, and men's every move will inevitably endanger women's lives, and in the long run, men and women will not be able to live effectively, even if they can't be together, why harm each other.

Some emotional psychology experts say that a woman's heart is usually not big, so small that it can only fit one person. When there is another man living in a woman's heart, no matter how good the men around her are, the woman will not treat him sincerely, because their hearts really can't be put in. A woman who is in contact with her husband after a divorce is usually still in love with her ex-husband.

This kind of woman's heart has long been occupied by her ex-husband has a certain part, even if the man next to her is good to the woman, the woman can't take out all her heart and treat the man with sincerity. And the ruthless woman is different, the woman's ruthlessness thinks that her heart is no longer moving with her ex-husband, and she can accept her feelings again with sincerity and sincerity.

Most of the women are all indecisive, I still remember the classic episode in the youth idol drama, the female protagonist and the male protagonist want to break up, but the male protagonist is hard to pursue, and the heroine's indecision finally gets back together, there is such a sentence, as long as the woman is not heartbroken, as long as the man does not want to break up, the two are inseparable, when a woman is ruthless to a man, it does let go when it represents a woman. Only a woman who really lets go of a relationship can embrace her own life. Be true to yourself, mend a damaged heart of yourself, and then accept the love of the man next to you, and once again treat yourself with sincerity and sincerity to be good to men.

This kind of woman can be regarded as a really good woman.