How does it feel to fail twice for the same reason?

Failing twice for the same reason makes me feel very annoyed, very regretful, and very hateful to myself. I wonder why I didn't pay more attention to the first mistake.

There are often many times in life, we will fail many times for a certain reason, but failure is the mother of success, only the number of failures, we know the shortcut to success, how happy it will be, but during this period, we will also be very annoyed! Hate yourself, why at that time, don't pay more attention to the reasons for failure, so that on the road to success, we will take fewer detours and avoid some stumbling blocks.

For example, when we were students, we did math problems or Chinese problems, or English problems, and we would make mistakes again and again, not because we were not familiar with its grammar or formulas, but because we relied on our own feelings to fall into mistakes again and again, and this has become inertia, and we don't know how to deliberately correct it, which will lead us to fail again and again. <>

I failed twice for the same reason, and the biggest feeling is special chagrin and regret, I will hate myself very much, why don't I stop being careful, no longer be strict with myself, and I will think that I knew this was the case, why bother in the first place.

But there are also people who are particularly optimistic, who believe that this failure will pave the way for future success and reduce major mistakes in the future.

There is a famous saying that Daxing ignores the details, and does not give up small gifts, and there is no need to care too much about some small details, and let yourself fall into a difficult situation and confused situation, because this is not conducive to our future actions. When we fail again and again, we must think that there is still a lot of way to go in life, failure once, twice, three times, every time is a common thing in life, only the final success will become the ultimate winner!

The feeling of failure must be bad, angry, surprised.

I've failed twice on the same issue, and I'm definitely disappointed at first, but I think it's okay to take advantage of the fact that the iron is hot after the loss and summarize what exactly went wrong. Since they have been wrong twice in a row, it means that there must be something wrong with that place or method. If you don't always review and find out what the problem is, then you will continue to make mistakes.

In fact, the reason why many people succeed is not how many times they do the same thing, but because they continue to learn lessons, sum up experience, and finally get a good method through failure again and again.

Industrious people will constantly use their minds to think and create; Lazy people will only follow the old-fashioned method and repeat the mechanical task to complete the task. The final difference between the two of them is very large, and their fates will be very different. The former will go further and further on the road to success; And the latter can only linger in place.

Some people may not have so much confidence in doing things, they may be afraid before doing it, and they will finally fail to do it once. Over time, he would get discouraged, feel like he couldn't do it, and stop trying. Maybe he was only one step away from success, but he didn't dare and lost confidence to persevere, so he failed.

Therefore, when we do things, we must not only have a mind to think but also have confidence, and continue to cheer ourselves up. You know, success isn't that easy. Everyone has experienced a long period of low times before they succeed.

So, until you don't succeed, all the effort is worth it, and you must not be defeated by yourself.

What else can you feel other than blaming yourself for being stupid. But don't blame yourself too much, if you live long enough and look back on your life experience, you will find that you are in the same pit, and you definitely fall more than once or twice, and maybe even fall into the same pit three or five times.

Don't think that you can really "eat a trench and grow a wisdom".

Don't think that "a lesson from the past, a teacher for the future".

If we could avoid repeating the mistakes of the past, there would not be so many failures in the world.

It seems that Jack Ma's father said something similar in an interview, which probably means: let young people listen less to the speeches of successful experts. Learn more about how others fail, because there are thousands of reasons for success, and there are only one or two reasons for failure.

If you fail once, sum up your experience and fight again.

The second time I failed again, it means that the first summary is not in place, and there are still parts that I haven't noticed, and when I fight again for the third time, try to avoid it.

It's not terrible to fail, it's not terrible to fail for the same reason, it's terrible that you lose the courage and motivation to fight again, and you'll never be seen again.

Defeat after defeat and defeat after defeat, imagine that the order of order will create a completely different result.

I feel angry and disappointed, because I probably don't know that something went wrong, or that I have noticed such a problem but failed. At this time, there will be a sense of anger towards yourself or the reason for the failure, more than a sense of failure. Let's talk about my own experience, it's a small thing, but it feels very real.

I love food and I love to cook. I usually like to eat braised pork, but once after eating that jar of meat in a restaurant, the color and aroma of the meat were deeply imprinted in my mind. So I decided to try it at home, and after buying all the ingredients and doing all the preliminary work, I entered the most important level of making this braised pork - sugar.

It's easy to add sugar, but it's hard to boil that brownish-red thick and bright sugar. Although few people are willing to use sugar color because of the existence of red soy sauce now, the color of the real braised pork that has been colored with sugar cannot be compared with the color without Tang color.

The key to the sugar color is to master the heat, after the heat, the sugar color will become black and the taste is bitter, and if the heat is not enough, the color of the braised pork will not be bright enough, so it is very important to master the heat. So I started my first attempt. Theoretically, when all the sugar has melted and there are no small bubbles, you can put the meat in the pan.

I always felt that there were bubbles, so I didn't put the meat in the pot for a long time. As a result, the first pot was mush. I think it's hard to start everything, and it's a second time.

Just when I was hesitating to put the meat in the pot, I felt that there were still bubbles and I was stunned for a while, and it turned out to be mushy again. I was angry at the time, not lost, angry, angry at why I could repeat the same mistake in the same place, or even the same hesitation. At this time, the anger is definitely greater than the loss, because there is a feeling of self-denial in it.

Failing twice for the same reason can really make people feel angry.

Remorseful, angry, and wanting to beat himself. It's a serious problem not to change what can be changed. Only by eating a trench and growing a wisdom can we grow. At the same time, it can also motivate yourself not to make the mistake of failing twice for the same reason in the future.

Fail a thousand times, ten thousand times, that's also your own business, don't worry about it.

Summary. So, dear, you are quite right to think this way. Because all our experiences are our treasures. Good or bad, the feeling is that we have to reflect and summarize, and strive for progress, so that we can tap those potential wealth.

Good afternoon<> dear! Actually, it's quite difficult to do something. You have to have a goal, a direction, a method, perseverance, a good Wang Xi mentality, and be able to persevere.

There are also a lot of obstacles to the external lead. Last time we failed, we face it calmly and do an in-depth review, and we can find out where the problem is. The next time you practice it, you can avoid pitfalls, and the chances of success are greater.

So, Han Liqin, you are quite right to think this way. Because all our experiences are the wealth of my old gods. Good or bad, the feeling is that we have to reflect on the losses and summarize the losses, and strive for progress, so that we can tap those potential wealth.

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Failed several times or try again, the reasons are as follows: 1, only by insisting on you can have hope of success, not insisting that you don't even have hope, giving you a chance is also a chance to life, life will also give you a chance, success will always give people who are prepared, we look forward to a better life beckoning to us. 2. If you want to succeed, you have to persevere, don't give up until you get to Zui, you have a chance to succeed, one or two failures will knock down your perseverance, then you will never have the opportunity to realize your dreams.

4. No one's life will be smooth sailing, and it is only a matter of time before success is faced with an indifferent attitude to face temporary failure.

Do you want to try again after failing several times?

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Failed several times or try again, the reasons are as follows: 1, only by insisting on you can have the hope of success, do not return to the field to insist that you do not even have hope, to give you a chance is also to give life a chance, life will also give you a chance, success will always give people who are prepared, we look forward to a better life beckoning to us. 2. If you want to succeed, you have to persevere, and if you don't get to Zui, don't give up, so that you can have a chance to succeed in the state, and if you fail once or twice, you will knock down your own perseverance, and you will never have the opportunity to realize your dreams.

4. No one's life will be smooth sailing, and it is only a matter of time before success is faced with an indifferent attitude to face temporary failure.

Kiss the following is an extension for you [too open and ruined]: the way to regain your strength after failure F: 1. Accept what happened, the first thing you should do after failure is to accept it and accept it.

Don't ignore, deny or hide it, you failed and now you don't do anything to change it, accept it, and know it's good. Failure always happens, and if you accept it and decide to do something about it, you will find that everything is not a big deal. 2. Take your own responsibility, everyone will experience failure!

Things won't always go your way, but someone should take responsibility for the failure. You must take responsibility for your actions, choices, and decisions, and never blame others and hold them accountable for your failures, passing the buck will surely lead to disaster.